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While I await your answer as to WHY DO SOME WOMEN CHEAT, permit me to
mention some reasons:
(1) Because she finds a boy 25yrs younger, willing to go to bed with
her, and 8 yrs older than her oldest daughter, with whom he will also go
to bed with when he finds the mother's cheeks start to hang down like a
scrotum. Or before.
(2) Because, like men, she believes she will absorb youth and look
younger, while the relationship lasts.
(3)Because she accepted or solicited the offer to get material things; A
property, which she will throw him out from; A room added on to her
house. A new house; Her floor tiled etc. etc.
(4)Because she and her family (including her husband) was in serious
need and another man or men were offering to help only if they can sink
into her flesh or suck the daylights out.
(5)Because she believes that if she seduces the Boss, she will get
promotion, favours, or if the Boss is a Doctor, she will get free
examination.
(6) Etc.etc.
Some women swear on a whole stack of Bibles, that they have NEVER
cheated on their mate until they make a child for a next man. Plenty
women who say they NEVER cheated are lying. One woman says: " A machete
swiped in water leaves no mark" until they contract an STD WHICH THEY
WILL TAKE TO THEIR HUSBAND. If he could not have obtain the evidence
before? Now he has it.
Some women (and men)do not cheat, because they love their Spouses and
they cannot think of, or they resist the thoughts of cheating.

WHY DO SOME MEN CHEAT?:
(1) They want to go to bed with as many women as they can, to count
their conquest.
(2) They frequent places that always have sexy women loking for money.
One day, they are bound to go to bed (maybe for free or almost free)
with one of those sexy ladies who has been trying to get them started or
converted. Break the ice!
(3) Their spouse (and some women too) is terminally or very ill.

(4) Because they get more and more aquainted with a very agreeable and
attractive co-worker, regardless of age. Calling teach other 'sweet
names 'like 'Honey; Love; Sugar; Baby'etc.etc and not: "Mrs, Miss or
Mister etc. etc. They saw it coming too late and it occupied their
thoughts when they are trying to sleep at night. They maintain and
nurture the 'wet- dream' thoughts untill they spring on each other like
moneys on vines.
(5) Their spouse is cheating on them, and the only way they feel the
pain will ease is if they get someone to cherish them similiarly.
(6) Their spouse is cheating on them, and the only way they feel they
can avenge is to do it back.
(7) Because a woman (husbandless or otherwise) gave them a chance, and
they feel that it is not manly to dodge or refuse.
(8) Etc. etc.

Why some men don't cheat?:
(1) Because they love their wives.
(2) Because they do not have funds to pay for the cheat.
(3) Because they have not obtained a willing participant that they are
satisfied with yet.
(4) Etc. etc.

grieving... just so you know.. i have never cheated on anyone EVER!!!
and the cervical cancer that i am now bnatteling came from an std that
HE brought home to me at some point in our 7 year relationship that
produced MY 4 beautiful children.. i am a bit irritated by the
implication that only women bring home the std's to their husbands, to
my experience it has been the other way around.....

grieving... i apoligize... i didnt mean to vent my frustrations at you,
i know that you didnt mean it as exclusively women, and i do understand
that you had ment both of your senarios to go both ways..
sorry again

There is no excuse for cheating.

My X waited untill she finished with her masters degree in accounting,
before she started cheating on me ALL last summer.

The bussiness trips werent about bussiness. But I trusted her.

I always trusted her. I was never jealous. I loved her with all of my
soul. Just to have my heart stomped on, again. Now after almost 5
months have went by and the divorce has been final for a month, she
wants me back. She realizes much too late what she sacrificed.


Im not going to take her back, now or ever. I wasted way to much time
already, and now it is time to love someone who will appreciate it, and
return it.

So here I am.

*Angel gives Klugman a Hug*
It sounds like she didn't deserve a real man like you
anyway!

Thanks sweety.

your welcome anytime LOL

I have been cheated on in my last 2 relationships. But I have never done
it myself. So here's some stats on cheating!

Infidelity Statistics

Menstuff® has compiled the following information on infidelity
statistics.

It's tough to get a handle on how many of us are having affairs, given
the inherent secrecy.

