Topic: He's
shoesmonkey's photo
Sat 09/06/08 07:13 AM
my ex bf. He called last Fri. night after 11, I got out of bed to meet him for drink's. We go out a couple of time's, he buy's me a digital converter box. I called twice last night, leaving no message,..... he did not answer. He call's last night after 10, I do not get out of bed this time. My head used to be so wrapped around him, now, it's on straight. Don't want to go back to point A. Was allway's at his beck and call. How do I get it right this time?

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Sat 09/06/08 07:15 AM
If you do not want to be at his beck and call send him back the converter and deep six his ass.

Buying his way into your good graces sounds like another tactic to keep you at his beck and call

shoesmonkey's photo
Sat 09/06/08 07:18 AM
A hook? I don't want to be attatched to nothing more than a "line".

AllSmilesInTulsa's photo
Sat 09/06/08 07:19 AM
Once again I will say... we train people how to treat us. If you continue to be there whenever he wants he has no reason to act differently.

oldsage's photo
Sat 09/06/08 07:24 AM
I would bet your worth a whole bunch more than a convertor box. Let him tell his story walking.
YOU can do so much better.flowerforyou flowerforyou
If it wasn't so far, I would prove the point.
waving :smile:

Dangerous_Kitchen's photo
Sat 09/06/08 07:37 AM

A hook? I don't want to be attatched to nothing more than a "line".


this guy sounds like the sinker :wink:

Jules0565's photo
Sat 09/06/08 07:42 AM
Edited by Jules0565 on Sat 09/06/08 07:43 AM
See how many times he continues to call when you don't jump out of bed to go meet him.

JMO.. but if he's only calling after 10-11pm for a meet..he's looking for only booty. ::shrug::

And just remember the reason why you two ended your relationship to begin with... "ex's are ex's for a reason".

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Sat 09/06/08 07:44 AM
Don't ever make anyone a priority when you're only their option.

(gawd, another cliche') flowerforyou

phirequest's photo
Sat 09/06/08 07:53 AM

Once again I will say... we train people how to treat us. If you continue to be there whenever he wants he has no reason to act differently.


Oh I wish I was in Tulsaflowerforyou

shoesmonkey's photo
Sat 09/06/08 08:12 AM

Don't ever make anyone a priority when you're only their option.

(gawd, another cliche') flowerforyou
If he had other option's, I sure as heck would not make them a priority then.

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Sat 09/06/08 08:18 AM
Keep the digital converter by all means...and all other gifts! bigsmile

Do not be at his beck and call...don't run out to meet him at night....don't even take his call that late...instead ,call him back in the morning and tell him when is good for you....if he don't like it ...tough!




shoesmonkey's photo
Sat 09/06/08 08:28 AM

Keep the digital converter by all means...and all other gifts! bigsmile

Do not be at his beck and call...don't run out to meet him at night....don't even take his call that late...instead ,call him back in the morning and tell him when is good for you....if he don't like it ...tough!




I like your advice the best so far!!!!!!!