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Topic: Reporting Abuse, Flaming and other stuff...
buttons's photo
Sun 03/18/07 08:30 AM
im wondering if we should even care? or bother to care? since when such
a thread as to make serious accusations on one <rather true or not> not
my business and i dont care myself.. but to put screennames in a thread
about someone else about serious crimes.. why the heck does the thread
dissapear and not the person banned? i dont get it seems that people are
getting treated here differently... ive seen banning done on far less
offenses . we all know that one can make up lies about someone else and
accusations.. but this is bashing big time i say... and isnt it the rule
that u get banned for bashing? why does this bashing person not get
banned? hey id rather be called fat than a rapist and a theif!
especiall to not be here to defend myself...

buttons's photo
Sun 03/18/07 08:32 AM
im sorry but im wondering how many of u would like to be called those
things? and not see the person get banned just curious here?.....

Serchin4MyRedWine's photo
Sun 03/18/07 08:33 AM
hey Buttons..is that "flaming"? Bashing? maybe I'll get an answer
soon....we newbies get no respectlaugh

buttons's photo
Sun 03/18/07 08:36 AM
this would be bashing ones person of whom ther are... ya know it could
happen again... anyone can make up lies..facts that person didnt even
get a spanking for it who knows .. u could be next! i mean rather u like
the person or not who got bashed should be no difference in your
opionion on this issue..

buttons's photo
Sun 03/18/07 08:38 AM
lmao opinionlaugh i must have onions on the brain this morninglaugh

good morning serchinflowerforyou welcome to jsh:smile:

Serchin4MyRedWine's photo
Sun 03/18/07 08:40 AM
well I guess it shows how green I am to this..I don't see why anyone
would bash anyone else...no one really "knows" anyone for real on
here...its just different people trying to connect and meet otheres...if
you are not interested in someone..just move on..why attack someone
personally?

Serchin4MyRedWine's photo
Sun 03/18/07 08:41 AM
good morning Buttons..met you last night...good to see you again:smile:

buttons's photo
Sun 03/18/07 08:45 AM
laugh laugh just trying to respect ya:wink:

and anyhow this inncident was a guy bashing another guy

Serchin4MyRedWine's photo
Sun 03/18/07 08:49 AM
thx Buttons.. actually now that you mention it..it was something about
a supposed rapist driving a taxi? lmao...I'm probably way off
base..hehee anyway doesn't matter..I'm new and have met a lot of cool
people <you included> so everything is cool here as far as I
see...someone wants to bash me..spread rumors...go for it..those people
have low self-esteem and don't bother me..

buttons's photo
Sun 03/18/07 08:51 AM
yes was the post.

Serchin4MyRedWine's photo
Sun 03/18/07 08:54 AM
yes..I thought so...saw something about it..but didn't really pay it
much attention...children will be children...like you said..maybe a
spanking will do the trick:wink:

Serchin4MyRedWine's photo
Sun 03/18/07 08:57 AM
Well I have to run...Thx again Buttons for helping me out with
terminology..hope to see you around later...Have a great
dayflowerforyou :smile:

buttons's photo
Sun 03/18/07 09:38 AM
bye serchin ...sorry for delay in my emails:smile:

Barbiesbigsister's photo
Sun 03/18/07 12:27 PM
I agree with dave2722drinker

Barbiesbigsister's photo
Sun 03/18/07 12:28 PM
buttons you GO GIRL!!drinker drinker drinker drinker drinker

Morena350's photo
Sun 03/18/07 12:30 PM
I agree with that idea,, is cool

creationsfire's photo
Sun 03/18/07 01:30 PM
I agree as well. Have only had to use the abuse feature once since Ive
been here and consider that good. Only been here since Oct and have had
very few problems.
Learning the rules and reading them before posting would be a big help
as well.
But it would be much nicer if we could do it without having to go to the
persons page.

buttons's photo
Sun 03/18/07 01:31 PM
oh serchin i mean delay on my posts sorry about that

verbatimeb's photo
Sun 03/18/07 01:41 PM
All that was requested was an easy way to report threads/comments that
are "out of line" without copying/pasteing and going to a specific
profile to report them.

Mike and VC would be the ones to make the decisions on what would be
grounds for banning. The entire thing is up to them. Since I have been
here I have seen several women who quit the site, under extreme duress,
who probably felt they had no choice.

Being able to REPORT is the one coure of action that should be taken by
members, the rest is up to the owners. Having been in this situation
before, I know what to look for but not eveyone has had those
experiences so all one can do is try to help out the innocent victims by
reporting the incidents.

Mike and VC ask for our opinions in an open forum so going there with
any request is certainly the right thing to do, if you have problems or
see a pattern emerging.

It would make life easier if the reporting was easier.
Easy peasy. Right?

Thanks eveyone for your feedback, I am sure it will be greatly
appreciated. Well, I appreciate it anyhousen!

You all have a great Sundy, what's left of it.

:smile:

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