am i ugly or something? cuz my last few ex's cheated on me and then ended up leaving me=[

am i a bad person?

if they cheated on u why the fvck would u want to stay w/ them?

if u don't mind a bit of constructive criticism, u should try to be more upbeat in ur profile.

this isn't a normal "dating" meat market, the best way to meet the ladies is to be active in the forums. 1 good post will get u more responses than 100 emails.

have patience, have fun and good luck

Your only 18 man. Alot of women, not just guys, at that age dont want to be tied down. Its not you.

And alot of times...its not gonna be because your ugly that a girl cheats on you. Its something else either your doing or not doing.

Hiya Chris, welcome to the site..

At 18 I think 3 mos was the longest I stayed with someone..
Then I was bored & on to fresh & wild..

Give yourself time to live so you experience different people & see what you want in time.. (I'm still doin that)

You don't have to prove anything to anybody but yourself.

Love yourself & it will fall into place when its right..

listen to her, she's a smart cookie

i didnt stay with them and in the past yr i been with 24 girls. nothing special. but they all came to me. so i mean it didnt mean much right? but when i get cheated on its like an insult to me. you know what i mean right? everyone of you should. its not that im depressed. im just lonely. the single life is a bummer.

{{{Bill}}}

& know to stay away from crazy women!!
I sooo Love men!!!

Ha ha...youve been with 24 women and you wonder why some have cheated on you. You might wanna go to the doctor and get checked out. You probably have herpacyphalgonalaids.

Im gonna leave this alone. This is looking more like thread troll then a actaul post.

ok, lets figure... 24 in a yr...

how long were you with these peeps that you call it "cheating" on you???

that many in that little time you couldn't of built much of a relationship to cheat on..

just because you "date" someone don't make it a relationship..

& how can you say they cheated on you when look how many you had in a yr.

Sometimes single life is alot better than getting with somebody just to say your with somebody...

um thats more than i've dated my entire life.
oh wait, im not old yet.

but still, I'm 20.....geesh.

yea at 18 we did act like trolls huh??


I'm out...

okay. i didnt just **** them okay. i maybe had sex with 2 of them. im more looking for a relationship. not just a quik ****. and i have been to the doctors. im perfectly fine and healthy the doctor said. so thanks for your info!

try the whole...one person...no sex for a couple of months til you know its gonna work out for a bit?

that what i do. i mean i just dont go around doing chicks. the ones i had sex with it was atleast 2 months in. and i mean i didnt even want it. as of everygirl in this fourm is gonna read this and think that im a lier. but im not lieing. im actually speaking the truth out here. im looking for love not sex. sooo sorry!

i don't see how you could've seen 24 girls then...like dating. exclusively. thats just...unrealistic.

if your not lying, i apologize...its just...grow some balls man. obviously your attracted to the trampy style women. stop looking for love, it'll find you. best advice i could give ya.

{{{{lisa}}}}

k dude, how many of them did u meet at a party or a football game and hook up w/ for a few nights? maybe a few weeks? how many of them did u just fool around w/? that's just fvck buddies and they r a dime a dozen my friend, don't put too much weight into their actions...

on the reverse side:

how many of them did u stay up all night talkin to? how many of them did u build friendships w/? how many of them went out of their way or sacrifice something to be w/ u and vice versa? that's what a lasting relationship is built on. a mutual respect and understanding of one another.

if the latter is true, i feel ur pain, i just went thru it myself. we just have to trust in ourselves, own our own **** on why it went wrong and move on.

ya it sucks to be single, but i'd rather be single than settle for someone i won't be happy w/...

im not looking for a quik ****. im more of a relationship man.

thaNKS metalhead. your a great help and put alot of thought in mind. thanks agian.

any time dude, ur young have patience it'll happen when u least expect it

How old were you when you became sexually active? I am doing the math here and it isn't adding up, or maybe I just need more coffee. First of all you need to learn to just say "no". At your young age I am astounded you have already had relations with so many females.....Don't you worry about things like std's?


You can love a million people a million different ways but your body is the one thing only you can choose to share. Start making it sacred and not just an activity.

Good luck young blood~