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Zapchaser Joined Sat 04/14/07 Posts: 2491	Mon 09/08/08 07:52 PM Edited by Zapchaser on Mon 09/08/08 07:57 PM
Scenario: Your significant other surprises you with a great dinner he made from scratch. What would set the mood for you and a kiss?

PacificStar48 Joined Tue 10/02/07 Posts: 13764	Mon 09/08/08 08:13 PM
Apply your keen powers of observation and look and see what she has in the pantry. Chances are she buys what she likes. Repeat colors, flavors, scents, and abiance by focusing on her. Turn down the distractions by createing and oasis in a comfortable place for her. If she likes flowers... maybe a breakfast in the garden, bubblebath...a mini spa treatment in a candle lit bath...foodie...make her homemade soup....she is into music...burn a cd of her favorites or try to pick out a few cords for her...if she is tactile spread a plush blanket and offer JUST a massage. The trick is making it HER fantasy and not YOURS. If she doesn't buy lingerie don't be stupid and expect her to be thrilled with a French maid outfit two sizes too small. Do your homework and look through the laundry to see what size clothes actually fit and buy something in a color she likes or a fragrance she hoards back for special occasions. Chances are she has bought you something she found sexy or complained about things she hasn't. Go the distance and get home early enough that you are fresh and smooth and wearing the the look she loves. Make sure the bathroom is all hers minus your stinky socks or damp towels and an empty hot water tank. .Good Luck

Zapchaser Joined Sat 04/14/07 Posts: 2491	Mon 09/08/08 08:24 PM
Apply your keen powers of observation and look and see what she has in the pantry. Chances are she buys what she likes. Repeat colors, flavors, scents, and abiance by focusing on her. Turn down the distractions by createing and oasis in a comfortable place for her. If she likes flowers... maybe a breakfast in the garden, bubblebath...a mini spa treatment in a candle lit bath...foodie...make her homemade soup....she is into music...burn a cd of her favorites or try to pick out a few cords for her...if she is tactile spread a plush blanket and offer JUST a massage. The trick is making it HER fantasy and not YOURS. If she doesn't buy lingerie don't be stupid and expect her to be thrilled with a French maid outfit two sizes too small. Do your homework and look through the laundry to see what size clothes actually fit and buy something in a color she likes or a fragrance she hoards back for special occasions. Chances are she has bought you something she found sexy or complained about things she hasn't. Go the distance and get home early enough that you are fresh and smooth and wearing the the look she loves. Make sure the bathroom is all hers minus your stinky socks or damp towels and an empty hot water tank. .Good Luck This is only our third date. And I will be cooking at my house. I got the laying on a blanket looking at the stars while sharing a hot cappuccino figured in and haven't thought beyond that. I know she likes caviar and hates watermelon. After the gourmet meal she made for me would it be appropriate for me to grill steaks and brats?

plk1966 Joined Fri 03/21/08 Posts: 31042	Mon 09/08/08 08:27 PM
Scenario: Your significant other surprises you with a great dinner he made from scratch. What would set the mood for you and a kiss? The fact that he took the time to think about and prepare something special, yes that would be wonderful! That is a very romantic gesture.

Zapchaser Joined Sat 04/14/07 Posts: 2491	Mon 09/08/08 08:34 PM
Scenario: Your significant other surprises you with a great dinner he made from scratch. What would set the mood for you and a kiss? The fact that he took the time to think about and prepare something special, yes that would be wonderful! That is a very romantic gesture. What would be a romantic dinner for you?

plk1966 Joined Fri 03/21/08 Posts: 31042	Mon 09/08/08 08:36 PM
what you have already told on here is great, just set up the table with a nice candlelite centerpiece and some soft music!

Zapchaser Joined Sat 04/14/07 Posts: 2491	Mon 09/08/08 08:47 PM Edited by Zapchaser on Mon 09/08/08 08:48 PM
what you have already told on here is great, just set up the table with a nice candlelite centerpiece and some soft music! Pick one: 1. Steaks and brats with cheese curds and a Killian's. 2. Bruschetta with tomato and basil, Roast duck with reduced cranberry glaze and asparagus spears, and gelato with a mint sprig for a finale? I thought up the second menu while jackhammering a concrete floor today.

plk1966 Joined Fri 03/21/08 Posts: 31042	Mon 09/08/08 08:49 PM
what you have already told on here is great, just set up the table with a nice candlelite centerpiece and some soft music! Pick one: 1. Steaks and brats with cheese curds and a Killian's. 2. Bruschetta with tomato and basil, Roast duck with reduced cranberry glaze and asparagus spears, and gelato with a mint sprig for a finale? that really depends on the type of gal she is. If you are trying to impress her with your culinary talents, the second. If she is a steak and beer kinda gal, definately the first one. I personally would enjoy either meal.

