Topic: A few of Pec's tried and true rules - I
Peccy's photo
Wed 09/03/08 03:50 PM
This is advice for the outside world, not the Internet.

This isn't a world full of women who are adolescents. Most are adults in their late 20's and 30's looking for friends to start, and who can blame them? They have, rent, jobs, car payments, and sometimes kid(s) to worry about. Women don't have time for the bs that they got fed when they were younger.

Truth when most of us were busy feeding them elaborate, well versed and rehearsed lines to them when we were all younger, most knew it and simply played along. Realize that women are smart creatures tha know when and when not to feed our egos to their advantage.

Firstly, it's not how hot you look, if you wear designer tags, cologne, or even the car you drive ant longer. It's about you, what kind of person you are. Also not what you say as much as how you say it.

Most women have an inbred bs detector (nestled to the part of the brain that rationalizes why they HAVE to have a ninth set of black pumps. But that is another story in itself). Most can tell when you are lying, unless you're real good, because they pay attention to detail. In fact why do you think they rarely ever forget a birthday or anniversary?

What am I trying to say? Be yourself, and if that's not working for you then try and make subtle changes, new haircut, or a new outfit. If that isn't working, try a new way to approach women. And not with cheesy pick up lines like, "Did it hurt when you fell from heaven?" or something that people have heard a million times. Use domrthing unique to the occasion. Be direct, if you want her phone number ask for it. Don't waste her time with 1/2 an hour of small talk. Get in, get out, leave. Leave her to wonder. What happens if it works for you, I can't spoonfeed you all the way, think of something!

These are merely a few of the things that I can promise have worked.

Next time we'll look at a few rules for online dating! Until then!


Wonderbread's photo
Wed 09/03/08 03:54 PM
Sounds good to me pec man, but alas it doesn't work for me being truthful at all.
whats the deal with that?

Peccy's photo
Wed 09/03/08 03:57 PM

Sounds good to me pec man, but alas it doesn't work for me being truthful at all.
whats the deal with that?
Noy sure, you can always use prostitutes. They need love too, well.................for a price anyhow

Wonderbread's photo
Wed 09/03/08 03:58 PM
lol, i can't even pick up prostitutes man, money is better spent else where!

Maybe mail order bride from russia?

Jules0565's photo
Wed 09/03/08 04:00 PM
Firstly, it's not how hot you look, if you wear designer tags, cologne, or even the car you drive ant longer. It's about you, what kind of person you are. Also not what you say as much as how you say it.



THIS part holds TRUE for me! Also, say what you mean and MEAN what you SAY! happy :tongue:

Peccy's photo
Wed 09/03/08 04:04 PM
Edited by Peccy on Wed 09/03/08 04:05 PM

lol, i can't even pick up prostitutes man, money is better spent else where!

Maybe mail order bride from russia?
Invest in turtle wax then. It doesn't bead up in the shower like Vaseline aand leaves a mirror like shine on your sack

jasonl26's photo
Wed 09/03/08 04:08 PM
I always go with speak your mind and cut out the BS lines that sound to stupid to work in the first place. if they don't like me for who I am that's thier loss

MirrorMirror's photo
Wed 09/03/08 04:42 PM
:banana: Im gonna take all my dating advice from Peccy from now on:banana:

Wonderbread's photo
Wed 09/03/08 04:54 PM


lol, i can't even pick up prostitutes man, money is better spent else where!

Maybe mail order bride from russia?
Invest in turtle wax then. It doesn't bead up in the shower like Vaseline aand leaves a mirror like shine on your sack
surprised surprised surprised