Topic: How bad have you missed a love one?
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Wed 08/20/08 01:54 PM



was hospitalized for 3 days for missing someone so badly


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My first "real" relationship was with a dear guy who lost his life in Afghanistan soon after 9/11... in his last letter he told me he was coming home and that he will call me that night or the next day... I never heard from him.. I broke down missing him so much it made me sick... after a few days of not moving and eating.. I was taken to the hospital.. I came home in 3 days... Sal never made it home.. RIP..


so sorry to here that....i better start eating again.

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Wed 08/20/08 01:55 PM



was hospitalized for 3 days for missing someone so badly


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My first "real" relationship was with a dear guy who lost his life in Afghanistan soon after 9/11... in his last letter he told me he was coming home and that he will call me that night or the next day... I never heard from him.. I broke down missing him so much it made me sick... after a few days of not moving and eating.. I was taken to the hospital.. I came home in 3 days... Sal never made it home.. RIP..
Im so so sorry !flowerforyou

SimplyElla's photo
Wed 08/20/08 01:58 PM
Thank you.. it is okay though.. sometimes I feel that I got so ill right when he passed or so because it was only week or so later his parents got the news.. He was an awesome man.. and loved this country... he died proudly I am sure....

Do eat though!

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Wed 08/20/08 02:00 PM
Edited by Up2Us on Wed 08/20/08 02:13 PM



was hospitalized for 3 days for missing someone so badly


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My first "real" relationship was with a dear guy who lost his life in Afghanistan soon after 9/11... in his last letter he told me he was coming home and that he will call me that night or the next day... I never heard from him.. I broke down missing him so much it made me sick... after a few days of not moving and eating.. I was taken to the hospital.. I came home in 3 days... Sal never made it home.. RIP..
Sorry for your loss....brokenheart I lost my nephew in Iraq almost this same time last year. He left a beautiful wife, and three children. He was suppose to come home in three months. God gave him closier in his life before his end. We will always miss him, until we're together again. I feel your pain sweetie.flowerforyou :cry:

star1972's photo
Wed 08/20/08 02:03 PM
ur all making me cry.
think i better leave.
ur sadness is way more than my being dumped.
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MirrorMirror's photo
Wed 08/20/08 02:07 PM

How bad have you missed a love one?
:cry: I miss her everyday:cry:

writer_gurl's photo
Wed 08/20/08 02:09 PM
When my baby goat died I was sick for 2 weekssad

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Wed 08/20/08 02:12 PM

My granmother was my best friend, my mentor, my teacher, my hand out and get goofy friend. she past away 6 weeks after my daughter was born. I miss her smile, her smell, her guidance and her good heartedness every day since. That was 22 yrs ago.:cry:
Wow...this hit home...my mamaw...22 years ago..3 months after my daughter was born...miss her so muchflowerforyou

LouLou2's photo
Wed 08/20/08 02:19 PM
I continued to live with the man who I thought was the love of my life for another 12 years after he'd emotionally abandoned our marriage. Although I felt the man I loved was either dead or had existed only in my mind & heart, I stayed because I missed him and, in part, because I felt as if I were at least in close proximity to him. Wasn't able to make the leap or delude myself that the man I lived with all those years was anything like the man I loved. I finally left when I realized I was no longer living, either. People can become ill, do crazy things and even stop really living when they miss someone.

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Wed 08/20/08 02:20 PM
.........Love hurts...love wounds...love scars...

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Wed 08/20/08 02:21 PM
Edited by Up2Us on Wed 08/20/08 02:51 PM




was hospitalized for 3 days for missing someone so badly


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My first "real" relationship was with a dear guy who lost his life in Afghanistan soon after 9/11... in his last letter he told me he was coming home and that he will call me that night or the next day... I never heard from him.. I broke down missing him so much it made me sick... after a few days of not moving and eating.. I was taken to the hospital.. I came home in 3 days... Sal never made it home.. RIP..
Sorry for your loss....brokenheart I lost my nephew in Iraq almost this same time last year. He left a beautiful wife, and three children. He was suppose to come home in three months. God gave him closier in his life before his end. We will always miss him, until we're together again. I feel your pain sweetie.flowerforyou :cry:

I wrote the following poem in dedication to my nephew & sister-in-law.

