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Topic: with no car
SimplyElla's photo
Thu 08/14/08 04:15 PM
Would you date a man/woman with no car..

...How about no job?

...How about no car and no job?


Is is shallow of me to turn down guys who have no car and or no job??

PATSFAN's photo
Thu 08/14/08 04:17 PM
I have a job, 2 cars & an suvwaving

no photo
Thu 08/14/08 04:17 PM
People can be in between jobs, and cars for that matter.

It would depend on the person. Hoepfully they would have goals..like to get a job and a car.

She might be the kind of person I would want to help...I've certainly needed help and understanding at points in my life!:wink:

SimplyElla's photo
Thu 08/14/08 04:18 PM

I have a job, 2 cars & an suvwaving


If I wasn't 1300 miles away.. I'd hunt you down... you know that... he he he

SimplyElla's photo
Thu 08/14/08 04:19 PM

People can be in between jobs, and cars for that matter.

It would depend on the person. Hoepfully they would have goals..like to get a job and a car.

She might be the kind of person I would want to help...I've certainly needed help and understanding at points in my life!:wink:



well.. i have no patience to wait... so I wont be sticking along to see if they have a plan or not.. mean i know.. but true

PATSFAN's photo
Thu 08/14/08 04:20 PM
However I do get a little suspicuous when some of the women I talk to don't have a job, kind of a "red Flag" I don't care if it's a crappy job!!

JulieMP's photo
Thu 08/14/08 04:20 PM
Not shallow at all. run away fast in your speedy car, for sure they will not be able to catch up on foot.

No job, means they have no sense of responsibility or means to support themselves.

Having no car is not so bad, there may be valid reason as why not. But if having no car is their excuse for no job I say run. Unless you want to become their taxi and bankroll.

jdquig's photo
Thu 08/14/08 04:20 PM
it is not the car that would interest me in a person.. nor the job for that matter.

JoLynn's photo
Thu 08/14/08 04:21 PM
not shallow

Mayhem_J's photo
Thu 08/14/08 04:21 PM
2 cars...2 jobs...

I hate laziness. So unless your bettering you self inbetween jobs, then you better head in the other direction.

As far as the car thing goes....as long as she pays for gas, i guess I wouldnt mind to much.

MsCarmen's photo
Thu 08/14/08 04:21 PM
I don't think it's shallow at all. Why would you be faulted for that being your preference?

I wouldn't go out with a guy who didn't have a job, only because I'm not going to support him financially, just like I wouldn't expect him to support me financially.

PATSFAN's photo
Thu 08/14/08 04:22 PM


I have a job, 2 cars & an suvwaving


If I wasn't 1300 miles away.. I'd hunt you down... you know that... he he he






I told you before next time your up in Mass. we can go out for some dinner & drinks drinker

no photo
Thu 08/14/08 04:22 PM

Would you date a man/woman with no car..


Sure, and I have.


...How about no job?


Done that too. My ex-wife never had a job while we were married. Come to think of it, I don't think she has ever had a job.


...How about no car and no job?


Sure, it's possible....if I like her....


Is is shallow of me to turn down guys who have no car and or no job??


Not really -- it's a preference, and everyone is entitled to their preferences.


moparman1038's photo
Thu 08/14/08 04:22 PM
I have a car, a truck and I have a great job. I dated a girl with no car a few months back and it was not easy going - couldn't meet her anywhere, had to pick her up all the time. I think she resented me for having 2 vehicles (and looking at getting a motorcycle at the time).

SimplyElla's photo
Thu 08/14/08 04:23 PM

However I do get a little suspicuous when some of the women I talk to don't have a job, kind of a "red Flag" I don't care if it's a crappy job!!


very true... shoot... any job will do... and i'll be fine
ps - i got two job pats he he he he

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Thu 08/14/08 04:24 PM
Edited by heartSoul on Thu 08/14/08 04:25 PM

Would you date a man/woman with no car..

...How about no job?

...How about no car and no job?


Is is shallow of me to turn down guys who have no car and or no job??


I have dated no job and no car
life happens

the way the economy isfrustrated
it'll be a lot more people without a job, car, or home


SimplyElla's photo
Thu 08/14/08 04:25 PM

Not shallow at all. run away fast in your speedy car, for sure they will not be able to catch up on foot.

No job, means they have no sense of responsibility or means to support themselves.

Having no car is not so bad, there may be valid reason as why not. But if having no car is their excuse for no job I say run. Unless you want to become their taxi and bankroll.


Thanks!! I am right with you with all of that!!

markc48's photo
Thu 08/14/08 04:27 PM
I have no car some people say I don't have a job. But I have 6 apartments and some awesome passive income.laugh

italio69's photo
Thu 08/14/08 04:27 PM
who cares :angry: i dont have a car for th moment does it make me less of a person

writer_gurl's photo
Thu 08/14/08 04:28 PM

Would you date a man/woman with no car..

...How about no job?

...How about no car and no job?


Is is shallow of me to turn down guys who have no car and or no job??

Of course ur not shallow...I would have done the same thing

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