How does someone you been with for two years always turn around and say that they tried loving you but that felling love is not there and that the only felling they have for you is a friend but yet has said i love you babe this is something that has been going on for two years now and they send you email saying they want to put a stop to this realtionship because there uncomfortable about it dang you think after two years enough is enough trying telling that to someone who has always been there for you no matter what time day it was and they get a new screen name and go in to chat rooms this old boy not stupid just a fool for beliving in someone and yes i have left it alone before for four months everytime i send a email telling it like is they end up leaving a message on my cell phone if you do,nt what to talk toome fine but how can you send me all this mean emails you know me better than anyone else does i was just trying to get things started in other words start from squre one all over again Friends first i will always care for you as friend no matter what happens tried of hearing this Bs Please you all give me a little input im stuck between rock and hard place in a bad way

She did the same thing to me

Was that all one sentence?

If I understand corectly. She just sounds like she's playing you, let her go and play. I had to do that with my ex, and it's hard. Everyone deserves some one who's going to love them for them all the time and not just when it's convenient.

Mean spirited people are everywhere. Someone once told me you have to dig a lot of coal to find a diamond

So don't allow excessive coal stop you from seeking a diamond

Yes, it was

if you love her, set her free. if she comes back she is yours if she doesn't she never was.
i forget who said that,but so true

embrace the pain... there is growth in there

It builds character

I think so. But there must be more
because he didn't put a period at the end.

Maybe she doesn't know what she wants. Let her go. Don't even be friends with her and let her get her head on straight to figure out what she wants. If she does just want to be friends so be it. Million of women out there. Million of men. You will find someone who will love you for you and wont play stupid games with you.
Let it go...

When they start creating other screen names, in MY experience, they are looking for other "options" if she hasn't found many already. Someone who truly loves you would have no reason to do this. And consider this.. do you really have a relationship if she is lying to you? If they can lie about the smallest things, what makes you think there hasn't been something bigger?

Let her go.. move on.. you deserve someone better.