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Topic: BOOTY CALL
luv2roknroll Joined Sun 07/06/08 Posts: 30367	Mon 08/25/08 05:25 PM
I have a question. Is is really so needy, or disfunctional of me,to want a man that im seeing, to want to see me,more than a few times a week. Im not saying we have to be together every single minute, or every single day... but a couple of times a week, is makin me feel like a BOOTY CALL. Should I?

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Mon 08/25/08 05:26 PM
I have a question. Is is really so needy, or disfunctional of me,to want a man that im seeing, to want to see me,more than a few times a week. Im not saying we have to be together every single minute, or every single day... but a couple of times a week, is makin me feel like a BOOTY CALL. Should I? yes with me

ledi180 Joined Sun 04/15/07 Posts: 5910	Mon 08/25/08 05:26 PM
Do ya'll do anything other than have sex the times you see him? Maybe I don't understand the question. Seeing someone that lives close 1 or maybe 2x a week in the early stages, to me, isn't alot.

MsCarmen Joined Wed 05/07/08 Posts: 6282	Mon 08/25/08 05:27 PM
No, I thought that was how relationships were started? Unless I am completely misunderstanding you.....

luv2roknroll Joined Sun 07/06/08 Posts: 30367	Mon 08/25/08 05:28 PM
No, I thought that was how relationships were started? Unless I am completely misunderstanding you..... Its new, shouldnt he be excited and wanting to see me more.

Racing18 Joined Mon 08/27/07 Posts: 293	Mon 08/25/08 05:30 PM
You should tell him how this makes you feel, you deserve to be happy and if he cares he will understand .

luv2roknroll Joined Sun 07/06/08 Posts: 30367	Mon 08/25/08 05:30 PM
Do ya'll do anything other than have sex the times you see him? Maybe I don't understand the question. Seeing someone that lives close 1 or maybe 2x a week in the early stages, to me, isn't alot. Yes, we have lots of fun, and thats exactly what im saying, in the early stages shouldnt he want to see me more.

shadowdog Joined Fri 10/13/06 Posts: 12773	Mon 08/25/08 05:30 PM
if he wanted to see you more--he should make his move by--convo more--

briancarr Joined Mon 12/17/07 Posts: 3310	Mon 08/25/08 05:31 PM
I have a question. Is is really so needy, or disfunctional of me,to want a man that im seeing, to want to see me,more than a few times a week. Im not saying we have to be together every single minute, or every single day... but a couple of times a week, is makin me feel like a BOOTY CALL. Should I? Well if you allow the Booty to be Hit,when you see him, then its a Booty Call. Maybe sometimes just make plans to do something that will take up most of the time, and leave only a little time, or no time for Sex. If he doesnt want to do other things with the time you have, then its a straight up Booty call

rainysky39 Joined Sun 01/20/08 Posts: 4071	Mon 08/25/08 05:32 PM
I have a question. Is is really so needy, or disfunctional of me,to want a man that im seeing, to want to see me,more than a few times a week. Im not saying we have to be together every single minute, or every single day... but a couple of times a week, is makin me feel like a BOOTY CALL. Should I? Well if you allow the Booty to be Hit,when you see him, then its a Booty Call. Maybe sometimes just make plans to do something that will take up most of the time, and leave only a little time, or no time for Sex. If he doesnt want to do other things with the time you have, then its a straight up Booty call Ditto

Lily0923 Joined Sun 12/02/07 Posts: 20429	Mon 08/25/08 05:33 PM
I'm good with like once a week until around 2-3 months then maybe 3-4 times a week, there's plenty of time when you get married to ignore each other every day.

