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Edited by
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Wed 08/27/08 12:46 PM
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That's enough wisdom.
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personally...I wont get involved with anyone that is not divorced..completely divorced.
It is alot of stress and heartache. |
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not really sure why it's taking 10 months... i packed up left and was divorced in 90 days
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One of my most important dating rules is that the ink must be dry...
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Damn, this has all been indispensable. I mean it.
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Two key words here; "married man". I don't go near any woman unless she is "D-I-V-O-R-C-E-D". If single people didn't facilitate married people, they wouldn't be very many affairs.
If a married person has an affair on their spouse. Expect the same. Cheaters never stop cheating. Dump him quick and move on sticking with a single man. |
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not really sure why it's taking 10 months... i packed up left and was divorced in 90 days Laws are different everywhere. CA requires 6 months' time to finalize. |
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Two key words here; "married man". I don't go near any woman unless she is "D-I-V-O-R-C-E-D". If single people didn't facilitate married people, they wouldn't be very many affairs. If a married person has an affair on their spouse. Expect the same. Cheaters never stop cheating. Dump him quick and move on sticking with a single man. They were separated previously to our meeting, but thanks for your thoughts |
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even if they sign the papers whos to say he wants to jump right back into another relastionship?
hes going to be a free man |
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You've met this wonderful man. A dream guy. One letdown, he is married! However, he and his wife have been separated some months, and plan to divorce. You have both professed your undying love for one another. You have shared incredibly intimate thoughts and moments. You actually know, for a fact, that they are moving forward with their separation and now you also know, for another fact, that the duration of the battle is to be no less than 10 mos.! Is it crappy to back out because you had initially seen it all moving a little quicker? Maybe slow things down to an ALMOST halt, but hold on to the possibility that after 10 mos. have passed, both people are still as much in love as ever? Just carry on as though it had never happened, meet new people and then if the urge is present, call in 10 ****ing months and see what's going down? Is he the only man on earth? If they are seperated why do you have to hault? |
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even if they sign the papers whos to say he wants to jump right back into another relastionship? hes going to be a free man truuuuuuuuuuuue, mm hmm |
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are they still living in the same house under the same roof??
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are they still living in the same house under the same roof?? Nope, different states |
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I dont see why things have to go on hold for 10 months.
Why cant u carry on dating?? Unless u dont want to!! But i would be careful that he doesn't stray again. But i dought u have a chrystal ball. 
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That's right, I could just keep dating him, and maybe if we hadn't gotten so serious so fast, that would seem more possible.
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So ur scared nothing wrong with that, it shows ur in touch with ur feelings.
But does it feel right?? |
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If you cared about each other, nothing will change in ten months. Back up and cool it for awhile.
Married folk have no business dating, unless it it with their spouses. JMO. But what's done is done. Keep this in mind. If you marry this person, the soon to be ex could be you next. In fact, I might bet money on it. Marriages resulting from infidelities have over a 85% failure rate. Yep. Really. Good luck, you got a lot of decisions to make. |
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