22 percent of married men have strayed at least once during their
married lives.
14 percent of married women have had affairs at least once during their
married lives.
Younger people are more likely candidates; in fact, younger women are as
likely as younger men to be unfaithful.
70 percent of married women and 54 percent of married men did not know
of their spouses' extramarital activity.
5 percent of married men and 3 percent of married women reported having
sex with someone other than their spouse in the year1997.
22 percent of men and 14 percent of women admitted to having sexual
relations outside their marriage sometime in their past.
90 percent of Americans believe adultery is morally wrong.
50 percent of Americans say President Clinton's adultery makes his moral
standard "about the same as the average married man,'' according to a
Time-CNN poll.
61 percent of Americans thought adultery should not be a crime in the
United states; 35 percent thought it should; 4 percent had no opinion.
17 percent of divorces in the United States are caused by infidelity.
Source: Associated Press
Up to 37% of men and 22% of women admit to having affairs. Researchers
think the vast majority of the millions of people who visit chat rooms,
have multiple "special friends”. Dr. Bob Lanier, askbob.com
Recent studies reveal that 45-55% of married women and 50-60% of married
men engage in extramarital sex at some time or another during their
relationship (Atwood & Schwartz, 2002 - Journal of Couple & Relationship
Therapy)
Only 46% of men believe that online affairs are adultery. DivorceMag
80% think it's Ok to talk with a stranger identified as the opposite
sex. 75% thinks it's ok to visit an adult site.
About 60 percent of men and 40 percent of women will have an affair at
some point in some marriage "Monogamy Myth", Therapist Peggy Vaugn
About 24 percent of men and 14 percent of women have had sex outside
their marriages, according to a Dec. 21, 1998 report in USA Today on a
national study by the University of California, San Francisco.
Affairs affect one of every 2.7 couples, according to counselor Janis
Abrahms Spring, author of After the Affair,as reported by the Washington
Post on March 30, 1999. Ten percent of extramarital affairs last one
day, 10 percent last more than one day but less than a month, 50 percent
last more than a month but less than a year, but 40 percent last two or
more years. Few extramarital affairs last more than four years.
A lesser known fact is that those who divorce rarely marry the person
with whom they are having the affair. For example, Dr. Jan Halper’s
study of successful men (executives, entrepreneurs, professionals) found
that very few men who have affairs divorce their wife and marry their
lovers. Only 3 percent of the 4,100 successful men surveyed eventually
married their lovers.
Frank Pittman has found that the divorce rate among those who married
their lovers was 75 percent. The reasons for the high divorce rate
include: intervention of reality, guilt, expectations, a general
distrust of marriage, and a distrust of the affairee.
One-third of divorce litigation is caused by online affairs. This Is An
Internet E-Mergency, The Fortino Group
Approximately 70% of time on-line is spent in chat rooms or sending
e-mail; of these interactions, the vast majority are romantic in nature.
Dr. Michael Adamse, PhD., co-author of Affairs of the Net: The
Cybershrinks' Guide to Online Relationships
Because of the anonymity, affordability, and accessibility of Internet
sexual resources, the computer can accelerate the transition from "at
risk" to "addicted," as well as the progression of sex addiction in
those with a history of prior sexual compulsivity. Cooper et al Survey
8-10 percent of Internet users become hooked on cybersex. Dr. Bob
Lanier, askbob.com
Spouses who get hooked on Internet porn are a growing complaint among
spouses filing for divorce, according to a survey of 350 divorce
attorneys. "If there's dissatisfaction in the existing relationship, the
Internet is an easy way for people to scratch the itch," said lawyer J.
Lindsey Short, Jr., president of the American Academy of Matrimonial
Lawyers, which conducted the study.
57% of people have used the Internet to flirt.
38% of people have engaged in explicit online sexual conversation and
50% of people have made phone contact with someone they chatted with
online.
Evidence proves there is a high correlation between on-line infidelity
and subsequent real-time sexual affairs.
Evidence supports the existence of disinhibition, accelerated intimacy,
and hyper-sexual online behavior that can easily lead to real-time
infidelity
31% of people have had an online conversation that has led to real-time
sex.
It is estimated that 53% of all people will have one or more affairs
during their lifetime.
Look at the numbers from Playboy Magazine:
-2 out of 3 women and 3 out of 4 men admit they have sexual thoughts
about co-workers.
-86% of men and 81% of women admit they routinely flirt with the
opposite sex.
-75% of men and 65% of women admit to having sex with people they work
with.
The fact is that human beings are NOT monogamous by nature. That means
they cheat.
Experts say that a gut instinct is the most powerful indicator of a
cheating lover. Adultery statistics state that 85% of woman who feel
their lover is cheating are correct. 50% of men who feel their lover is
cheating are right. The first clue is seldom obvious. Typically, it's a
"feeling" that something is different.
Cheating spouse statistics confirm that 50 and 70 percent of married men
(between 38 and 53 million men) have cheated or will cheat on their
wives. One study found that 2/3 of the wives (26 to 36 million women)
whose husbands were cheating had no idea their husbands were having an
affair - largely because they failed to recognize the telltale signs.
According to Annette Lawson, author of Adultery, published in 1989 by
Basic Books. "The various researchers arrive at a general
consensus…suggesting that above one-quarter to about one-half of married
women have at least one lover after they are married in any given
marriage. Married men probably still stray more often than married
women—perhaps from 50 percent to 65 percent by the age of forty."
According to Maggie Scarf, author of Intimate Partners, first published
in 1987 by Random House, re-issued in 1996 by Ballentine.
"Most experts do consider the 'educated guess' that at the present time
some 50 to 65 percent of husbands and 45 to 55 percent of wives become
extramaritally involved by the age of 40 to be a relatively sound and
reasonable one." According to Peggy Vaughan, author of The Monogamy
Myth, first published in 1989 by Newmarket Press (third edition
published 2003).
Conservative infidelity statistics estimate that “60 percent of men and
40 percent of women will have an extramarital affair. These figures are
even more significant when we consider the total number of marriages
involved, since it's unlikely that all the men and women having affairs
happen to be married to each other. If even half of the women having
affairs (or 20 percent) are married to men not included in the 60
percent having affairs, then at least one partner will have an affair in
approximately 80 percent of all marriages. With this many marriages
affected, it's unreasonable to think affairs are due only to the
failures and shortcomings of individual husbands or wives."
Note that the above adultry statistics of the prevalence of affairs were
made more than a decade ago; so based on changes in society during the
intervening years, the current percentage of the population who have had
affairs is probably somewhat HIGHER. For instance, the continuing
increase of women in the workplace and the increase of women having
affairs on the Internet means that the numbers for women having affairs
is probably similar to those for men—about 60%.

