Topic: Am I a Thread stopper - part 3
carold's photo
Thu 11/20/08 06:19 PM

I think I have to much alone time. Since my dad died I have been to alone. Not use to it. Try to stay busy but sometimes it just gets to me.
How long has it been since your dad past?

carold's photo
Thu 11/20/08 06:21 PM

WOW NEW FACES!!!

chocolate lab lover.....wow took me a while to figure that out...
Hi to you and horsegirl55!

Hi carol, musichic, flame
Good to see yah Polly :)

mssilverfox's photo
Thu 11/20/08 06:22 PM
Hello to everyone and welcome to Hgirl55... the drinks sound good but I'm on an antibotic and if I drink any alcohol it will make me deathly sick sooooo.. I will be spending Tg in North Dakota with a new friend this yr, something different for me, usually with family... but I was invited so I am going...hope you all have a good TG...flowerforyou

choclablover's photo
Thu 11/20/08 06:30 PM
Antibiotics can be rough on the system, drink plenty of fluids, hope all is well.flowerforyou


...and of course finish all of them even if you are feeling better..........ohwell

horsegirl55's photo
Thu 11/20/08 06:43 PM


I think I have to much alone time. Since my dad died I have been to alone. Not use to it. Try to stay busy but sometimes it just gets to me.
How long has it been since your dad past?

Sorry about the delay in responding land line keep ringing. May dad past away in May of this year. Really miss him. I took care of him for eight years. Brothers are made because he left me the house and everything in it.

carold's photo
Thu 11/20/08 06:52 PM



I think I have to much alone time. Since my dad died I have been to alone. Not use to it. Try to stay busy but sometimes it just gets to me.
How long has it been since your dad past?

Sorry about the delay in responding land line keep ringing. May dad past away in May of this year. Really miss him. I took care of him for eight years. Brothers are made because he left me the house and everything in it.
Don't feel guilty you took care of him. So your mom has been gone for awhile?

horsegirl55's photo
Thu 11/20/08 06:59 PM




I think I have to much alone time. Since my dad died I have been to alone. Not use to it. Try to stay busy but sometimes it just gets to me.
How long has it been since your dad past?

Sorry about the delay in responding land line keep ringing. May dad past away in May of this year. Really miss him. I took care of him for eight years. Brothers are made because he left me the house and everything in it.
Don't feel guilty you took care of him. So your mom has been gone for awhile?

Yes, she died in May, 2000. I haved a lot of experience in taking care of people. I had to take over the care of my grandmother because my mothers doctor said could not handle it. I became her legal guardian.(Grandmother passed away in 2003.) I was also court appointed guardian of my uncle who was in a motorcycle accident when he was 16. Which left him mentally unable to take care of himself.(He passed away in 1999.)

carold's photo
Thu 11/20/08 07:06 PM





I think I have to much alone time. Since my dad died I have been to alone. Not use to it. Try to stay busy but sometimes it just gets to me.
How long has it been since your dad past?

Sorry about the delay in responding land line keep ringing. May dad past away in May of this year. Really miss him. I took care of him for eight years. Brothers are made because he left me the house and everything in it.
Don't feel guilty you took care of him. So your mom has been gone for awhile?

Yes, she died in May, 2000. I haved a lot of experience in taking care of people. I had to take over the care of my grandmother because my mothers doctor said could not handle it. I became her legal guardian.(Grandmother passed away in 2003.) I was also court appointed guardian of my uncle who was in a motorcycle accident when he was 16. Which left him mentally unable to take care of himself.(He passed away in 1999.)
So it is just you now?

horsegirl55's photo
Thu 11/20/08 07:12 PM






I think I have to much alone time. Since my dad died I have been to alone. Not use to it. Try to stay busy but sometimes it just gets to me.
How long has it been since your dad past?

Sorry about the delay in responding land line keep ringing. May dad past away in May of this year. Really miss him. I took care of him for eight years. Brothers are made because he left me the house and everything in it.
Don't feel guilty you took care of him. So your mom has been gone for awhile?

