Topic: take a look
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Wed 09/03/08 08:56 PM
why do i always seem to find the stuck up ones? is every women in my town so stuck on them selfs, or is it just me?

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Wed 09/03/08 09:06 PM
no one can help hu?

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Wed 09/03/08 09:37 PM

no one can help hu?



maybe look for the not so beautiful ones?

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Wed 09/03/08 09:46 PM
you cant tell me that all the good looking ones are so stuck up? sad2

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Sat 09/06/08 12:37 PM


no one can help hu?



maybe look for the not so beautiful ones?


Trying looking inside ---- beyond the looks! A mind is a terrible thing to waste. First physical attraction is great, but don't be shallow. That wears off quickly... You need to "deep dive."

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Mon 09/08/08 12:31 AM
Maybe they are just reacting to your attitude. If you project a feeling that someone is not going to like you they probably won't. You are young and will probably have more success if you get a little more age on you. It is very difficult for all guys post highschool; especially if they don't have a great job, the best transportation, or a desireable living arrangement. All of this is easily over come by projecting a promiseing attitude that seems headed toward a positive future rather than the ability to conquer. Promote yourself with your relationship strengths rater than your stalled present or maybe depressing past. Few teen men are rageing social sucesses. It helps to give people reasons to like you and if you try someone will. Try smileing often and making non threating eye contact but not the stare, glare, or the top to bottom scan that lingers at the breasts or other "private" zones. Keep your hands in a relaxed non-threatening frame and nod or wave occasionally. Drop any kind of vulgar thug gestures or vocabulary in mixed company. Think about your personal habits and mannerisms are they polite and in good taste for mixed company or are you trying to impress the guys that you are tough? Keep your hands off your genitals and if you swear by a certain fashion statement don't be surprised if that is the only kind of woman you attract. Most women do not like hats, facial hair, smoking, or drinking. Offer occasional compliments of a non-sexual nature. Women like to be liked for being smart, funny, doing a good job, being helpful, having a skill, being a team member, fitting in, contributeing, attaining a goal,or being friendly. Try to be approachable and when you approach them respect their personal space and don't corner them. When ever possible be at their eye level. Do not take companions along when you make initial contacts. No female wants to be threatened by the "pack" and rarely an angry anti-social lone wolf. Ask or offer;don't demand a phone number or email address. Demanding more pictures is a real turn off. Don't whine. You only get one chance to keep a promise so don't ask for a phone number or and e-date and then not show up. Make invitations don't demand dates. Good luck. Hang in there things will turn around when you relax and are yourself enjoying doing something that interests you.

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Mon 09/08/08 01:07 AM
It all depends on what you consider beautiful. If you're talking about someone with a smokin' hot body to match an unflawed face caked with makeup, most of them are probably stuck up.

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Mon 09/08/08 07:24 PM

It all depends on what you consider beautiful. If you're talking about someone with a smokin' hot body to match an unflawed face caked with makeup, most of them are probably stuck up.


flowerforyou Wisdom is such a virtue! You are so right!