Zapchaser Joined Sat 04/14/07 Posts: 2491	Mon 09/08/08 08:57 PM
what you have already told on here is great, just set up the table with a nice candlelite centerpiece and some soft music! Pick one: 1. Steaks and brats with cheese curds and a Killian's. 2. Bruschetta with tomato and basil, Roast duck with reduced cranberry glaze and asparagus spears, and gelato with a mint sprig for a finale? that really depends on the type of gal she is. If you are trying to impress her with your culinary talents, the second. If she is a steak and beer kinda gal, definately the first one. I personally would enjoy either meal. I guess it's a toss up. She cooked me a gourmet meal but on our first date I took her go-cart racing (she beat me ) and for a walk on the river bluff watching the bald eagles.

catwoman96 Joined Thu 08/14/08 Posts: 5848	Mon 09/08/08 08:58 PM
him cooking for me would be enough. surely deserves a kiss or two

plk1966 Joined Fri 03/21/08 Posts: 31042	Mon 09/08/08 09:01 PM
what you have already told on here is great, just set up the table with a nice candlelite centerpiece and some soft music! Pick one: 1. Steaks and brats with cheese curds and a Killian's. 2. Bruschetta with tomato and basil, Roast duck with reduced cranberry glaze and asparagus spears, and gelato with a mint sprig for a finale? that really depends on the type of gal she is. If you are trying to impress her with your culinary talents, the second. If she is a steak and beer kinda gal, definately the first one. I personally would enjoy either meal. I guess it's a toss up. She cooked me a gourmet meal but on our first date I took her go-cart racing (she beat me ) and for a walk on the river bluff watching the bald eagles. well if she cooked you a gourmet meal then make the roast duck, show her that you can cook just as well and she will enjoy it. Did you lose the race on purpose?

Zapchaser Joined Sat 04/14/07 Posts: 2491	Mon 09/08/08 09:02 PM
him cooking for me would be enough. surely deserves a kiss or two I would consider myself fortunate indeed! I would just be happy knowing I was making something that would get a smile.

Zapchaser Joined Sat 04/14/07 Posts: 2491	Mon 09/08/08 09:04 PM
what you have already told on here is great, just set up the table with a nice candlelite centerpiece and some soft music! Pick one: 1. Steaks and brats with cheese curds and a Killian's. 2. Bruschetta with tomato and basil, Roast duck with reduced cranberry glaze and asparagus spears, and gelato with a mint sprig for a finale? that really depends on the type of gal she is. If you are trying to impress her with your culinary talents, the second. If she is a steak and beer kinda gal, definately the first one. I personally would enjoy either meal. I guess it's a toss up. She cooked me a gourmet meal but on our first date I took her go-cart racing (she beat me ) and for a walk on the river bluff watching the bald eagles. well if she cooked you a gourmet meal then make the roast duck, show her that you can cook just as well and she will enjoy it. Did you lose the race on purpose? A gentleman never tells. The smile on her face was worth a million races.

plk1966 Joined Fri 03/21/08 Posts: 31042	Mon 09/08/08 09:04 PM
him cooking for me would be enough. surely deserves a kiss or two I would consider myself fortunate indeed! I would just be happy knowing I was making something that would get a smile. I think you will get more than a smile

Zapchaser Joined Sat 04/14/07 Posts: 2491	Mon 09/08/08 09:07 PM
him cooking for me would be enough. surely deserves a kiss or two I would consider myself fortunate indeed! I would just be happy knowing I was making something that would get a smile. I think you will get more than a smile Can I quote you?

plk1966 Joined Fri 03/21/08 Posts: 31042	Mon 09/08/08 09:10 PM
him cooking for me would be enough. surely deserves a kiss or two I would consider myself fortunate indeed! I would just be happy knowing I was making something that would get a smile. I think you will get more than a smile Can I quote you? I ment from YOUR date

Zapchaser Joined Sat 04/14/07 Posts: 2491	Mon 09/08/08 09:15 PM
him cooking for me would be enough. surely deserves a kiss or two I would consider myself fortunate indeed! I would just be happy knowing I was making something that would get a smile. I think you will get more than a smile Can I quote you? I ment from YOUR date

plk1966 Joined Fri 03/21/08 Posts: 31042	Mon 09/08/08 09:20 PM
don't forget the wine

Zapchaser Joined Sat 04/14/07 Posts: 2491	Mon 09/08/08 09:21 PM
don't forget the wine Arrrrrgh! More choices!

plk1966 Joined Fri 03/21/08 Posts: 31042	Mon 09/08/08 09:23 PM
don't forget the wine Arrrrrgh! More choices! Just ask the clerk at the Liquor store which is best with duck, silly.