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Topic: Our decaying morals and
Fade2Black Joined Mon 10/08/07 Posts: 50752	Tue 09/02/08 06:03 AM
Very similar to some of the most uncharitable people who occupy the front rows of the pughs of the churches every Sunday. THEY ALL TALK ABOUT UNCONDITIONAL LOVE. None know the meaning of it and when it come to exercise it they ALL stall. lmao .. wow, talk about stereotyping. Dang dude. You know a definition of stereotyping is ignorance. Just sayin

Ruth34611 Joined Sat 08/02/08 Posts: 32402	Tue 09/02/08 06:05 AM
I can't use words to describe it. I just know it when I see it. It's name is Lily if that is the word you were looking for... Just helping ya out shugs... TY

Lily0923 Joined Sun 12/02/07 Posts: 20429	Tue 09/02/08 06:05 AM
He's going the distance...he's going for speed.... I'd prefer he just lay there and let me handle it without getting all fancy about it...

itsmetina Joined Sun 12/09/07 Posts: 18944	Tue 09/02/08 06:11 AM
I think love can be defined by actions not words

Ruth34611 Joined Sat 08/02/08 Posts: 32402	Tue 09/02/08 06:17 AM
I think love can be defined by actions not words I very much agree with this.

oldsage Joined Thu 09/14/06 Posts: 18043	Tue 09/02/08 06:18 AM
"I truly believe it can conquer death and go on forever." interesting. Do you think love is in the soul of a puerson? 1 of the levels of love is in our soul. There are just so many different levels, the last being lust. I think many problems happen when 2 people find they are at different levels & there is no compromise attainable.

Goofball73 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 33913	Tue 09/02/08 07:40 AM
I think love can be defined by actions not words I very much agree with this. Overrated.

tngxl65 Joined Sat 01/12/08 Posts: 6189	Tue 09/02/08 07:51 AM
First, love is not unconditional. But true love is devotion to a person, not focusing on their shortcomings, and continually trying to build them up. True love means not giving up during the hard times just because they're hard. True love means constantly recommitting yourself to your partner. True love isn't the constant pitter patter of the heart, it's a synchronization of purpose and a unity of the soul.

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Tue 09/02/08 07:52 AM
values have corrupted the idea of love and turned it into a common word we use out of lust, or worse than that, spite. It is used more as a tool of hurt than it is to heal, inspire or nourish the soul. So I'm curious what is your definition of love. Its whatever the lavender prairie dogs tell me it is

Etrain Joined Wed 11/21/07 Posts: 19684	Tue 09/02/08 07:56 AM
Love is a wedgie...on a cold winters night

Ruth34611 Joined Sat 08/02/08 Posts: 32402	Tue 09/02/08 07:58 AM
I think love can be defined by actions not words I very much agree with this. Overrated. What is overrated? Love? Words? Actions?

tngxl65 Joined Sat 01/12/08 Posts: 6189	Tue 09/02/08 07:58 AM
Love is a wedgie...on a cold winters night I change my answer to that.

Goofball73 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 33913	Tue 09/02/08 08:04 AM
I think love can be defined by actions not words I very much agree with this. Overrated. What is overrated? Love? Words? Actions? Actions. People put way too much emphasis into this. I know it is a huge part and all, but some people only go by this alone. Look, your actions can be fake as well. I knew a guy who would look deep into his wife's eyes, tell her he loved her (which I feel he did, but...) and she would say how faithful and devoted he was. Only to find out he was banging several other chicks and feeding them lines too. Actions are not the only thing people. You can define love by actions, but not just actions. Their has to be more.

Lily0923 Joined Sun 12/02/07 Posts: 20429	Tue 09/02/08 08:08 AM
I think love can be defined by actions not words I very much agree with this. Overrated. What is overrated? Love? Words? Actions? Actions. People put way too much emphasis into this. I know it is a huge part and all, but some people only go by this alone. Look, your actions can be fake as well. I knew a guy who would look deep into his wife's eyes, tell her he loved her (which I feel he did, but...) and she would say how faithful and devoted he was. Only to find out he was banging several other chicks and feeding them lines too. Actions are not the only thing people. You can define love by actions, but not just actions. Their has to be more. well I'm sure he did things to show his infidelity... and she just ignored it. I can tell the character of a person in a few interactions with them... I have been wrong, but not often... I read people, it's not hard everyone can do it if they try, some however are so afraid their delicate little world will crumble at their feet that they prefer to believe the lies... JMO anyways.

