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Topic: i love the woman, need advice. no men on this 0ne
usernamefayou's photo
Thu 08/28/08 11:01 PM

Well, a few things have been mentioned before.

The flash picture with the shirt off.... how can I put this. . . if you're gonna put "athletic" for your body type, you sure as hell better not have that flash go off with a shirtless pic in quite the way it did. . . .

Smoking, well, for me, a turn-off. But good luck with that.

I'd mention something about the sentence structure you used, but I have found there's some odd anti-grammar police on this site, so I won't mention how the fact you can't form a complete sentence coherently is totally unappealing to me.

I'd get rid of the bot-pictures as friends. As DuckieGiggles said, it's not helping you.

Otherwise, enjoy and good luck on here!

=)


I guess just being yourself isn't going to be good enough for some. Women want you to conform to their standards very often.

duckiegiggles's photo
Thu 08/28/08 11:07 PM
how is this comforming??
he asked we are telling him

he doesnt say what type of female he is looking for or much about himself other then hes not running or doesnt want to show a face picture



how many of you guys honestly would actually talk to a girl with a picture like that (with her shirt on of course) and that little info about herself on her profile?

duckiegiggles's photo
Thu 08/28/08 11:08 PM
and by the way the aliens are coming for you look out!

noworries69's photo
Thu 08/28/08 11:11 PM
Usually when a guy has "69" in their name, I avoid them altogether. To me, it's a sign of immaturity and a one-track mind.

When a guy has his shirt off, especially if he only has one pic and his face is covered, I automatically assume he's ugly or married.

I also avoid smokers, as many others do.

There's my three cents.

thanks but NOT lol and making fun of my friends, thats wrong . be looking for your posts, lol

NickiBeach's photo
Thu 08/28/08 11:12 PM


I guess just being yourself isn't going to be good enough for some. Women want you to conform to their standards very often.



Actually, I'd RATHER have him not conform to my standards. I think it's wonderful when everyone is unique, and there isn't a sameness to everyone. However, he ASKED an opinion from women. I, along with several other women, offered ours. It's up to him, not you sir, what he does with the opinions we gave him.



EtherealEmbers's photo
Thu 08/28/08 11:14 PM

thanks but NOT lol and making fun of my friends, thats wrong . be looking for your posts, lol


Obviously you didn't like my advice since I was the first to give it. These posts are typical of someone just fishing for women to talk to. You don't want to better yourself, it's just a facade.

I have no idea to what 'friends' you're referring to.. I'm not making fun of anyone.

usernamefayou's photo
Thu 08/28/08 11:36 PM



I guess just being yourself isn't going to be good enough for some. Women want you to conform to their standards very often.



Actually, I'd RATHER have him not conform to my standards. I think it's wonderful when everyone is unique, and there isn't a sameness to everyone. However, he ASKED an opinion from women. I, along with several other women, offered ours. It's up to him, not you sir, what he does with the opinions we gave him.





How was it going to be up to me what he does....I must have missed something.

Anywhat, opinions are your own, sure. Obviously you're saying that there are standards we all set by voicing these opinions. However, you sound as if everything is set in stone...which is what I was implying in the first place.

usernamefayou's photo
Thu 08/28/08 11:43 PM

how is this comforming??
he asked we are telling him

he doesnt say what type of female he is looking for or much about himself other then hes not running or doesnt want to show a face picture



how many of you guys honestly would actually talk to a girl with a picture like that (with her shirt on of course) and that little info about herself on her profile?


If he didn't specify, why are you giving him specific opinions?

duckiegiggles's photo
Thu 08/28/08 11:49 PM
is this really your other profile?
just wondering


people like to know if they fit into someones type catagory or not and it shows more of what he likes

usernamefayou's photo
Fri 08/29/08 12:03 AM
People are also used to approval-seeking. Just be yourself dude and try the best you can like only you know how. All the rest is abstract minds running wild.

no photo
Fri 08/29/08 12:43 AM
I'd start with putting on a shirt.

indifferent

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