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I think I missed something here. People leave because they think there is something better somewhere else even if it is just less pain.

it is very simple i think sometime black women want too muchand dont put enough out. they say u get back what u put in, so if u dont put **** in how do u expect to get something back. sometimes i dont think women understand that, and they think that they are so deserving of things, just because. comprimise, what! thats the responce u get, cause at the end of the day nobody dont want to give in so u can get along. but when u about to leave they want to tell u how much and what u mean to them by that time its too late. im about to give up not on women(or black women for the record) but the one i have now makes it realy hard for me to stay around, and i have kids but got damn when will i get some relief. never it seems like, but women out there if any reads this if u got a man give him what he wants cause he will do the same and if he dont then **** him. dont be like me and feel like u cant leave cause u got kids, im about to go bout my business and really consider my next relationship.