FINAL KISS

Their silhouettes stand in the doorway.
Staring deeply into each others eyes.
Thoughts of the night before, and moments of tears.
Feel so much heavier then ever before.
Memories of all the years gone by before their final kiss.

With tenderness & kindness she kisses him goodbye within her soul.

Home sweet home at times are a passing memory from where he is now. (Iraq)
He still hears the distant childish laughter of his children hidden upon the wind.
The memories of her standing in the doorway of his life, he simply can't forget.
As his body begins to shakes from the coldness and his eyes' slowly grow dim.
Within his heart and with his last breath he remembers their final kiss.

With tenderness & kindness she kisses him goodbye within her soul.

The angels gather quietly upon the battle field of life.
The family stands in silence as the bugle floods the air with grief an strife.
Flags are given to his family while she sits there remembering the final kiss.
She's at home now staring at wedding pictures as a widow longing for a moment longer within their final kiss. flowerforyou :heart:

ThaiPrincess21's photo
Wed 08/20/08 02:21 PM
I miss my father and daughter. They both passed away 8 days apart. My father was my best friend. He was beaten to death in his apartment 6 yrs ago. My daughter was born 4 months early she lived for 17 days. She died 8 days after my father died. I still cry every night. I miss them so much, it hurts so bad!!!! :cry: sad brokenheart

auburngirl's photo
Wed 08/20/08 02:24 PM

I miss my father and daughter. They both passed away 8 days apart. My father was my best friend. He was beaten to death in his apartment 6 yrs ago. My daughter was born 4 months early she lived for 17 days. She died 8 days after my father died. I still cry every night. I miss them so much, it hurts so bad!!!! :cry: sad brokenheart


flowerforyou :cry:

oldsage's photo
Wed 08/20/08 02:29 PM
Been a widower 11+yrs.
Gwen is the best thing that ever happened to me.
we are soul mates & am following her instructions; given 5 days before she died.

1. Take care of the dogs.

2. Take care of Her daughter & my son.

3. Have fun, learning to do that.

ohwell tears slaphead :cry: ohwell

star1972's photo
Wed 08/20/08 02:31 PM


I miss my father and daughter. They both passed away 8 days apart. My father was my best friend. He was beaten to death in his apartment 6 yrs ago. My daughter was born 4 months early she lived for 17 days. She died 8 days after my father died. I still cry every night. I miss them so much, it hurts so bad!!!! :cry: sad brokenheart


flowerforyou :cry:


there is nothing i can say...flowerforyou flowers :heart: sad

auburngirl's photo
Wed 08/20/08 02:33 PM

Been a widower 11+yrs.
Gwen is the best thing that ever happened to me.
we are soul mates & am following her instructions; given 5 days before she died.

1. Take care of the dogs.

2. Take care of Her daughter & my son.

3. Have fun, learning to do that.

ohwell tears slaphead :cry: ohwell


When my husband died, Don, we didn't have "that talk". Hopefully I'm living fully like he'd want. flowerforyou

ladypegasus's photo
Wed 08/20/08 02:35 PM
Since my dad had been gone(3-14-96),I haven't had anyone to argue with just for the sake of arguing. And then there is my older brother, younger brother, and my mom.
At least I see a lot of my dad and older brother in my son...he can fix just about anything and will argue with a brick wall.

ThaiPrincess21's photo
Wed 08/20/08 02:40 PM
I see a lot of my dad in me and my daughter. It's the memories I have that gets me through the day.

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Wed 08/20/08 02:44 PM
Edited by Up2Us on Wed 08/20/08 02:47 PM
Well, I had to get something to drink. (beer) I lost my father when I was 14yrs old. I also remember the concern in his eyes. He was worried about me.... I know he has always watched out for me. Love can be so beautiful it still keeps us together. flowerforyou

auburngirl's photo
Wed 08/20/08 02:54 PM
That's because love never dies. Fortunately for us.