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 Lately I have been thinking ALOT about an ex. That's the reason I joined here, to get in contact with him. We didn't end on very good terms but we did have alot of great times together. He was a big part of my life for a long time.(FYI I am very happy in my current relationship) More than anything I really miss him as a friend. Is it wrong for me to keep trying to make contact? |
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one or the other
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Kind of stalkerish...
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If you are "very happy" why is he on your mind to the extent you would join here to get in touch with him? I think that is the question you should ask yourself.
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Well to answer some of those questions. He is recently divorced and I am worried about him. He hasn't had much luck when it comes to relationships. He was a really good friend before we got serious.
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I think you should try to contact him, just to check on him and let him know you're there for him...as a friend !
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Well to answer some of those questions. He is recently divorced and I am worried about him. He hasn't had much luck when it comes to relationships. He was a really good friend before we got serious. If he is recently divorced and you seek him out to help him, you are putting him and yourself in a very difficult situation. Only you know if this is a good idea, but the possibility that both of you will begin to fall in love again is very high. Be careful. |
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Well to answer some of those questions. He is recently divorced and I am worried about him. He hasn't had much luck when it comes to relationships. He was a really good friend before we got serious. If he is recently divorced and you seek him out to help him, you are putting him and yourself in a very difficult situation. Only you know if this is a good idea, but the possibility that both of you will begin to fall in love again is very high. Be careful. I have to agree with this statement, you are putting yourself in that position to fall in love again with him. |
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That depends on how he's reacted to it. If he's interested in a friendship, then great. If he's not interested in pursuing continued contact with you, then you need to let it go, hard though that may be.
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I think, sometimes, it's just best to move on
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I really have to agree with this comment here - sometimes you have to really leave the past in the past. If you're happy - stay happy and let him do his own thing - find his own way. I'm guessing he's a grown up and can handle himself. If you jump back in the mix it might be more than he needs right now.
Anyway - just my opinion. Good luck in whatever you decide! I think, sometimes, it's just best to move on |
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Consider carefully how this will affect your current relationship.
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How would your current man answer your question?
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I'm curious how good of friends you could really be if you lost contact with him and have to find him like this. Just a curiosity.
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I'm curious how good of friends you could really be if you lost contact with him and have to find him like this. Just a curiosity. It ended badly between us and I am the one who stopped talking to him. I thought we'd be better off. I guess I miss talking to him. He helped me through some really hard times before. He has a way of cheering you up no matter what. I think that's what I miss most. My fiance' is fine with me trying to get in touch. One of his ex's turned out to be a great family friend. I think I was hoping he would too. Wishful thinking I guess. |
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