Forger the guy was ever born, I would say.

Sure, Jayyy, go ahead and confront him about it. Ask him, "Are you a
rapist (or cheater, liar, thief, etc.)?"

What do you think he's going to say?

Girl, if it looks like a duck, walks like a duck, quacks like a duck and
if other people are identifying it as a duck, I'd say the best thing for
you to do is to duck yourself on out of there and quit wasting your time
on this scuzzbucket.

But what's even worse is I'm having serious doubts about the reputation
of this cousin of yours. Why would someone who professes (I assume) to
care about you, someone who is a relative, even!, try to set you up with
someone who has such a reputation in the first place???

maybe because he knows it's bull.
i can't see where a relative would in there right mind would set up a
family memeber with a complete degenerate like that.

incase you haven't figured it out women play dirtier than men.

i say run like hell.... there is normally an element of truth to every
rumor.. it may not be as big or bad as it is when you hear about it
because rumors grow by leaps and bounds. Let me ask you this
though...........Do you really want to take the chance that would let
someone hurt you emotionally, physically and spiritually? And if you are
feeling uncomfortable around this person then why are you second
guessing yourself? Go with your gut. Intuition is a fantastic thing and
I never ever go against my gut.

And I also have to question why your cousin would want to set you up
with someone like that... Sure some people like to have a reputation as
a bada** but if thats the case then its up to them to correct the
situation........

Please be very very careful

that's weird because that sounds like an exageration and not a rumor.
rumors are started by meaningless nothing little people who got hurt and
don't have anything better to do with their time. it's really quite
pathetic but people that don't find out for themselves give them more
power.

You said: 'Raping GIRLS' not 'Girl.' So is that NOT a plurality of
rumours. Does that not lean MORE towards; "RUN FOR U LIFE?' Is he a
pious Preacher or convert NOW and have shown a year or two of
repentance or if not guilty, show similiar repentant habits while U
observe from afar? Is there a way that U can check for CRIMINAL records?

I also WONDER how much your cousin got paid to get a girl for this man?

If he has an EXTREMELY BAD REPUTATION, as you say, can you not find out
from Criminal Records, how long ago was the last offence he was charged
or convicted for?

how he acts when you are around is a "show" to pull you in
you know better or you wouldnot be asking