i been talking to a friend for two years now. over time i develope feelings for her. i cant say i love her because i havent met her in real life. i thought it was going somewhere. she would drop hints and me as well. then today she tells me she is seeing some one new. i finaly told her i how i feel . she was in shock. and she is not sure what to do. i know let her go and see what happens. but my hart says fight. i am so confussed. hurt but yet i am not sure what to feel i guess u call it num lol reply if u wish. just need to get this off my chest.

let her go. nothing you can do will change her mind or her direction. you're just blowing smoke up your own keester.

move on and find someone else. you'll be glad you did.

awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww chris just take it one day at time now hun you will be ok but yes you been missed on here as well

fight for her,if your feelings are true and you have talked to her for that long go for it you have nothing to loose. i wish u the best of luck

hi im sorry hun but i would just say let her go , but let your heart tell you wot to do , but thats my opinion

yes, let her go. Do you want her to be with you cause you put up a fight? or because she CHOSE to be with you... trust me, there's a world of difference.

wow when you put it that way lol your right, forget what i said before lol

i do agree about letting that part of my feelings let go of her in that since. of course the friendship will contiune. just so dman num. well anyway ......*looking at my water pistol...***

just tryin' to help a brotha out save him a bit of the self inflicted pain I've dealt myself in the past

You cannot force someone to like you, let her go. What was taking so long??? 2 years of talking??

Well since you never met her babe, u cannot take her reaction or rejection to heart. She made the decision or formed the opinion of you just based on phone calls, e-mails, webcam whatever.
You have talked to her for 2 years, and neither of you made an attempt to meet? Why not?
The guy she is dating now, she knows in person, and that was maybe the missing element between you two.
I would say let her go. Stay friends if you wish, but it is very hard if you guys are not feeling the same about each other.

My hats off to you for letting her know how you feel. Now she needs to decide what she wants to do. give her time. JMO

Why don't guys tell you how they feel? I know, I know, fear of rejection. Still, seems to be the way opportunities pass us by.

i been here a few times before but this time well its kinda hard to describe. in my past i always pushed and this time i didnt. just makes love that song that goes LOVE HURTS... LOL

2 years is a very long time to not confess your feelings for someone. Are you sure you were ever even interested in her that way? Or are you just upset now that someone else does want her and she's happy?



If you care about someone you should always let them know....if you don't then you shouldn't really be surprised when someone else "claims thier affections"


Best of Luck

Why do people think that anyone can make another love them? I don't get it. Love just happens. No fighting for someone will make it happen and you can't talk someone into loving you. Let her go and get on with living!

You wait TWO years to tell her how you feel, and then because she is finally seeing someone you decide TODAY is the day to drop the bomb?

If she picks you over that other guy...well, she's a fool if she does... That is sooooooo manipulative and wrong.

at the time we first met we both going thru a lot. neither of us was ready for someone else to be in that part in our life. yeah its hard to be friends after u tell them how you feel.

see what happens when you wait to long?


now you have to wait till shes over this guy and try again hoping you arent the "brake up dude"

...damn i know they are called something eles but i have a brain fart right now

rebound guy...