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It's been a whole freaking year that we split up and he is still always telling me what to do! I told him when I was leaving him that I wouldn't even have cared so much about his cheating if he hadn't been alwayS controlling my every thought, word and deed! AND YET HE STILL DOES IT!!!!!!!! Some people will NEVER change!
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Oh boy...I've been divorced for almost 4 years...and it still continues. I thought I could escape the conrol...though it's better, he still tries.
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I thought it would get better after he got a girlfriend. He found someone 4 months after I left and practically moved her and her kids in. But, NO! That didn't end it. It will never end.
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the neck...
rip it.. Make a nice soup with it.. ^^ |
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Pppppfffffttttt!!! I feel better when I vent my colon.
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the neck... rip it.. Make a nice soup with it.. ^^ soup.....yes. |
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It's been a whole freaking year that we split up and he is still always telling me what to do! I told him when I was leaving him that I wouldn't even have cared so much about his cheating if he hadn't been alwayS controlling my every thought, word and deed! AND YET HE STILL DOES IT!!!!!!!! Some people will NEVER change! Why do you give him that kind of power? |
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the neck... rip it.. Make a nice soup with it.. ^^ soup.....yes. Soups not bad...I like soup 
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Three helpful words to rectify the situation- move far away.
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Unfortunately I still have to have almost daily contact with him because of our children. But, the power to make me so angry? You're right, I could do something about that BUT I'M TOO DAMN ANGRY TO DO IT RIGHT NOW!!!!!!!
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Three helpful words to rectify the situation- move far away. No. I will not move my children away from their father no matter how much of a FU**ING RAT BAST**D of a husband he was. |
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Soups good.
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Edited by
awolf1010
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Mon 08/25/08 06:45 PM
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my sister was in an abusive relation ship....and she told me this when I got out of mine ...just remember these words......" do what you need to do"
edit: also if you say this to your ex when they are ranting about......they will get tired of bullying you when they see it doesnt work anymore!! set yourself free from their control, if they can still work you up they are still controlling you. forgive them, for what they have done. not for them , but so you may move on. IMO~~~ |
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Edited by
feralcatlady
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Mon 08/25/08 06:48 PM
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Well you got ask yourself........
How stupid am I to listen..... He doesn't own you..... tell him to kiss off..... And this is my gig on abuse....... the first time it happens it's his fault...... the second time it happens it's yours..... I have had it in my life and no one would ever do that to me....especially with kids....... |
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Unfortunately I still have to have almost daily contact with him because of our children. But, the power to make me so angry? You're right, I could do something about that BUT I'M TOO DAMN ANGRY TO DO IT RIGHT NOW!!!!!!!
Daily contact is a very liberal custody agreement. But that does not mean you have to put up with his control. You need to empower yourself by simply saying I'll take it under consideration, smile and walk off. He will be upset but that is because he has no power of a statement like that. Remember the first one to lose their control loses the fight |
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There's an irony here somewhere. You are giving control power away? Well stop doing it.
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You guys are smarter than you look.
Common sense is not dead here. Thanks everyone. You're right about my reaction.
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Can I just HATE him for 5 more minutes?
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