Why does it seem like most of the men on here are only interested in sex. I have talked to some who seem nice and wanted to meet. I said okay, but don't expect anything, because I am not that kind of girl. Then amazingly they stopped talking to me.
SO are their any guys here not just interested in sex?
Girls...am I being too prude?

sex whats that .!!!!

ahahahahahaha sea

I know how that goes... most of the guys I talk to think with that particular part of their body and I stop talking to them..haha. There are some sweethearts out there; true sweethearts. Be patient and being picky can be a good thing.

dont you women get it,i guess not we are horny we get blue balls what do women get hmmmmmmmmm?

everybody is interested in sex!

but if you are looking for companionship then that
is perfectly alright. great even. but many guys may
not be interested in a strictly platonic friendship.

they probably feel that they are seeking ultimately
a sexual relationship as well as a friendship. so
you probably just have to say friends first....
and take it from there. if you are too anti-sex then
they may just say it's pointless because it can
never develop into anything more.

but yeah there are a lot of man-sluts out there...

can i persuade u to love the METS.!!!!

Some of us signed up with the intention of looking for an actual relationship, but it turned out not to be possible....I have nothing against sex, but I'm at the point where I was sort of hoping for something a little more all-inclusive. But not here....

I'm not a guy, so I won't speak for them. But, there do seem to be a few that are not interested in sex. In my case, they all live 200 miles away from me. Hmm, maybe that's why they are not interested in sex. Most of the locals...different story. And I'm tired of it. I just want to go on a date. How hard is it?

No, you are not being too prude. And if a guy doesn't like it, that is HIS problem. It is not yours. Don't let a guy tell you that it is.
You will find someone that appreciates you, I'm sure.

at the rate the Yanks are going you might... MIGHT have a very SLIGHT CHANCE of having me root for someone else during the playoffs. And the da**ed Red Sox are NOT an option.

<------------uses the Lex emoticon

I'm interested in sex....with myself.

And go CUBBIES!!

ya those cubbies r hot thats 4sure.!!!

men are men and i think some of them want a relationship also....they just can not wait!

i went on a 12 hour first date--- thought we would see each other again, in fact talked all week, well until i asked questions that would indicate i was not going to have sex in the first couple dates.....have not heard from him all weekend. but, i consider myself lucky-- plain to see..we are not a match.

well i think you would be well worth the wait.!!!!!! huggzz

The good guys go pretty fast I'm afraid. *blows on nails*

Most guys do want sex. Most humans do in fact. If they are pawing you then the are over the line. If they are bringing up the subject to see how you feel it's fair I believe. What the site needs is more gentlemen and less steroid driven meat puppets...unfortunately many women go for those type of bad boys. It's like reinforcing a bad habit in a dog they won't change. You'll have to put up with it in some men I'm afraid.

Don't get me wrong..I LOVE sex also, but I want someone to respect me as a person first. Been with too many loosers, so now I am holding out.

awww, thank you sweetie
xoxoxoxoxox
all the good matches- like yourself live too far away

haha...I've just been holding out... I want sex, but I don't want it just to say that I've done it.. ya know... if I can be patient for 21 years you can hold out for a couple weeks..or months, w/e floats your boat.