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Topic: A Friendly Question for Women?
EFP's photo
Sun 08/24/08 04:57 PM
Why? Can't some woman believe you when use the Infamous Line: "We're Just Friends". (In regards to lady friends).

mry's photo
Sun 08/24/08 04:58 PM
Cause theres probably more going on...

laughsandgiggles's photo
Sun 08/24/08 05:00 PM
The same reason men can't take it either

jealousy, insecurity. immaturity are just the first few reasons that come to mind.

If you have been friends with someone long before you meet that special someone they should be able to trust you. In most cases - Just friends means just that!!!

Lily0923's photo
Sun 08/24/08 05:01 PM

The same reason men can't take it either

jealousy, insecurity. immaturity are just the first few reasons that come to mind.

If you have been friends with someone long before you meet that special someone they should be able to trust you. In most cases - Just friends means just that!!!


AMEN, but if you aquire alot of lady friends after in a relationship.... I wouldn't trust you either.

EFP's photo
Sun 08/24/08 05:02 PM
Is it right to have lady friends if you are dating exclusively? Or maybe, they should the be in both parties friendship circle.

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Sun 08/24/08 05:03 PM

Why? Can't some woman believe you when use the Infamous Line: "We're Just Friends". (In regards to lady friends).
:angry: :angry: grumble Because when YOU tell them that as you and you just friend our both NAKED,,,,,,
:angry: THEY DON'T SEEM TO BELIEVE YOU!!!!!!!














laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh Just making some funnies man,,,,,

TRUST has to be EARNED by BOTH in any relationship..and once it is,,,end of story...drinker

laughsandgiggles's photo
Sun 08/24/08 05:04 PM
I would probably have a problem if i was in a relationship with someone and he all of a sudden was talking to a woman who he called "just a friend"

why does he need to talk to a new person when he has me? ya know? i would question him and our relationship probably would not last long. Im not a jealous woman by no means but im no fool either!

But already established friends don't bother me in the least.

EFP's photo
Sun 08/24/08 05:07 PM
Who determines that the friendhip is established His word or her word family friends or what?

Lily0923's photo
Sun 08/24/08 05:08 PM

Is it right to have lady friends if you are dating exclusively? Or maybe, they should the be in both parties friendship circle.


You can have them and continue your relationship status quo but if new one's pop up, there are rules of engagement to adhear to... No midnight phone calls or texts from them, no skipping plans to "help" them out... ect ect...

EFP's photo
Sun 08/24/08 05:10 PM
I agree to rules of engagement. Finally ...

laughsandgiggles's photo
Sun 08/24/08 05:11 PM
Not really sure what you mean by who determines that the friendship has been established

i know that if i am starting to develop a new relationship- i tell that person about my friends, male and female- they are familiar with their names and what they do. I will eventually have my friends meet my potential partner and vice versa.

Its all about trust- if you don't have that in a relationship- just give up!!!

Jules0565's photo
Sun 08/24/08 05:15 PM
Edited by Jules0565 on Sun 08/24/08 05:16 PM

Is it right to have lady friends if you are dating exclusively? Or maybe, they should the be in both parties friendship circle.



Of course they should be in the "circle" if you are dating someone exclusively.. why wouldn't you want to introduce them to put an end to any jealousy's, insecurities or questions they may have?

I also agree that if these female friends were made AFTER the relationship..that's not cool.

Another reason why we tend not to believe the "we're just friends" phrase is due to SOME men actually having affairs with those so called "friends".. they just used that as a lie to cover it up.

EFP's photo
Sun 08/24/08 05:23 PM
I've come to the conclusion that when it comes to lady friends it's pretty much null and void.noway Unless, it's okay with your significant other and we already no the answer to that one fellas...sad

Lily0923's photo
Sun 08/24/08 05:41 PM

I've come to the conclusion that when it comes to lady friends it's pretty much null and void.noway Unless, it's okay with your significant other and we already no the answer to that one fellas...sad


Pretty much every woman on here has said it's ok, so by you saying it's not, shows that you wanted ones you sleep with.... and that's not ok. so you are correct.

JaymeStephens84a0lc's photo
Sun 08/24/08 06:08 PM
Because women know that OTHER women seem to be more attracted to men who are unavailable. I have had tons of guy friends who were honestly JUST friends and their g/fs or wives decided for them that we could no longer be friends. Its kinda one of those "if I wanted him I'd already have him" type things...lol. But sadly for some reason we can't trust another woman any farther than we can throw them.

DestinysDream's photo
Sun 08/24/08 10:10 PM
Oh I know this one. Except I'm not a woman so the question wasn't for me.

No1sLove's photo
Sun 08/24/08 10:12 PM
I will believe him until he forgets to wipe off her lipstick. :cry:

Socratease's photo
Sun 08/24/08 10:35 PM
Because it generally is more than that,because most times it is that, a line..as in bs

no photo
Mon 08/25/08 12:08 AM
The only women men should be "friends" with are the FUGGLY ONES!!! and they have to have green teeth and hairy legs.......bigsmile

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Mon 08/25/08 12:08 AM
ok what do I win????huh

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