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Topic: Am I the ONLY 1
BUSSTME77 Joined Sun 10/21/07 Posts: 8	Mon 09/08/08 07:11 PM
Could it be me? I have been in this relationship for about 9 months now. So many things have changed. When we started it was this glorious relationship, with him cleaning, cooking, sex constant, attention, affection. But know that we have "settled" so has he. NONE of the above. He has turned to be a very messy, unsexual, unsocial creature. In most of the relationships that I expierenced, everything seems to change when confortability hits. Yet, he states that i dont appreciate it. I understand that the magic may fade, but love is there but Am I the ONLY 1? How do i approach this without damage?

Lily0923 Joined Sun 12/02/07 Posts: 20429	Mon 09/08/08 07:13 PM
Welcome to the club we have martinis on thursday...

whispertoascream Joined Fri 11/17/06 Posts: 22844	Mon 09/08/08 07:13 PM
He no longer has to impress you. You guys are at the comfortable stage now. He is just being himself. It is sad how true colours come out like that. But they do.

longhairbiker Joined Tue 09/04/07 Posts: 26589	Mon 09/08/08 07:14 PM
Game over. Packers won

Lily0923 Joined Sun 12/02/07 Posts: 20429	Mon 09/08/08 07:17 PM
IDK, but you got me listening to Melissa Ethridge now....

PATSFAN Joined Mon 12/10/07 Posts: 42782	Mon 09/08/08 07:17 PM


Anonwho Joined Sat 01/12/08 Posts: 174	Mon 09/08/08 07:17 PM
Live and let live. I Have gone through that myself. I blame it on rushing into things. After all nine months is a short span.

jnbuglady Joined Sat 04/05/08 Posts: 865	Mon 09/08/08 07:17 PM
Could it be me? I have been in this relationship for about 9 months now. So many things have changed. When we started it was this glorious relationship, with him cleaning, cooking, sex constant, attention, affection. But know that we have "settled" so has he. NONE of the above. He has turned to be a very messy, unsexual, unsocial creature. In most of the relationships that I expierenced, everything seems to change when confortability hits. Yet, he states that i dont appreciate it. I understand that the magic may fade, but love is there but Am I the ONLY 1? How do i approach this without damage? Is he living with you, is there a way to get him back to his place, maybe you each having your own space will make both of you more appreciative.

Down2earthdebbie Joined Tue 12/05/06 Posts: 6097	Mon 09/08/08 07:18 PM
THAT'S WHY i'm SINGLE!

Etrain Joined Wed 11/21/07 Posts: 19684	Mon 09/08/08 07:19 PM
Your surprised????

Lily0923 Joined Sun 12/02/07 Posts: 20429	Mon 09/08/08 07:19 PM
THAT'S WHY i'm SINGLE! ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^6 What she said.....

Lily0923 Joined Sun 12/02/07 Posts: 20429	Mon 09/08/08 07:22 PM
Your surprised???? Do you mean You're surprised?

longhairbiker Joined Tue 09/04/07 Posts: 26589	Mon 09/08/08 07:22 PM
I don't have this problem.

Lily0923 Joined Sun 12/02/07 Posts: 20429	Mon 09/08/08 07:23 PM
I don't have this problem. ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ He's single too.....

Etrain Joined Wed 11/21/07 Posts: 19684	Mon 09/08/08 07:24 PM
Your surprised???? Do you mean You're surprised? No...I'm absolutely shocked...shes surprised

scotty1964 Joined Wed 11/14/07 Posts: 10197	Mon 09/08/08 07:26 PM
that doesnt sound rite after only nine months.....get out while u can........and welcome here

BUSSTME77 Joined Sun 10/21/07 Posts: 8	Mon 09/08/08 07:27 PM
ready and waiting =) day and time? lol

Down2earthdebbie Joined Tue 12/05/06 Posts: 6097	Mon 09/08/08 07:27 PM
QUESTION IS WHAT YA GONNA DO ABOUT IT?

BUSSTME77 Joined Sun 10/21/07 Posts: 8	Mon 09/08/08 07:28 PM
Thx greatly appreciated!

BUSSTME77 Joined Sun 10/21/07 Posts: 8	Mon 09/08/08 07:29 PM
your right we did!! but it felt so right, but now so wrong.