ladies please tell me one of the two!

both...try dating first, then marriage.

Try meeting folks on the forums and let them get to know you first

depends on how much money you have that you're willing to lose with the inevitable divorce, lol

quoting the "train"

~~You are very pretty miss!! ~~

I AM MARRYABLE AND DATEABLE, JUST CANT SEEM TO FIND THE RIGHT GUY.

I am malleable? Or is that mateable?

Oh never mind...

I am mailable.. for the right postage!

Get yourself out there and be available and you can be which ever one that you want to be. Take your time she will come to you.

too young for me, but
everyone is worthy of having dates and getting married

Kind of hard to tell what your luck will be. Since history tends to repeat itself I don't know as I would set my profile up with this major tone that "I have been used (and often) in the past and I am angry about it, so don't you dare do it but I am nice and careing and shy". It is kind of like a lamb bleeting in a snow storm it only serves as a dinner bell to the wolves. Might want to write more about your interests and what kind of things you would enjoy shareing with another person. What you imagine a long term relationship as rather than the I want a wife which sometimes sounds like an unpaid "maiden" at home when you get off the road when probably it is a lot more flattering situation. Ie stable living situation, frequent conversations, romantic short hauls together, and maybe if you have a local route weekends, vacations, and maybe holidays together; home ownership, a family? I would be a little careful about useing a flashy red car and expensive hobbies as a come on because it kind of draws the imature or selfish gal who thinks hey a guy with a good job and nice toys I can enjoy while he works his butt off to pay for them. Might suggest what you are looking for such as a nice woman with a stable job and or doing well in school. If you are limited to a geographic area you might want to make that clear. If you are on the road long hours and not going to be "available" say for a woman who wants and needs a man at the supper table each nite you need to say that too. I think it is a positive that you have several photos but I would probably pick one that isn't so burned out by the lighting and doesn't compliment your fair complection and hair. Try not to be discouraged all guys in their mid twenty's have a tough time because they are too old for the teeny bopper crowd and compeateing with the 30 something guys who chase the 20 something gals.

I would have to say both