Yes, she died in May, 2000. I haved a lot of experience in taking care of people. I had to take over the care of my grandmother because my mothers doctor said could not handle it. I became her legal guardian.(Grandmother passed away in 2003.) I was also court appointed guardian of my uncle who was in a motorcycle accident when he was 16. Which left him mentally unable to take care of himself.(He passed away in 1999.)
So it is just you now?

Yes, just me. I have a daughter that just got married for the second time. They have just bought a house. So, I don't see her much.
I am trying to figure out which way to go in life, and start taking care of myself. You know it took me until September to realize I could put my stuff in the bathroom and I didn't have to keep it in my bedroom. It just feels strange without having someone in the house with me.

flame1cutie's photo
Thu 11/20/08 07:18 PM







I think I have to much alone time. Since my dad died I have been to alone. Not use to it. Try to stay busy but sometimes it just gets to me.
How long has it been since your dad past?

Sorry about the delay in responding land line keep ringing. May dad past away in May of this year. Really miss him. I took care of him for eight years. Brothers are made because he left me the house and everything in it.
Don't feel guilty you took care of him. So your mom has been gone for awhile?

Yes, she died in May, 2000. I haved a lot of experience in taking care of people. I had to take over the care of my grandmother because my mothers doctor said could not handle it. I became her legal guardian.(Grandmother passed away in 2003.) I was also court appointed guardian of my uncle who was in a motorcycle accident when he was 16. Which left him mentally unable to take care of himself.(He passed away in 1999.)
So it is just you now?

Yes, just me. I have a daughter that just got married for the second time. They have just bought a house. So, I don't see her much.
I am trying to figure out which way to go in life, and start taking care of myself. You know it took me until September to realize I could put my stuff in the bathroom and I didn't have to keep it in my bedroom. It just feels strange without having someone in the house with me.
yeah it can get lonely but just hang in there you will get threw it. Just come and talk to all the very very nice folks. You will be just fine.

carold's photo
Thu 11/20/08 07:22 PM
Then you start enjoy having a life takes a while though :) Had a friend get on to me the other day said it is time for me to take care of myself now. LOL

horsegirl55's photo
Thu 11/20/08 07:25 PM
Thanks Flame!!!!flowerforyou
I am so glad I joined this site. Just having someone to express my feelings to helps so much. Just in this short time I look forward to your smiles and seeing your faces everyday. I wish this was voice activated so we could all just talk to one another.

flame1cutie's photo
Thu 11/20/08 07:33 PM

Thanks Flame!!!!flowerforyou
I am so glad I joined this site. Just having someone to express my feelings to helps so much. Just in this short time I look forward to your smiles and seeing your faces everyday. I wish this was voice activated so we could all just talk to one another.
If you keep posting and talking with everyone you can almost hear their voices as you talk to them. You really will enjoy it here.flowerforyou

horsegirl55's photo
Thu 11/20/08 07:36 PM
yawn Good nite Flame and Carold------------
Time for me to hit the sack. See ya'll tomorrow.
Sweet Dreams to you.yawn

oldsage's photo
Fri 11/21/08 06:38 AM
HG55, sounds like the past few yrs, have been tough. We all will help you thru life. Great bunch of people here & we watch eachothers backs.
Rest of the site can get scary, just take it with caution & a grain of salt. A little Jack Daniels helps also.pitchfork smitten drool drool slaphead :thumbsup:

carold's photo
Fri 11/21/08 06:51 AM
Stay away from Jack lol

oldsage's photo
Fri 11/21/08 07:05 AM
Jack makes me a "mellow fellow"

carold's photo
Fri 11/21/08 07:10 AM
Must be the little indian in me can't take the fire water lol

oldsage's photo
Fri 11/21/08 07:18 AM
In my teen,we drank beer & got in fights.
So, if I drink much beer, I get mean.

Whisky was party time & still is today.

Wine makes me sleep.

Love a good aged "tawny Port."

Expensive though, 40 yr. or older.

horsegirl55's photo
Fri 11/21/08 07:25 AM
Edited by horsegirl55 on Fri 11/21/08 07:27 AM
flowerforyou Thanks Sage!!!!!
I really enjoy this site (50 and over). I think I just stay here. Don't need my head bit off, my brothers are doing enough of that at the moment. I am the middle child and dad made me the executrix, not the oldest son. They can't stand it. I do not even answer their phone calls.