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Topic: Just noticing
MisKim323 Joined Sat 06/28/08 Posts: 14563	Wed 09/03/08 10:39 AM
Seems to be quite a bit of tension in the forums the past couple of days and I don't understand why everyone is being so mean. We are all here for our own reasons and all carry with us our own opinions. I have learned that if I disagree with someone, it is best not to comment and go on my way. I have also learned that most of us here have become a family. I have been here a short time and have so many great friends. I would never, ever say anything to hurt someones feelings or put them down in any way....there is enough drama in our lives without having it here. It breaks my heart to see this happening at this site...from the beginning I knew it was full of love and friendship...now I sit in wonder of where it all went

CircuitRider Joined Fri 07/04/08 Posts: 2065	Wed 09/03/08 10:40 AM


Unknow Joined Sat 12/15/07 Posts: 41170	Wed 09/03/08 10:41 AM
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YbOVtcSUVjI

LVSteve Joined Tue 12/11/07 Posts: 358	Wed 09/03/08 10:41 AM
I still love ya kim...

Etrain Joined Wed 11/21/07 Posts: 19684	Wed 09/03/08 10:42 AM
You know...your thread has got me....quite aroused

MisKim323 Joined Sat 06/28/08 Posts: 14563	Wed 09/03/08 10:43 AM
I still love ya kim... awwww Stevie I know you do...one of my dearest friends with a heart of gold

MisKim323 Joined Sat 06/28/08 Posts: 14563	Wed 09/03/08 10:45 AM
You know...your thread has got me....quite aroused Is that all it takes...gosh E...been working on that for so long now...thanks for cluing me in

RKISIT Joined Tue 01/08/08 Posts: 16721	Wed 09/03/08 10:48 AM
Seems to be quite a bit of tension in the forums the past couple of days and I don't understand why everyone is being so mean. We are all here for our own reasons and all carry with us our own opinions. I have learned that if I disagree with someone, it is best not to comment and go on my way. I have also learned that most of us here have become a family. I have been here a short time and have so many great friends. I would never, ever say anything to hurt someones feelings or put them down in any way....there is enough drama in our lives without having it here. It breaks my heart to see this happening at this site...from the beginning I knew it was full of love and friendship...now I sit in wonder of where it all went i agree,but some threads r jokes but they r taking seriously by some people.

MisKim323 Joined Sat 06/28/08 Posts: 14563	Wed 09/03/08 10:50 AM
Seems to be quite a bit of tension in the forums the past couple of days and I don't understand why everyone is being so mean. We are all here for our own reasons and all carry with us our own opinions. I have learned that if I disagree with someone, it is best not to comment and go on my way. I have also learned that most of us here have become a family. I have been here a short time and have so many great friends. I would never, ever say anything to hurt someones feelings or put them down in any way....there is enough drama in our lives without having it here. It breaks my heart to see this happening at this site...from the beginning I knew it was full of love and friendship...now I sit in wonder of where it all went i agree,but some threads r jokes but they r taking seriously by some people. I understand that...I have just seem some be down right mean...I just don't get it

Pink_lady Joined Sun 08/24/08 Posts: 2507	Wed 09/03/08 11:00 AM
The 1 thing u can guarantee in forums, is debates. Its human nature to debate a topic, and unfortunately, some topics mean more to some than others, and it can create frustration, as it does in RL and debates can become heated. This is natural. If it was like Utopia in here, there would be no reason for having forums. We could all just pretend we dont have feelings on matters, and agree with whoever posts ahead of us, but that wouldnt be very enjoyable would it? I think with any site like this, the dynamics shift and change all the time, it has waves of great times, and waves of not-so-great times, as in life too. Just bump a "where is the love" threads! lol!

JusWannaSayHi Joined Sun 06/29/08 Posts: 2743	Wed 09/03/08 11:03 AM
Well, let me apologize yet again.... I was just fed up and then opened my BIG MOUTH and then My people got brought into it so , then ERGHHHHHHHHHHH NEVER MIND ITS OVER!! MY FRIEND IS VISITIN... I KNOW TMI, but it has alot to do with me bein a B#TCH... SORRY EVERYONE ONLY for what I said... I can not apologize for others , but I LOVE MY PEOPLE AND OUR WAY OF LIFE AND NO ONE WILL PUT THEM DOWN WITH OUT ME GOIN ALLL UP IN THEM SO still LOVE ME??????

maryelizabeth10 Joined Sat 08/16/08 Posts: 2826	Wed 09/03/08 11:04 AM
i think its because some people judge others and others opinions and what they say. that happens in real life too it causes drama because feelings get hurt. i think if we'd all be respectful and not judge others based on what they said then we'd all get along alot better. jmo

jtip1977 Joined Mon 11/12/07 Posts: 10410	Wed 09/03/08 11:05 AM
It's the Mingle transition period I tell you!!!

cottonelle Joined Fri 06/27/08 Posts: 3594	Wed 09/03/08 11:12 AM
must be all them mean people that came over here from BoM...roflmao

Riding_Dubz Joined Wed 05/21/08 Posts: 22110	Wed 09/03/08 11:19 AM
ppl are crazy!!!!!! maybe it's cuz they knew to much,