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| Topic: How many women having given up looking for guys in here????? | |
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I am just here for the party! And now to give Lily Tequila. I just want to watch a show!  Just kidding hun  I don't pursue it, but for some reason I don't deny it either while under the influence of it.  I am sure the guys will help push you a little. Lily likes more than simple pushing. She needs some tugging and light slapping as well. Don't forget the hair pulling, that's key.... |
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i think all the nice men are marry and we get what left which isn't alot lol or there gay lol
 
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me i gave up! most of the guys i talk to. we talk once and have an awesome conversation leaving you thinking omg this is great. then bam. you barely talk ever again. soo im just here for friends and a good conversation with some good people.  ..and how is an interested man to meet a woman when every woman is telling them this? ...and, more importantly, if you are both interested, what is an appropriate next step and how do you go about negotiating it? k so im stupid lol what do you mean next step? |
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I am just here for the party! And now to give Lily Tequila. I just want to watch a show! Just kidding hun I don't pursue it, but for some reason I don't deny it either while under the influence of it. I am sure the guys will help push you a little. Lily likes more than simple pushing. She needs some tugging and light slapping as well. Don't forget the hair pulling, that's key.... I had "tugging" in there already for the hair gimmick. I like the way you think though.
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I gave up just in time to find someone. I highly recommend giving up. awwwwwwww We all love you kid ... so glad you found something There is truth in the adage that you find things when you quit looking, btw. I get a good laugh now remembering the contents of one of our first emails, CB. It seems that Mr. Wonderful has fallen right into my lap after all, huh? BTW...he is waiting patiently for me to clean my plate too.  Operation Rumoresque is a GO! Send confirmation on your ready.
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me i gave up! most of the guys i talk to. we talk once and have an awesome conversation leaving you thinking omg this is great. then bam. you barely talk ever again. soo im just here for friends and a good conversation with some good people. ..and how is an interested man to meet a woman when every woman is telling them this? ...and, more importantly, if you are both interested, what is an appropriate next step and how do you go about negotiating it? k so im stupid lol what do you mean next step? The next step after having a conversation and an informal relationship online. I can't answer that for you or anyone - aside from myself. The "next step" with someone you share mutual interest in should be something that both parties are comfortable with. I would assume this would depend heavily on individual goals and comfort/trust levels, hense everyone should have a different idea. It is up to you and whomever you chose to negotiate that next step, just like when you meet someone offline. All I'm trying to point out is that if every woman on here "Gave up looking" following your logic then the men who are really looking lose oppurtunity without warrent. And everyone wants to feel like they have a fair shot, they don't want to know that everyone "just wants online friends" before they even talk to them. Last thing: Why does the male have to lead the relationship? You are just as capable (women) as creating something after that BAM! as any one of us men! |
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Fire when ready Girlfriend!
Do I get to pick out the hottest bridesmaid if you get married? CRAP!  I said the "M" word .. my bad |
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me i gave up! most of the guys i talk to. we talk once and have an awesome conversation leaving you thinking omg this is great. then bam. you barely talk ever again. soo im just here for friends and a good conversation with some good people. ..and how is an interested man to meet a woman when every woman is telling them this? ...and, more importantly, if you are both interested, what is an appropriate next step and how do you go about negotiating it? k so im stupid lol what do you mean next step? The next step after having a conversation and an informal relationship online. I can't answer that for you or anyone - aside from myself. The "next step" with someone you share mutual interest in should be something that both parties are comfortable with. I would assume this would depend heavily on individual goals and comfort/trust levels, hense everyone should have a different idea. It is up to you and whomever you chose to negotiate that next step, just like when you meet someone offline. All I'm trying to point out is that if every woman on here "Gave up looking" following your logic then the men who are really looking lose oppurtunity without warrent. And everyone wants to feel like they have a fair shot, they don't want to know that everyone "just wants online friends" before they even talk to them. Last thing: Why does the male have to lead the relationship? You are just as capable (women) as creating something after that BAM! as any one of us men! lol im not capable. Im done chasing men. I've done it too much in the past and all it gets me is hurt. for once i want to be chased. i wish guys would realize when a guy chases us we feel special. and im not saying i just want online friends id love to meet a guy i could have a relationship with and go from there. |
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me i gave up! most of the guys i talk to. we talk once and have an awesome conversation leaving you thinking omg this is great. then bam. you barely talk ever again. soo im just here for friends and a good conversation with some good people. ..and how is an interested man to meet a woman when every woman is telling them this? ...and, more importantly, if you are both interested, what is an appropriate next step and how do you go about negotiating it? k so im stupid lol what do you mean next step? The next step after having a conversation and an informal relationship online. I can't answer that for you or anyone - aside from myself. The "next step" with someone you share mutual interest in should be something that both parties are comfortable with. I would assume this would depend heavily on individual goals and comfort/trust levels, hense everyone should have a different idea. It is up to you and whomever you chose to negotiate that next step, just like when you meet someone offline. All I'm trying to point out is that if every woman on here "Gave up looking" following your logic then the men who are really looking lose oppurtunity without warrent. And everyone wants to feel like they have a fair shot, they don't want to know that everyone "just wants online friends" before they even talk to them. Last thing: Why does the male have to lead the relationship? You are just as capable (women) as creating something after that BAM! as any one of us men! lol im not capable. Im done chasing men. I've done it too much in the past and all it gets me is hurt. for once i want to be chased. i wish guys would realize when a guy chases us we feel special. and im not saying i just want online friends id love to meet a guy i could have a relationship with and go from there. You do realize that men can feel the same emotions you are describing, right? Like me: I don't neccessarily feel like chasing someone either, much of the time. I want it easy for me too. I feel special when I am chased. I'm not trying to bash you or anything, don't take this the wrong way - please. If that is what you are describing (and even more so if many other women feel the same way), the question then becomes how do you want someone to "give chase" to you in an online forum or in an online chat? What is the appropriate next step for the dude who is gonna chase you, but does not know how to do so with the mediums provided on this site? Sounds like you would like to meet someone in the real world, outside of this site. So.. how does someone (if they were so inclined) accomplish that via this site? |
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me i gave up! most of the guys i talk to. we talk once and have an awesome conversation leaving you thinking omg this is great. then bam. you barely talk ever again. soo im just here for friends and a good conversation with some good people. ..and how is an interested man to meet a woman when every woman is telling them this? ...and, more importantly, if you are both interested, what is an appropriate next step and how do you go about negotiating it? k so im stupid lol what do you mean next step? The next step after having a conversation and an informal relationship online. I can't answer that for you or anyone - aside from myself. The "next step" with someone you share mutual interest in should be something that both parties are comfortable with. I would assume this would depend heavily on individual goals and comfort/trust levels, hense everyone should have a different idea. It is up to you and whomever you chose to negotiate that next step, just like when you meet someone offline. All I'm trying to point out is that if every woman on here "Gave up looking" following your logic then the men who are really looking lose oppurtunity without warrent. And everyone wants to feel like they have a fair shot, they don't want to know that everyone "just wants online friends" before they even talk to them. Last thing: Why does the male have to lead the relationship? You are just as capable (women) as creating something after that BAM! as any one of us men! lol im not capable. Im done chasing men. I've done it too much