MsCarmen Joined Wed 05/07/08 Posts: 6282	Mon 08/25/08 05:33 PM
Maybe he doesn't want to rush things. Maybe he thinks spending alot of time together early on is pressuring him into being in a relationship. Have you talked to him about it? Just remember, some guys (I said some) view hanging out together all the time early on as being clingy and will make them run real quick!

ahuhalicious Joined Fri 03/07/08 Posts: 995	Mon 08/25/08 05:41 PM
maybe hes obligated to spend the rest of his time with his wife

PATSFAN Joined Mon 12/10/07 Posts: 42782	Mon 08/25/08 05:57 PM
Do it to it

msmyka Joined Sat 03/22/08 Posts: 17079	Mon 08/25/08 06:05 PM
I have a question. Is is really so needy, or disfunctional of me,to want a man that im seeing, to want to see me,more than a few times a week. Im not saying we have to be together every single minute, or every single day... but a couple of times a week, is makin me feel like a BOOTY CALL. Should I? You're lucky you get a few times a week! The way it's going now I only get to see him once every few weeks due to our schedules. We just try to make the most of the time we do get to spend together and have a blast when we do

briancarr Joined Mon 12/17/07 Posts: 3310	Mon 08/25/08 06:07 PM
I have a question. Is is really so needy, or disfunctional of me,to want a man that im seeing, to want to see me,more than a few times a week. Im not saying we have to be together every single minute, or every single day... but a couple of times a week, is makin me feel like a BOOTY CALL. Should I? You're lucky you get a few times a week! The way it's going now I only get to see him once every few weeks due to our schedules. We just try to make the most of the time we do get to spend together and have a blast when we do WAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA

msmyka Joined Sat 03/22/08 Posts: 17079	Mon 08/25/08 06:09 PM
I have a question. Is is really so needy, or disfunctional of me,to want a man that im seeing, to want to see me,more than a few times a week. Im not saying we have to be together every single minute, or every single day... but a couple of times a week, is makin me feel like a BOOTY CALL. Should I? You're lucky you get a few times a week! The way it's going now I only get to see him once every few weeks due to our schedules. We just try to make the most of the time we do get to spend together and have a blast when we do WAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA Uh, what? Seems to me that I am being a pretty good sport about it actually

briancarr Joined Mon 12/17/07 Posts: 3310	Mon 08/25/08 06:10 PM
I have a question. Is is really so needy, or disfunctional of me,to want a man that im seeing, to want to see me,more than a few times a week. Im not saying we have to be together every single minute, or every single day... but a couple of times a week, is makin me feel like a BOOTY CALL. Should I? You're lucky you get a few times a week! The way it's going now I only get to see him once every few weeks due to our schedules. We just try to make the most of the time we do get to spend together and have a blast when we do WAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA Uh, what? Seems to me that I am being a pretty good sport about it actually Waa, a little

music_man_1957 Joined Fri 07/25/08 Posts: 166	Mon 08/25/08 11:09 PM
Um!... Look back to yesterday... I brought up this topic & I'm wondering if your the lady in disguise who i was was refering to! If so, nice try to undermind how I was hurt by thinking I wanted more in our relationship than a booty call and how you've ignored me for the past 4 days when the past 2 weeks when we met, all was fantastic! I fell for you fast & even told you! But! I don't want to be here at your disposal for just sex! How shallow! I offer more than that as a man!... If your not this woman who crushed my heart like a tomato on a busy freeway, I'm sorry... I hope this isn't you...

luv2roknroll Joined Sun 07/06/08 Posts: 30367	Tue 08/26/08 07:57 AM Edited by luv2roknroll on Tue 08/26/08 08:24 AM
Um!... Look back to yesterday... I brought up this topic & I'm wondering if your the lady in disguise who i was was refering to! If so, nice try to undermind how I was hurt by thinking I wanted more in our relationship than a booty call and how you've ignored me for the past 4 days when the past 2 weeks when we met, all was fantastic! I fell for you fast & even told you! But! I don't want to be here at your disposal for just sex! How shallow! I offer more than that as a man!... If your not this woman who crushed my heart like a tomato on a busy freeway, I'm sorry... I hope this isn't you... Wow...you got me fuched up!!! Read my profile...I fix broken hearts baby..im the handy-woman!!! Sorry about your luck!! I dont know you...but sorry that happened...and just remember the b!tch that did that to you babe...its her loss!!!