Izzie. Did I say that only women bring home STD'S eventually. I will
read what I said again. And if I did I am sorry. What I meant however is
that sooner or later,, an unfaithful spouse WILL

bring home an STD. And THAT IS HOW THEY GET CAUGHT. You might remember
that when that unfairthful spouse is with someone else; that someoneelse
is ALSO with someone else (most times) wo is with someone else, who is
also with someoneelse. And it goes on. So now you are in what is called:
"A RISK GROUP!" sO ONE OF THE PERSONS IN THE risk group MUST catch
something. Mind you; sometimes a woman can have a yeast infection just
so eh? And nothing in what I said is meant to attack you. I was trying
to highlight GENERAL things that happens. So dont worry y'hear

And I'm STILL waiting to hear WHY SOME WOMEN CHEAT. For SOME DO! DO
THEY NOT?

Even Preachers, male and female, love to beat up on the man. Every time
they want an illustration of a BAD SPOUSE, they always use the man. And
men Preachers are afraid to use the woman as the illustration because
they are afraid the women say that they do not like women. You know
that?

Sanna. Could I borrow your statistics someday?

male or female has nothng to do with why you cheat or don't. It's
ingrained into human nature to covet to one degree or another. men and
women alike a lot of times want what we believe to be unattainable and
sometimes we go after it. when your in a relationship you are exclusive
to the other party and sometimes you start thinking about what you may
be missing and someone catches your eye and then you have a decision to
make do you go after it or do you not. a lot of times men and women
alike decide to go after "it". it may not start off as "sex" but your
aware of the possibility. You think you'll never get caught and figure
you'll end it before you ever do. at least thats the explanation my
therapist gave me for my husbands actions.LOL i was in a nine year
marriage never cheated he started about a year into it and after the
second time i didn't care anymore. so i believe the other party will
only do what you allow them too and my ex's cheating was my own fault.
People never change male or female if you'll cheat with someone you'll
cheat on them and if you stay with a cheater your asking for it.

ORRRRR!!! SANNA! Yoy are a Gemini. You are my sister?!

My twin sister?

my question would have to be...Why is it that when you finally pour
heart out to them, thats when you find out for yourself that they have
been seeing someone else?

I would also like to say: men think the only way to cheat is sexually. I
think you can cheat on someone emotionally also.