And your saying you couldnt or wouldnt respect someone who just wanted to have sex with someone, and the feelings between the two people were mutual?

in just a couple of days,no..some go years without knowing truly a companion,and if its just a couple of days that means its more lust than a mutual relation of something more than sex,for respectful man or woman it will come off as just a need fulfilled,an almost using of eachother for eachothers own needs instead of taking the others wants into account,more of a wham-bam-thank u maam.If thats what some prefer that is fine,jus my point is its not the beggining of a respectful relationship..it can be,but it is rare

I respect you for your comments.

And I respect myself for not going there...thanks again Minglers.