Topic: How many?
BobbyJ's photo
Tue 09/16/08 11:59 AM


I think he's making it up

you know you are probably right, he is just seeking attention!


Attention? I've beeen married and divorced four times. Looking for number five! I gotta catch up to Larry King!

BobbyJ's photo
Tue 09/16/08 12:01 PM



you guys/gals actually believe him in that he could find three women who'd want to date him?

i guess i'm just cynical


Cynicism is not at all a desireable quality! No date for you! LOL!


got a newsflash for you, none of the women responding to your thread WANT to date you, you are dishonest, not a quality I am looking for.


Not a big deal! I've in person dated only three or four in the past six months from this site. Not at all a dent in the numbers if I were not to date anyone else from here.

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Tue 09/16/08 12:01 PM


I think he's making it up


LOL! Ahhh, as I told my three boys as I raised them; it's all about personality! I have no need to make anything up.

I have a hard time figuring out why so many men on this site have a hard time getting a date. What I see is that they lack confidence, the capacity to hold a conversation and they don't develop their personality.
no... they just lack the ability to lie and decieve those they choose to date. Those pesky morals always seem to get in their way.

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Tue 09/16/08 12:02 PM


my first question before I offer any advice... do any of these 3 women think that you are dating her exclusivly?


Each thinks they have me exclusively. Hey, it's dating, right? Why should I waste a lot of my time being with just one when I can so easily increase the odds of finding the "right" one?! Gotta watch those caller id's! LOL!


You should probably start by being honest and letting them know you're dating other women.

BobbyJ's photo
Tue 09/16/08 12:05 PM

any one want to be extremely amused?? try reading his profile...

i am a christian so please be the same???

WOW... some balls you got there buddie...
good luck




I don't understand. So Christians can't date multiple members of the opposite sex. Ummm, did I say I was bedding down with each? This is DATING! DATING, got it?! I never date any one of them for more than a month, at most. By that time, I have learned enough about them to either move on to another or make them exclusive by dropping any others.

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Tue 09/16/08 12:08 PM


any one want to be extremely amused?? try reading his profile...

i am a christian so please be the same???

WOW... some balls you got there buddie...
good luck




I don't understand. So Christians can't date multiple members of the opposite sex. Ummm, did I say I was bedding down with each? This is DATING! DATING, got it?! I never date any one of them for more than a month, at most. By that time, I have learned enough about them to either move on to another or make them exclusive by dropping any others.


if you are just dating and it isn't anything serious, why then are you so concerned that you might get their name wrong, or get mixed up with what someone else told you?

if you weren't doing anything that you thought was wrong, why the worry?

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Tue 09/16/08 12:09 PM



I think he's making it up

you know you are probably right, he is just seeking attention!


Attention? I've beeen married and divorced four times. Looking for number five! I gotta catch up to Larry King!


I agree with Jill, you're making this sh!t up to get attention, and unfortunately we're giving it to you. As for your 4 divorces, that's nothing to brag about, it's pretty sad actually. If I were your kids, I'd be embarrassed to have a dad who was trying to be a "player" in his golden years. But whatever, you got your 15 minutes in the spotlight, and hopefully everyone else on this site is as over it as I am.:tongue:

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Tue 09/16/08 12:11 PM


my first question before I offer any advice... do any of these 3 women think that you are dating her exclusivly?


Each thinks they have me exclusively. Hey, it's dating, right? Why should I waste a lot of my time being with just one when I can so easily increase the odds of finding the "right" one?! Gotta watch those caller id's! LOL!


no that's called "PLAYING" and you, sir .. are the "PLAYER" and they are the "PLAYED"

There are places in hell reserved for such as these ... pitchfork

Just watch out........Payback's a b*tch :wink:

Jill298's photo
Tue 09/16/08 12:13 PM
laugh no wonder he wants to date christians. Piss of the wrong Pagan / Wiccan and you'll she'll curse your asslaugh devil

CleanBathroom's photo
Tue 09/16/08 12:16 PM
Dennis Leary pulled this off in "Rescue Me (almost)." Rent season #1.




BobbyJ's photo
Tue 09/16/08 12:22 PM
It's interesting how people on here thrive on mediocrity. Everyone readily jumps in to help out another by consoling the ones who are crying about a bad date they had or someone who can't get a date. But a person who is successful in dating, let's all pounce!

Maybe some of these online dating sites should be called a take-off on AA. Call it "DA" for "Daters Anonymous"!

BobbyJ's photo
Tue 09/16/08 12:27 PM




I think he's making it up

you know you are probably right, he is just seeking attention!


Attention? I've beeen married and divorced four times. Looking for number five! I gotta catch up to Larry King!