Ruth34611 Joined Sat 08/02/08 Posts: 32402	Tue 09/02/08 08:10 AM
I think love can be defined by actions not words I very much agree with this. Overrated. What is overrated? Love? Words? Actions? Actions. People put way too much emphasis into this. I know it is a huge part and all, but some people only go by this alone. Look, your actions can be fake as well. I knew a guy who would look deep into his wife's eyes, tell her he loved her (which I feel he did, but...) and she would say how faithful and devoted he was. Only to find out he was banging several other chicks and feeding them lines too. Actions are not the only thing people. You can define love by actions, but not just actions. Their has to be more. In this case it was his words to her that were the lie. His actions were the truth. I never want to be in a relationship where I have to wonder if I am being lied to. That's why I trust from day one. I may get hurt in the long run, but if I can't trust someone than there's no point in my being there. Some say people have to earn their trust before they get it. I trust first. Maybe I'm an idiot.

lilangel2 Joined Wed 03/05/08 Posts: 9096	Tue 09/02/08 08:12 AM
I think love can be defined by actions not words

Etrain Joined Wed 11/21/07 Posts: 19684	Tue 09/02/08 08:14 AM
Love is...an enema, on a warm spring day...leaving you fresh and clean

longhairbiker Joined Tue 09/04/07 Posts: 26589	Tue 09/02/08 08:14 AM
Mine is this: I recently fell in love, and what I mean by love is the kind that lifts your heart and makes it flutter in your chest every time you think of them. It makes you wonder how you ever lived without them before they came into your life and that you would not survive if they left. Everyday just hearing her voice makes my world complete. She is the first thing I think of in the morning and the last before I sleep. Love is caring about her well being and never want to hurt her or anyone else she loves. It's also knowing that you want to wake up every morning the rest of my life with her by my side giving me that special stare that tells me she is mine forever. That's what love, true and unconditional love means to me. ....that's beautiful. Sniff, sniff. Somebody hold me.

Goofball73 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 33913	Tue 09/02/08 08:25 AM
I think love can be defined by actions not words I very much agree with this. Overrated. What is overrated? Love? Words? Actions? Actions. People put way too much emphasis into this. I know it is a huge part and all, but some people only go by this alone. Look, your actions can be fake as well. I knew a guy who would look deep into his wife's eyes, tell her he loved her (which I feel he did, but...) and she would say how faithful and devoted he was. Only to find out he was banging several other chicks and feeding them lines too. Actions are not the only thing people. You can define love by actions, but not just actions. Their has to be more. well I'm sure he did things to show his infidelity... and she just ignored it. I can tell the character of a person in a few interactions with them... I have been wrong, but not often... I read people, it's not hard everyone can do it if they try, some however are so afraid their delicate little world will crumble at their feet that they prefer to believe the lies... JMO anyways. I agree. Hell, I knew he was cheating even before he told me. It was easy to see. But, I guess we just don't want to see the truth when it hurts. Ruth, his actions were lies too, but they did tell how he truly felt. His reasoning to his infidelity was that he just didn't want one woman anymore. I suggested divorce, and he flipped. It happened anyways.

lilith401 Joined Wed 10/31/07 Posts: 19593	Tue 09/02/08 08:31 AM Edited by lilith401 on Tue 09/02/08 08:41 AM
Love is knowing that person enriches you and makes you strive to be better. It is putting someone before yourself without losing yourself or changing the essence of who you are, it is sharing and taking and giving in a mutual sense. It is romance and respect and passion and endurance, understanding and compassion.... Love is about expressing yourself in actions and deeds, all based on the feelings you have in your heart. Love is most based on respect, feeling wanted and wanting. Love is not based on need. It is a fulfillment that should come without expectations...