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Edited by
Jill298
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Sun 08/17/08 06:31 PM
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Time and time again I hear people asking how to approach someone, or they're not sure if someone likes them or not... and the standard answer I see is "just be yourself" and everything will work out. We're always telling people just to "be themselves" However, it occured to me tonight as I was watching Bridezillas... what if these people are just naturally b****y and mean? And just telling someone to be themselves gives them the green light to treat others like crap, because it's "who they really are". Do you believe that sometimes, some people are just naturally overbearing, needy, and b****y?
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Yes, some people just naturally are.
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Time and time again I hear people asking how to approach someone, or they're not sure if someone likes them or not... and the standard answer I see is "just be yourself" and everything will work out. We're always telling people just to "be themselves" However, it occured to me tonight as I was watching Bridezillas... what if these people are just naturally b****y and mean? And just telling someone to be themselves gives them the green light to treat others like crap, because it's "who they really are". Do you believe that sometimes, some people are just naturally overbearing, needy, and b****y? I am watching Bridezilla right now. Sad, but those women are pretty crazy. |
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Oh yeah, I believe they are unfortunately.
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Yes, some people are nasty and they should still be themselves because if they pretend to be nice, eventually they are going to break down and let the real personality out; and meanwhile they may have fooled someone and wasted that person's time.
The best advice is still to be yourself. |
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YES
The line for my next ex-wife forms to the left. 
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Time and time again I hear people asking how to approach someone, or they're not sure if someone likes them or not... and the standard answer I see is "just be yourself" and everything will work out. We're always telling people just to "be themselves" However, it occured to me tonight as I was watching Bridezillas... what if these people are just naturally b****y and mean? And just telling someone to be themselves gives them the green light to treat others like crap, because it's "who they really are". Do you believe that sometimes, some people are just naturally overbearing, needy, and b****y? YES! |
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Edited by
Jersey_Devil
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Sun 08/17/08 06:46 PM
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Yes i do.
In fact it is a good thing that they act like that so, at least in my case there will be no chance in hell of a second date! 
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YES The line for my next ex-wife forms to the left.
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Yes i do. In fact it is a godd thing that they act like that so, at least in my case there will be no chance in hell of a second date!
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no matter who you are....there is somebody perfect in this world just for you.
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no matter who you are....there is somebody perfect in this world just for you. or someone that is willing to put up with your sh*t
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Time and time again I hear people asking how to approach someone, or they're not sure if someone likes them or not... and the standard answer I see is "just be yourself" and everything will work out. We're always telling people just to "be themselves" However, it occured to me tonight as I was watching Bridezillas... what if these people are just naturally b****y and mean? And just telling someone to be themselves gives them the green light to treat others like crap, because it's "who they really are". Do you believe that sometimes, some people are just naturally overbearing, needy, and b****y? Yes. |
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I don't believe people are born that way.Alot of them act that way out of fear,anger,hurt and stress
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no matter who you are....there is somebody perfect in this world just for you. or someone that is willing to put up with your sh*t
well, thats when you must know its love!! You each deal with eachothers sh!t!! |
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Yes, sometimes people are naturally that way...and sometimes it even works for them! I'm always puzzled when I see a really great person with one of those high-maintenance, overbearing people.
However, if someone is naturally that way, I'd rather know up front instead of being sold a fake version of who they are. So the best advice to those type of folks is really be yourself, and to the rest of us it's be TRUE to yourself...and don't settle for their BS! |
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Yes, sometimes people are naturally that way...and sometimes it even works for them! I'm always puzzled when I see a really great person with one of those high-maintenance, overbearing people.
However, if someone is naturally that way, I'd rather know up front instead of being sold a fake version of who they are. So the best advice to those type of folks is really be yourself, and to the rest of us it's be TRUE to yourself...and don't settle for their BS! 
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i like to shop and spend money. on all kinds of things, not just for myself. and i love animals, particulary cats. Surely somebody will love me.
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i like to shop and spend money. on all kinds of things, not just for myself. and i love animals, particulary cats. Surely somebody will love me. I'm guessing Mastercard and Visa love ya!  j/k
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I understand there is wisdom in this advice, but finding the person who's looking for that is taking forever!
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