ahahaaaaaaaaaaaaaa youre man whore skills are working!!!

Well any time you need advice......1-800-gypsyknows!!!!

do what i always do ..if you cant get a woman ...go down to the XXX store and buy one you can blow up ..some even have moving parts...mmmmm moving parts if you by the cheap ones when you get to the best part..you can pull the valve and as the air rushes out it sounds like she's screaming...( so i heard).... ..just kiddin thats not what i always do....or is it

Ya Gypsy covered that at midnight+01. Uh...not in such detail as yourself though.

I think I would try finding some things you enjoy doing and maybe relax a little bit about meeting someone. When you stress about it it sends of a very desperate negative vibe.

You are at the age where you are past high school/college and so you have to work harder at integrateing yourself into groups. A community college campus is going to have more women your age than a university take a class and join one of the groupes on campus. Attend the student sports and or the on campus theater.

I would suggest volunteering as that is a great way to meet nice people of both sexes. Jaycees, Habitat For Humanity, Special Olympics, Red Cross, your favorite poitical groupe, your local State Fair; even church. I would pick one of the bigger churches where you have a singles ministry. I would check out my local community recreation center for any kind of mixed sports teams. I know gyms have women but I don't think hot and sweaty is the best time to strike up a conversation.

You have lost a lot of weight you might want to buy some well fitting new clothes. Pants especially. Just a couple outfits; women tend to like guys who wear shirts rather than undershirts or obnoxious printed t-shirts. Get some new shoes; even if you wear sports shoes if they look grubby it kind of tears down your overall appearance. Get a regular hair cut. Do it yourself haircuts or really short hair will make put you look military which doesn't make a lot of sense if you aren't. If you wear glasses avoid the cheapest frames and listen to the optician assistant; they know which ones fit your face. Avoid wearing a cap all the time. Especially wearing it inside or on backwards. Women will assume you are balding if you always have a hat on. I would avoid any kind of signature hat; if you are not a professional cowboy forget the western hat; yea even in Oklahoma. Make sure you keep your hands clean nails trimmed. Put a full length door mirror and check yourself head to foot before you go out and also check your posture. If you walk like a neanderthal you are dead in the water.

I would look around for a couple of lunch spots that are favored by working women and eat there regularly. Even if it is a park. Be smart and tip well so the waiter or waitress don't shoot you down. Use your manners women do notice. If you take reading material avoid anything too technical or pornographic. The idea is something safe a woman could talk to you about. Sit on the edge of the room so you can see if someone is looking your way with out rubber necking. Make eye contact but do not stare!
I read your profile and I don't think announceing your sexual preferences is real smart. Kinky has about 400 versions so if you allude to the in general conversation you are going to scare off a lot of women. I don't think most women like sarcasm so tone it down.

A word about making people laugh. Either you are naturally funny or you will come off more often than not as a flop as a comedian. Generally women don't want to be part of a side show. Yea they may laugh, but if it is at you. and not just a polite way of saying you just fell on your own sword you loose either way. I would suggest looking for a Toastmaster's group. It is a safe way to get the gift for speaking publiclly with your best voice. Not every guy is going to sound like Barry White or Dr. McDreamy but if you have any annoying speech patterns they can help you out.


Last but not least take a dance class. It is one of the basic social graces you have to master for dateing. If you don't know how to swim I woul add that.also. Sorry if some of these things don't apply but I was covering the usual problem areas that most womn complain about men. YOu already said you don't smoke so I didn't mention that. Good Luck.

I read this article about a former nice guy who got tired of women being *****ezzz to him. So he decided to hell with being nice and ended up just asking women for sex right off the bat.
He said that out of the 95 women he asked for sex he got laid 19 times and smacked or ignored the rest of the time. Why not try it? 20% aint bad odds for free nookie. Your special lady may just be a super special kinda freak. BOOOOOYAAAYAAA!!!

On a side note: The gentleman in the article is currently being studied by the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention in Atlanta Georgia. So rap your Jimmy Timmy!!!!

sometimes what we pursue,.. eludes us,..

helps to just accept the fact that you are single right now,...(and that there is absolutely ) nothing wrong with you,..or that ( being single )

maybe just put it out of your thoughts for awhile,..

look into some other interests,...enjoy yourself,..

most time,..we meet someone special when we least expect it,..

be you,..be real,...be happy

Dont change who are what you are, but maybe not be so nice either. Alot of women like a little bad boy in their men. Good luck to you.

Thanks for all the great comments everyone!

And thanks PacificStar48 for the long detailed overview I think I will try a couple of new things and see how it goes with out changes who I am! thank you all!!

As far as colognes go, Brut and Axe both smell really gross. So does Old Spice. They're almost as bad as wearing Patchouli.

If you want decent men's cologne that'll make a woman swoon, check out "Fierce" by Abercrombie and Fitch, "Chrome" by Azarro, and Sean John's cologne, too. There are others, but those 3 are great.

If you REALLY don't mind spending money for a spectacular scent that also works as an aphrodisiac, try Oud perfume oil. It's used a lot in the Middle East and smells like honey. Just a drop or two lasts all day. I smelled it on a guy once and it was fantastic. If it wasn't so expensive, I'd buy some and spray it on my pillow all the time. Of course you have to buy it from a reliable source... if you're getting it cheaply, it's most likely not quality and could be a bad batch.


Regardless of whatever scent you do wear, make sure you're not completely doused in it. Too much cologne is a major turnoff. Cologne won't give you a great personality, but a great scent helps draw them in

Regardless of whatever scent you do wear, make sure you're not completely doused in it. Too much cologne is a major turnoff. Cologne won't give you a great personality, but a great scent helps draw them in


"No cologne will not give you a great personality but a 5th of burban and some Lithium will definetly change your chemical make up"


Buddha 493BC