Topic: ever wonder ..
moonlight_ride62's photo
Sat 09/06/08 05:40 AM
where people get the nerve to have someone rate their profile...some people can be brutally honest and down right hurtful wonder how they feel when someone like that slaps a comment up here...

Pink_lady's photo
Sat 09/06/08 05:41 AM
I dont ask for my profile to be rated, i dont care!!


moonlight_ride62's photo
Sat 09/06/08 05:44 AM

I dont ask for my profile to be rated, i dont care!!



I would be soooo scared...I don't have a magic mirror I know what I look like...lol

DTHRomeo's photo
Sat 09/06/08 05:45 AM

I dont ask for my profile to be rated, i dont care!!




I feel the same way Pink

Starhawk's photo
Sat 09/06/08 05:46 AM


I dont ask for my profile to be rated, i dont care!!



I would be soooo scared...I don't have a magic mirror I know what I look like...lol



Moonlight ....I tinks you have A very nice saddle...:wink: flowers

trying_to_fly's photo
Sat 09/06/08 05:47 AM
The WHOLE 2 years I've been on JSH/Mingle I've NEVER asked anyone to rate my profile... I don't think it should even be a topic!! JMO of course....happy

moonlight_ride62's photo
Sat 09/06/08 05:48 AM

The WHOLE 2 years I've been on JSH/Mingle I've NEVER asked anyone to rate my profile... I don't think it should even be a topic!! JMO of course....happy

I agree...

moonlight_ride62's photo
Sat 09/06/08 05:49 AM
blushing
thank you...I think..I am one of those people that are not good at taking compliments...that is what that was right...see what I mean...


I dont ask for my profile to be rated, i dont care!!



I would be soooo scared...I don't have a magic mirror I know what I look like...lol



Moonlight ....I tinks you have A very nice saddle...:wink: flowers

no photo
Sat 09/06/08 05:56 AM



I dont ask for my profile to be rated, i dont care!!



I would be soooo scared...I don't have a magic mirror I know what I look like...lol



Moonlight ....I tinks you have A very nice saddle...:wink: flowers

too late, I have already seduced her with my charm, wit, and free booze

moonlight_ride62's photo
Sat 09/06/08 05:59 AM




I dont ask for my profile to be rated, i dont care!!



I would be soooo scared...I don't have a magic mirror I know what I look like...lol



Moonlight ....I tinks you have A very nice saddle...:wink: flowers

too late, I have already seduced her with my charm, wit, and free booze

gotta love the free booze...

jim1957's photo
Sat 09/06/08 06:18 AM
The brutal comments are un-called for... Most of the people ask for an honest reply to improve their profile... then you have some that ask for comments 3 or 4X just for attention... The negative comments stop me from replying to allot of questions...

s1owhand's photo
Sat 09/06/08 06:22 AM
ppl want some attn and feedback - plus you find out who are kind and who are not - valuable info and insight into the character (or characters) here in mingleland

flowerforyou

mostly it's kind


no photo
Sat 09/06/08 06:24 AM
I sometimes put up joke posts in that forum as a protest.

I admit to occasionally being silly when rating as well because the whole thing is idiotic. Especially when the same person has put up 3 previous rate me profiles.

Ultimately even though many comments are mean and unnecessary, the negative comments people receive often fall into the category of if you don't want to hear the answer then don't ask the question!!!

jim1957's photo
Sat 09/06/08 06:28 AM

ppl want some attn and feedback - plus you find out who are kind and who are not - valuable info and insight into the character (or characters) here in mingleland

flowerforyou

mostly it's kind




I have to agree... You do get an insight into a person from their comments... Nice people will be nice and you get to know who the jerks are...

papersmile's photo
Sat 09/06/08 06:28 AM
I sometimes put up joke posts in that forum as a protest.


i agree

i almost look at that topic as people wanting to draw attention to themselves and needing some sunshine blown up their butts

i'm not the best person to do that bigsmile


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perhaps if there were a thread 'how to write effective profiles' and people could post general comments, that might be more constructive?

noblenan's photo
Sat 09/06/08 06:29 AM




I dont ask for my profile to be rated, i dont care!!



I would be soooo scared...I don't have a magic mirror I know what I look like...lol



Moonlight ....I tinks you have A very nice saddle...:wink: flowers

too late, I have already seduced her with my charm, wit, and free booze


Lucky girl! Your profile is the funniest thing I've read on here in a while!rofl rofl rofl drinks

Pink_lady's photo
Sat 09/06/08 06:30 AM
perhaps if there were a thread 'how to write effective profiles' and people could post general comments, that might be more constructive?


I agree :thumbsup: