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i just have to say that i found a certain person comments very strange.I didn't even understand how he would think that way[i won't mention names but i think yall know]
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If within the past few months he's STILL trying to work things out with his "wife".. then why would you want to even consider starting a relationship with him?
#1 After 2 years of seperation he's still not over her... he's still trying to work things out. #2 How can he work things out with the wife if he's trying to date you? That would concern me. #3 Tell him to look you up 6 months to a year AFTER he's divorced and has been alone without any female, to figure out what he wants in his life. |
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i just have to say that i found a certain person comments very strange.I didn't even understand how he would think that way[i won't mention names but i think yall know] Yeah I know right... I know exactly who you mean... skrew him.. . ha ha.. blah... |
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If within the past few months he's STILL trying to work things out with his "wife".. then why would you want to even consider starting a relationship with him? #1 After 2 years of seperation he's still not over her... he's still trying to work things out. #2 How can he work things out with the wife if he's trying to date you? That would concern me. #3 Tell him to look you up 6 months to a year AFTER he's divorced and has been alone without any female, to figure out what he wants in his life. I didn't know anything about this wife things till today... now all of a sudden he is feeling the need to share about it all with me.. we been co-workers for over a year and closer then friends the past few months.. you would think he would be able to open up to me about that.. right... now he claims he doesn't want to lose me... well he def lost what we had.. i can't stop being co-workers with him though.. thats pretty much all we will ever stand at with each other.. |
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Why would you invite that drama into your life?  Thing is for over a year he never mentioned a wife or a separated wife or anything.. we were merely friends that grew into something more... we weren't in a exclusive relationship or anything... er my main thing is should i let him speak his part at least or no i am being an idiot huh?   |
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It's a lie of omission, he didn't tell you he was married. It's still a lie, NO way to start a relationship.  I agree
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i just have to say that i found a certain person comments very strange.I didn't even understand how he would think that way[i won't mention names but i think yall know]  me
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i just have to say that i found a certain person comments very strange.I didn't even understand how he would think that way[i won't mention names but i think yall know] Yeah I know right... I know exactly who you mean... skrew him.. . ha ha.. blah... If he is saying all this is he showing any level of accountability and responsibility for what he is doing or saying. Tell him to come back when he is divorced or don't bother |
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Why would you invite that drama into your life? Thing is for over a year he never mentioned a wife or a separated wife or anything.. we were merely friends that grew into something more... we weren't in a exclusive relationship or anything... er my main thing is should i let him speak his part at least or no i am being an idiot huh? You are right.. and tonight I am fixing to find out some more truth to this stupid drama I texted him "I will hear you out if I too can have her hear me out!" he said "No,not now, not tonight!" |
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Why would you invite that drama into your life? Thing is for over a year he never mentioned a wife or a separated wife or anything.. we were merely friends that grew into something more... we weren't in a exclusive relationship or anything... er my main thing is should i let him speak his part at least or no i am being an idiot huh? You are right.. and tonight I am fixing to find out some more truth to this stupid drama I texted him "I will hear you out if I too can have her hear me out!" he said "No,not now, not tonight!" Well he's off to a roaring start....... |
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Edited by
trying_to_fly
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Wed 08/20/08 06:03 PM
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Well, you already know what I'm gonna say...this guy doesn't have his head screwed on straight and he's a basketcase!! Just watch yourself....no need to go out and get yourself hurt....just be careful....Oh sure...invite patsfan out but not me....I see how ya are....
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I have recently had this same thing happen to me. And what really chapped my caboose is that he had the nerve to tell me in the beginning that nice guys finish last and he wanted a fair shot. Then today I get the "we need too talk" thing. I told him no need because I know how the story ends. Oh and nice girls finish last too!
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Edited by
Jules0565
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Wed 08/20/08 06:05 PM
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Why would you invite that drama into your life? Thing is for over a year he never mentioned a wife or a separated wife or anything.. we were merely friends that grew into something more... we weren't in a exclusive relationship or anything... er my main thing is should i let him speak his part at least or no i am being an idiot huh? You are right.. and tonight I am fixing to find out some more truth to this stupid drama I texted him "I will hear you out if I too can have her hear me out!" he said "No,not now, not tonight!" HAHA.. of course not.. she probably still believes their working things "out". He doesn't want you rocking that cradle. |
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 Ask him to fix me up with a date with his wife.
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Well, you already know what I'm gonna say...this guy doesn't have his head screwed on straight and he's a basketcase!! Just watch yourself....no need to go out and get yourself hurt....just be careful....Oh sure...invite patsfan out but not me....I see how ya are.... Fly you know you hold a special place in my heart.. if the you know who morons never put there own foot up there A$$' things would be different.. I am not trying to get myself hurt though.. you know I wouldn't try to do that.. |
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I have recently had this same thing happen to me. And what really chapped my caboose is that he had the nerve to tell me in the beginning that nice guys finish last and he wanted a fair shot. Then today I get the "we need too talk" thing. I told him no need because I know how the story ends. Oh and nice girls finish last too! At least he gave you the "we need to talk" talk... I found out this one was married while our arms were around each others.. and she was staring me down from the back! Ha!  Idiots... men need to be castrated at birth by rusty barbwires infected with nasty doodoo things!
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I have recently had this same thing happen to me. And what really chapped my caboose is that he had the nerve to tell me in the beginning that nice guys finish last and he wanted a fair shot. Then today I get the "we need too talk" thing. I told him no need because I know how the story ends. Oh and nice girls finish last too! At least he gave you the "we need to talk" talk... I found out this one was married while our arms were around each others.. and she was staring me down from the back! Ha! Idiots... men need to be castrated at birth by rusty barbwires infected with nasty doodoo things! |
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He is jumping out of the fire into the frying pan. He sounds insecure with everything. He needs time to himself. He is thinking your going to solve all his problems for him. Get out while the gettin is good. 6 months from now you will be glad you did.
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Idiots... men need to be castrated at birth by rusty barbwires infected with nasty doodoo things! AGREED.......! |
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I just don't understand how people can do something like that to people. Oh, and to clarify things, the "we need to talk" came in a TEXT MESSAGE! How high school is that??
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