Why not?

Ive given reason too....

did things that hurt me..

but still she talks to me...she trys...continues to call me..

She has someone she cares deeply for..

I dont want her as a friend...

but as something more..but maybe Im greedy for even thinking that..

maybe things arent what they seem..

I break dreams..

she has many..but I wish not to break them by just being there...

I do things that hurt...but still she trys...why?

because with a name like "death treaty" I would stay on your good side too.

She knew me before the I used Name DeathsTreaty as I do today...

Some people dont have it in them to hate people.

And some people are just crazy b1tches!

some people just see the good in others

maybe for the fact that some,no matter how bad it was they still want to find some good in someone and they will not stop till they do. and for some reason they still love in the process

She said shes Happy with the person she is with....she calls me...but talks about him many times...


I dont understand...

some people have a difficult time closing a door. it may be as simple as that.

That sounds like it.

But I havent picked up the phone in over 2 months...but she still called....I thought that would help her kind of forget me...

Maybe she is just playing mind games with you

Kinda f-ed up but it could be just that

Talk to her or send her an e-mail asking her to please move on.

but thats kind of the thing...



but Ill explain when I come back...

I have to go for now..


Have a good day Everyone ^^

I liked your Jack Skellington picture Death. It fit you.

if she really wanted to be just friends then she'd let you
go for real and stop giving you hints/hopes especially if
you've asked her to do this. so, i'm afraid that friendship
may not be her real objective here...and it may go something
like this...

she wants you as her back up. the friend she dangles around
to be there for her just in case it doesn't work out with
Brad Pitt...she knows it won't out with him because he is
a self absorbed monkey weasel, he plays around with other
girls, and doesn't give her enough attention. she doesn't
really want you - so if you moved on it would be best for
you. she is using you - so she is not the kind of person
you should ever be with. but you are attracted strongly to
her because she is pretty or wild or has the right kind of
crazy going on to be attractive to you.

but she is toxic to you. she won't cut it off so it is time
for the no phone, email, text, dropping by, calling relatives
ban. you're gonna have to find someone new and ban her azz.
i predict sudden tears and begging to take you back.

sorry, DT, to be so negative - but if she really cared for you
at all she'd let you move on. just a perspective.

PS. you might want to consider not taking her back...

You have to tell her how you really feel.

Treaty, when you come back maybe if you explain a little more we can provide some insight. As it stands, you've not told us enough....

it's possible that she is really longing to be your friend
and she misses her friendship with you terribly...but this
is selfish. she knows you are interested in more with her
and it will be an emotionally lopsided friendship...and
quite likely not in your favor...

you need to move on at least until a balanced friendship is
possible

DT, I know you don't do hugs, so I'll just give you a friendly death grip. I don't know why people do what they do. I hate mind games.

I find I understand little as well, but can only offer support as a fellow non understanding person.