this is the comment i got last night from the guy that ive been with for almost 10 mos. and has told me he would marry me at the drop of a hat if i would, and that he loves me more than anything...>>>but, he cant handle my 5 yr old twin boys "they get on his nerves" and keeps sending them to their room. Keep in mind he has been living with us. my kids come first and he gets upset easy no hes never even yelled at them certainly never a laid a hand on them. They boys really like him but hes biggest prob is they wont mind him all the time..and i do correct them when they wont but heck they dont even mind me most of the time but...they are just 5 and they will be boys. I love my bf but, my kids come first and they have been thru alot one of which was molested by his 15yr old half bro.while in his fathers care. 1 yr ago in oct. all this just breaks my heart. sorry...just had to type something and have a little release..

I NEED A REAL MAN!

Best of luck.

You go, Gurl!! Your kids are more important than any guy....You definately did the right thing

wow, thats alot to deal with but yea your kids are more important, dont you think it may had been to soon for him to live with you, and he may love you but he doesnt have patient with himself as he needs to understand the issue especially for what happen with the one child, not only the kids but u also should seek counseling, and if he really cares he would go as well, but i dont feel that it would last much longer

oh honey hes done hit the road...as far as him living with me...ive known the man for 30 yrs. Hes like part of the family or was..we were slowly into seeing each other when i found about the molesting so he knew what he was getting into and the boys are seeing a psycologist.i told him then if he wanted to stop i would understand but he said no it just made him love me that much more for being so strong. BUT oh well...my kids are my world and my life!

That's really SAD but,the kids are more importaint & I raised 2 girls on my own without a MAN & they both are on there own & indapendent! So you really don't NEED a mAN in your life until your JOB is done! Best of luck to you

know that..ive never "needed a man" i have always done everything that needs to be done, but, its nice to have a man around...lol.....i have a 16 yr old son too that ive raised by myself and now doing it with the twins...

That is kind of sad really...kids will be kids, they will bug you and at times push buttons that they know they shouldn't...kind of a sod if he can't handle that...

oh hun i am so so sorry!!! u doing the rght thing to lose him..i have twin boys that r 14 and if no man can handle them then they can leave in the same door they came in!! but i actually never let my sons meet the guy i am seeing until we r serious about eachother.. plus my boys r with their dad most of the time.. but my boys have to approve him first!! but good luck,. some good guys r out there.. we just gonna catch them

That is kind of weird that it lasted 10 months and he can't handle the kids. You think you would know sooner than that.