Maybe it's the subliminal messages in the pop-up advertisements.....

Ack ack ack ack

I think I saw a tumbleweed

but you know it's easier to whine that do something...

I think its part of the ebb and flow that is natural. My favorite person has been off line for about a month. So I miss her, even though we talk on the phone. Some folks have deactivated. There is also the change for some folks with the kids going back to school, different routines. A slight change is the format here at the Mingle. It will balence itself out, keep the faith.

Yes but we still need to find the chosen one that will bring balance back to the force ooops I mean Mingle2

We, the collective are The One, each Mingler much seek within themselves and express that which they wish to find.

I've noticed some things

Ah that's sweet, Phil. But then you always were into furry creatures!

No, it's not JUST you...but it includes you.

It is sort of predictable, really. When you and the angel fulfilled everyone else's dreams, and you were basically out of the scene and should not have to keep your turf occupied, the pecking (Peccy-ing?) order changes. That's just animal kingdom stuff.
So..there's no nice way to reestablish balance that is lost.
People will take cheap shots out of jealousy, anger, or whatever.
The trick that I learned is to be occupied by other feedback, from other sites, to minimize the weight of whatever is going on here.
In your case, you've got feedback of the best kind, which is real and not elusive. Have a good day.

i come back today,and already i find it boring

Stick around, pal! It can only improve, now that your input can turn the tide!!

Go get 'em!!!