I agree with Jill, you're making this sh!t up to get attention, and unfortunately we're giving it to you. As for your 4 divorces, that's nothing to brag about, it's pretty sad actually. If I were your kids, I'd be embarrassed to have a dad who was trying to be a "player" in his golden years. But whatever, you got your 15 minutes in the spotlight, and hopefully everyone else on this site is as over it as I am.:tongue:


I don't regard myself as a "player" in the least. Umm, I've been in and out of the dating scene in-between wives all my life. My dating behaviors have changed little!

I just love it and smile when I see that people think I'm making this up. Too good! LOL! Reality is sometimes stranger than fiction!

BobbyJ's photo
Tue 09/16/08 12:29 PM
Okay. I want to make everyone happy. I made it all up!

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Tue 09/16/08 12:29 PM

It's interesting how people on here thrive on mediocrity. Everyone readily jumps in to help out another by consoling the ones who are crying about a bad date they had or someone who can't get a date. But a person who is successful in dating, let's all pounce!

Maybe some of these online dating sites should be called a take-off on AA. Call it "DA" for "Daters Anonymous"!


Did you really expect people to pat you on the back and say good job?

BobbyJ's photo
Tue 09/16/08 12:32 PM


It's interesting how people on here thrive on mediocrity. Everyone readily jumps in to help out another by consoling the ones who are crying about a bad date they had or someone who can't get a date. But a person who is successful in dating, let's all pounce!

Maybe some of these online dating sites should be called a take-off on AA. Call it "DA" for "Daters Anonymous"!


Did you really expect people to pat you on the back and say good job?


Uh uh! I was really just curious as to how others handle the situation. Oops! I forgot. I made all this up! LOL!

izzie's photo
Tue 09/16/08 12:33 PM

It's interesting how people on here thrive on mediocrity. Everyone readily jumps in to help out another by consoling the ones who are crying about a bad date they had or someone who can't get a date. But a person who is successful in dating, let's all pounce!

Maybe some of these online dating sites should be called a take-off on AA. Call it "DA" for "Daters Anonymous"!
i find it amusing that you call it "successful in dating"

and sad that you are so alone and broken that you feel the need to date 3 at a time...

i have one.. only one.. its what is intended to happen, and how it is intended to be.. (as a christian you should know that)

i am happy and fulfilled by my one and my only!

i am sorry for you that you cannot feel that even with the three you find so funny and catty to try and juggle..


i wish you luck.. although i do not feel that what you are doing is right, moral, or that it will lead you on the path you claim to wish to find..

best of luck..

im personaly done with this thread, and with you..

BobbyJ's photo
Tue 09/16/08 12:34 PM



my first question before I offer any advice... do any of these 3 women think that you are dating her exclusivly?


Each thinks they have me exclusively. Hey, it's dating, right? Why should I waste a lot of my time being with just one when I can so easily increase the odds of finding the "right" one?! Gotta watch those caller id's! LOL!


no that's called "PLAYING" and you, sir .. are the "PLAYER" and they are the "PLAYED"

There are places in hell reserved for such as these ... pitchfork

Just watch out........Payback's a b*tch :wink:


Coming from you, I'll take what you say as a compliment! :smile:

BobbyJ's photo
Tue 09/16/08 12:41 PM
Edited by BobbyJ on Tue 09/16/08 12:42 PM


It's interesting how people on here thrive on mediocrity. Everyone readily jumps in to help out another by consoling the ones who are crying about a bad date they had or someone who can't get a date. But a person who is successful in dating, let's all pounce!

Maybe some of these online dating sites should be called a take-off on AA. Call it "DA" for "Daters Anonymous"!
i find it amusing that you call it "successful in dating"

and sad that you are so alone and broken that you feel the need to date 3 at a time...

i have one.. only one.. its what is intended to happen, and how it is intended to be.. (as a christian you should know that)

i am happy and fulfilled by my one and my only!

i am sorry for you that you cannot feel that even with the three you find so funny and catty to try and juggle..


i wish you luck.. although i do not feel that what you are doing is right, moral, or that it will lead you on the path you claim to wish to find..

best of luck..

im personaly done with this thread, and with you..



Ahh, how I love people who are judgemental. You found your "one and ... only". That is so wonderful!

Now if I wanted to be judgemental, I might presume why, when you have a "one and ... only", you are a member of a singles site!

Yeah, yeah, I know. It's for the comaraderie!

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Tue 09/16/08 12:41 PM
i`m having a peanut butter and jelly sandwich for lunch today. i love peanut butter and jelly sandwiches, they are great with a cold glass of milk

BobbyJ's photo
Tue 09/16/08 12:44 PM

i`m having a peanut butter and jelly sandwich for lunch today. i love peanut butter and jelly sandwiches, they are great with a cold glass of milk


You have to admit that I can get them going! Now that's entertainment! Time for a beer and watch to see if there is anymore fireworks!

drinker