in the past and all it gets me is hurt. for once i want to be chased. i wish guys would realize when a guy chases us we feel special. and im not saying i just want online friends id love to meet a guy i could have a relationship with and go from there. You do realize that men can feel the same emotions you are describing, right? Like me: I don't neccessarily feel like chasing someone either, much of the time. I want it easy for me too. I feel special when I am chased. I'm not trying to bash you or anything, don't take this the wrong way - please. If that is what you are describing (and even more so if many other women feel the same way), the question then becomes how do you want someone to "give chase" to you in an online forum or in an online chat? What is the appropriate next step for the dude who is gonna chase you, but does not know how to do so with the mediums provided on this site? Sounds like you would like to meet someone in the real world, outside of this site. So.. how does someone (if they were so inclined) accomplish that via this site? im not offended and i wasnt upset. i was just saying ive chased every guy ive ever dated. and for once id love for a guy to chase me. or if i chase him and catch him at least chase me some after were together. and i would love to meet someone in the real world but i have no idea how. im in college full time and work full time and when im out in public guys don't speak to me. i can put my hand on my heart and tell you not one guy has ever approached me in public. so whats a girl or even a guy to do in that situation? but as far as on here. send a message get to know us. ask us things about ourself. i noticed in a lot of the conversations ive had ive had to ask everything and then they give their anwser and dont ask what i like or feel after that. its like they want me to know them but they dont want to know me which makes it tough to establish a connection. but yah i feel if a guy like a girl on here just talk to her send her a message show that your interested and then if shes interested too you can go from there maybe meet in person.. stuff like that. does that help your question? i tried to explain it the best i could |
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me i gave up! most of the guys i talk to. we talk once and have an awesome conversation leaving you thinking omg this is great. then bam. you barely talk ever again. soo im just here for friends and a good conversation with some good people. ..and how is an interested man to meet a woman when every woman is telling them this? ...and, more importantly, if you are both interested, what is an appropriate next step and how do you go about negotiating it? k so im stupid lol what do you mean next step? The next step after having a conversation and an informal relationship online. I can't answer that for you or anyone - aside from myself. The "next step" with someone you share mutual interest in should be something that both parties are comfortable with. I would assume this would depend heavily on individual goals and comfort/trust levels, hense everyone should have a different idea. It is up to you and whomever you chose to negotiate that next step, just like when you meet someone offline. All I'm trying to point out is that if every woman on here "Gave up looking" following your logic then the men who are really looking lose oppurtunity without warrent. And everyone wants to feel like they have a fair shot, they don't want to know that everyone "just wants online friends" before they even talk to them. Last thing: Why does the male have to lead the relationship? You are just as capable (women) as creating something after that BAM! as any one of us men! lol im not capable. Im done chasing men. I've done it too much in the past and all it gets me is hurt. for once i want to be chased. i wish guys would realize when a guy chases us we feel special. and im not saying i just want online friends id love to meet a guy i could have a relationship with and go from there. You do realize that men can feel the same emotions you are describing, right? Like me: I don't neccessarily feel like chasing someone either, much of the time. I want it easy for me too. I feel special when I am chased. I'm not trying to bash you or anything, don't take this the wrong way - please. If that is what you are describing (and even more so if many other women feel the same way), the question then becomes how do you want someone to "give chase" to you in an online forum or in an online chat? What is the appropriate next step for the dude who is gonna chase you, but does not know how to do so with the mediums provided on this site? Sounds like you would like to meet someone in the real world, outside of this site. So.. how does someone (if they were so inclined) accomplish that via this site? im not offended and i wasnt upset. i was just saying ive chased every guy ive ever dated. and for once id love for a guy to chase me. or if i chase him and catch him at least chase me some after were together. and i would love to meet someone in the real world but i have no idea how. im in college full time and work full time and when im out in public guys don't speak to me. i can put my hand on my heart and tell you not one guy has ever approached me in public. so whats a girl or even a guy to do in that situation? but as far as on here. send a message get to know us. ask us things about ourself. i noticed in a lot of the conversations ive had ive had to ask everything and then they give their anwser and dont ask what i like or feel after that. its like they want me to know them but they dont want to know me which makes it tough to establish a connection. but yah i feel if a guy like a girl on here just talk to her send her a message show that your interested and then if shes interested too you can go from there maybe meet in person.. stuff like that. does that help your question? i tried to explain it the best i could |
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it = not real life...its when you take it to reality, thats when you make decisions
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