I was only referring to the ladies man i posted under!

Gotcha, I just got up, I'm slow today.

yep,my cholesterol is higher than hell.I have a wall of plaque!!

one of the reasons i wont find a date on here. ewww

it was a joke.the reason you won't find a date on here is because your posts are ignorant and show a jr. high mentality.

If you are opening up as you are able......I would venture that it isn't "by choice" that you were closed off, then??

Let me explain my views on this subject. The heart is an organ, lol.........but the heart of a person is the core of their being. When you close it off and wall it up, you shut out all possiblities of growth and love, true love.......you can still feel lust as that is a product of the body, but anyhoo.

I am not scared of rejection, and I realize that my choices are my own. I am able to put my "heart" out there because I am who I am and either people will love me or they won't. They may be able to hurt me, but pain in life is unavoidable so I might as well accept it, delve into it, learn what I can from it Cuz when something causes pain there is always a reason........and I want to know why. Usually it is because something within yourself needs attention and once you give it adequate attention and allow it to heal it will no longer cause you pain. Another note on pain, it comes from within not without.

Just like it doesn't hurt my feelings if stranger says I hate you, the same affect can be had when someone I love says it, so long as I love myself and know what I am about. Them claiming to hate me is more of a reflection of what they have going on, than on me.

We are mirrors, we see in others what we have within ourselves..........if something hurts it is probably because someone has showed us something about ourselves that we do not want to see......

Ok, enough of my ramblings.

Carry on.