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Topic: Would you stay?
MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Sun 08/17/08 02:31 PM
Would you stay with someone that always wanted to change things about you instead of them seeing who you really are?

Gypsy41 Joined Tue 05/15/07 Posts: 123359	Sun 08/17/08 02:32 PM
No.......what do I win?????

musicwoman1970 Joined Thu 08/30/07 Posts: 94	Sun 08/17/08 02:33 PM
no way

ledi180 Joined Sun 04/15/07 Posts: 5910	Sun 08/17/08 02:33 PM
Nope

SKPCG Joined Mon 03/03/08 Posts: 14708	Sun 08/17/08 02:37 PM
No. I am all for compromises, but to change everything about me.... might as well find the ideal somewhere else. My second husband was like this. He wanted arm candy and a "behaved" woman. Got sick of dressing up like brunette Barbie, and unlike plastic, I had feelings and was entitled to have them and get needs met, too.

scoundrel Joined Thu 07/03/08 Posts: 5960	Sun 08/17/08 02:37 PM
Being with someone changes me, because it is no longer me alone. That sort of sucks because we often enjoy each other when they are single, and do not foresee the changes that will come about with being together.

briancarr Joined Mon 12/17/07 Posts: 3310	Sun 08/17/08 02:38 PM
I did for Seven years. The Last Two,i was on the road, so that made it easier. Once the Sex stop, when i would come home, I headed for the Hills

catwoman96 Joined Thu 08/14/08 Posts: 5848	Sun 08/17/08 02:40 PM
too share a life with somebody..your going to change. it is not possible to share a life otherwise.

Morena350 Joined Sat 09/30/06 Posts: 13611	Sun 08/17/08 02:41 PM
Would you stay with someone that always wanted to change things about you instead of them seeing who you really are? nope, If I can be myself no way~~~~~~

msmyka Joined Sat 03/22/08 Posts: 17079	Sun 08/17/08 02:43 PM
LOL anyone who knows me at all would know me changing is not even an option. I need a guy who can be happy with me exactly the way I am right now

maryelizabeth10 Joined Sat 08/16/08 Posts: 2826	Sun 08/17/08 02:43 PM
if i was changing to better myself sure if i was changing for him and only him no. ive been there where guys wanted me to change things about myself that are a part of what makes me me. i hit the road when they tried to change that. but if it'd make me a better person yup sure.

BlueskyJ Joined Tue 06/26/07 Posts: 2927	Sun 08/17/08 03:16 PM
Would you stay with someone that always wanted to change things about you instead of them seeing who you really are? Everybody has a basic 'nature' that makes us who we are..... Some changes are for the better.....Acceptance is best as no one can really change us, we have to change ourselves freely.... Seeing 'me' or me seeing 'her' for 'who we really are' is so important....it makes me feel she 'gets me' and vice versa...

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