Topic: Old loves.........
maureeng945's photo
Tue 08/19/08 05:50 PM
What do you do when an old love wants to come back into your life? But keep in mind....things never did "end badly"....just "seemed to end".

MAKE_ME_GIGGLE's photo
Tue 08/19/08 05:52 PM
It ended for a reason....

ledi180's photo
Tue 08/19/08 05:53 PM
My thought exactly Ms Giggle flowerforyou

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Tue 08/19/08 05:53 PM

What do you do when an old love wants to come back into your life? But keep in mind....things never did "end badly"....just "seemed to end".


As a general rule, I try to avoid that situation. There have been a few times when I felt justified making an exception.

I think a lot of it depends on the actual reason(s) for the breakup -- drugs? No second chance there, for example. I'm not going to deal with that again. Other things need to be looked at in other ways.


PATSFAN's photo
Tue 08/19/08 05:53 PM
drinker It might be better than no-lovedrinker

Jules0565's photo
Tue 08/19/08 05:54 PM
An ex is an ex for a reason.. NO! noway

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Tue 08/19/08 05:56 PM
huh

briancarr's photo
Tue 08/19/08 05:57 PM

What do you do when an old love wants to come back into your life? But keep in mind....things never did "end badly"....just "seemed to end".
Change your number

maureeng945's photo
Tue 08/19/08 05:59 PM
Ok maybe a lil more explanation would help lol

He had a psycho ex wife that would interfere in any relationship he had.....since then? He has moved away from her and it didn't have to do with "us nothing wanting to be together"....it was a matter of sanity! lol

livelife68's photo
Tue 08/19/08 06:00 PM
Have to ask myself what's changed to get the relationship to have a different outcome. If nothing has changed chances are I'll get the same outcome and won't start the relationship again.

maureeng945's photo
Tue 08/19/08 06:01 PM

Have to ask myself what's changed to get the relationship to have a different outcome. If nothing has changed chances are I'll get the same outcome and won't start the relationship again.


I had that thought come across my mind smokin

maureeng945's photo
Tue 08/19/08 06:01 PM


What do you do when an old love wants to come back into your life? But keep in mind....things never did "end badly"....just "seemed to end".
Change your number


laugh laugh laugh laugh

Wow! No optimism people????

alexiateigra's photo
Tue 08/19/08 06:02 PM

What do you do when an old love wants to come back into your life? But keep in mind....things never did "end badly"....just "seemed to end".


There are few questions that you need to ask yourself.

1). Do you still love him?
2). Was he a good friend before, during, and after the relation ship ended.

If the your answer yes to ALL the above questions proceed to the next set of questions. If the answer is no, to ANY of the above questions, forget him.

3). Was he a mistake?
4). Is he best forgotten?
5). Did he betray your trust?

If the answer is yes to ANY of the questions from 3-5, then run as fast as you can from him. If the answer is NO, then you have a decision to make. smokin

JoLynn's photo
Tue 08/19/08 06:03 PM
i'm thinkin' don't rule it out...but think it through carefully...that's my optimism for the day laugh

maureeng945's photo
Tue 08/19/08 06:03 PM


What do you do when an old love wants to come back into your life? But keep in mind....things never did "end badly"....just "seemed to end".


There are few questions that you need to ask yourself.

1). Do you still love him?
2). Was he a good friend before, during, and after the relation ship ended.

If the your answer yes to ALL the above questions proceed to the next set of questions. If the answer is no, to ANY of the above questions, forget him.

3). Was he a mistake?
4). Is he best forgotten?
5). Did he betray your trust?

If the answer is yes to ANY of the questions from 3-5, then run as fast as you can from him. If the answer is NO, then you have a decision to make. smokin



happy All no's so, now what??? lol

VladTheInhailer's photo
Tue 08/19/08 06:04 PM
i kinda know what ya mean...but there must have been some bad chemistry or somthin or you couldnt stand to be apart

maureeng945's photo
Tue 08/19/08 06:04 PM

i'm thinkin' don't rule it out...but think it through carefully...that's my optimism for the day laugh


laugh flowerforyou ty ty lol

alexiateigra's photo
Tue 08/19/08 06:05 PM



What do you do when an old love wants to come back into your life? But keep in mind....things never did "end badly"....just "seemed to end".


There are few questions that you need to ask yourself.

1). Do you still love him?
2). Was he a good friend before, during, and after the relation ship ended.

If the your answer yes to ALL the above questions proceed to the next set of questions. If the answer is no, to ANY of the above questions, forget him.

3). Was he a mistake?
4). Is he best forgotten?
5). Did he betray your trust?

If the answer is yes to ANY of the questions from 3-5, then run as fast as you can from him. If the answer is NO, then you have a decision to make. smokin



happy All no's so, now what??? lol


Well, maybe then you are better as just friends :laughing: :laughing: :laughing: :laughing: spock spock spock :laughing: :laughing:

maureeng945's photo
Tue 08/19/08 06:06 PM

i kinda know what ya mean...but there must have been some bad chemistry or somthin or you couldnt stand to be apart


No bad chemistry....just a bad ex wife LOL Chemistry was never the problem. And I also moved away for 3 yrs.....we never lost touch and stayed very good friends.frustrated

maureeng945's photo
Tue 08/19/08 06:07 PM




What do you do when an old love wants to come back into your life? But keep in mind....things never did "end badly"....just "seemed to end".


There are few questions that you need to ask yourself.

1). Do you still love him?
2). Was he a good friend before, during, and after the relation ship ended.

If the your answer yes to ALL the above questions proceed to the next set of questions. If the answer is no, to ANY of the above questions, forget him.

3). Was he a mistake?
4). Is he best forgotten?
5). Did he betray your trust?

If the answer is yes to ANY of the questions from 3-5, then run as fast as you can from him. If the answer is NO, then you have a decision to make. smokin



happy All no's so, now what??? lol


Well, maybe then you are better as just friends :laughing: :laughing: :laughing: :laughing: spock spock spock :laughing: :laughing:


Ok I missed number 1! OOPS! lol make that 1 yes and the rest no's.

didn't know it was a test frustrated