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Topic: What's the upside for you?
MsCarmen's photo
Sun 08/24/08 08:51 AM
We all know about the negative parts of online dating, but what's the upside for you?

For me, I like the fact that I can get to know a person without having to go out to the bars, clubs, etc. This is just me, but I feel like when I meet someone in the real world, things move at much faster pace then what I'm ready for. When I meet someone online, I can get to know them (somewhat) at my own speed without the worry of rushing into anything way too soon.

Any one else have an opinion on this?

whispertoascream's photo
Sun 08/24/08 08:53 AM
I like the fact that I can get to know the person first. I am WAY too shy in person. Much more open online. I am more me, and I think in the end I will eventually find somebody that likes me for me. Some day. Say Ooooo a decade or so?indifferent

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Sun 08/24/08 08:53 AM
I dont have to get dressed up and my hair can be sticking up all over the place......like it is now!!!bigsmile

mscherbear's photo
Sun 08/24/08 08:55 AM
I'll let you know when I actually GET a date ohwell

PATSFAN's photo
Sun 08/24/08 08:55 AM

I'll let you know when I actually GET a date ohwell




I agreedrinker

giocluedart's photo
Sun 08/24/08 08:55 AM
I just like that I've made several good friends online, I've dated a few and been serious with a couple, but it's cool.

MsCarmen's photo
Sun 08/24/08 08:58 AM

I dont have to get dressed up and my hair can be sticking up all over the place......like it is now!!!bigsmile


Oh, I'm thinking that is the best reason of all! Heck, I'm still in my pj's! laugh

mscherbear's photo
Sun 08/24/08 08:59 AM


I dont have to get dressed up and my hair can be sticking up all over the place......like it is now!!!bigsmile


Oh, I'm thinking that is the best reason of all! Heck, I'm still in my pj's! laugh


Me too! drinker drinker drinker

Etrain's photo
Sun 08/24/08 08:59 AM
online dating is...well, you get to meet a bigger selection of women...and...I don't have to share my beerdrinker drinker drinker

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Sun 08/24/08 09:00 AM
While a means of passing time and making some people smile.

There are many on here who just need to have a friend.

Meeting strangers and then becoming friends here is as much
a PART of this site as the dating end of it..:wink:

Caring, giving, helping, and making some smiles,,,,,,,
THESE,,,,are all my UP-SIDES!!!:wink: :heart: drinker

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Sun 08/24/08 09:01 AM
Men like it because they dont have to buy us dinner.......



















YET!!!devil

PATSFAN's photo
Sun 08/24/08 09:01 AM
Online dating sites are a long shot at best!!

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Sun 08/24/08 09:02 AM
wOW.......SUCH negative feelings about dating sites........why bother be here at all????

Etrain's photo
Sun 08/24/08 09:06 AM

wOW.......SUCH negative feelings about dating sites........why bother be here at all????

theres free beer...thats why I'm heredrinker drinker drinker

PATSFAN's photo
Sun 08/24/08 09:08 AM
Also the towel parties are fundrinker

Ruth34611's photo
Sun 08/24/08 09:09 AM


wOW.......SUCH negative feelings about dating sites........why bother be here at all????

theres free beer...thats why I'm heredrinker drinker drinker


I didn't get any free beer! where do I sign up for that???

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Sun 08/24/08 09:10 AM

Men like it because they dont have to buy us dinner.......


Wow!! They buy dinner??? Sign me UP!! laugh laugh laugh laugh
















YET!!!devil

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Sun 08/24/08 09:10 AM
<-----gets free chips and dip!!!surprised

MsCarmen's photo
Sun 08/24/08 09:11 AM

Online dating sites are a long shot at best!!


Yeah, but that's okay for me cause I'm not in any hurry to find someone so if it takes me a while, then so be it. I'm happy where I'm at in my life and personally, I think that is what's most important to attract someone.

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Sun 08/24/08 09:13 AM
Actually I agree with whisper. I like to talk AND get to know people for a really long time before I even go on a date.....the word of the day is LEARY.....BROUGHT TO YOU BY THE LETTER 789 AND THE NUMBER H!!!bigsmile drinker

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