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2 turn a woman whos really flaky and desperate into a confident and independent woman?
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no
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2 turn a woman whos really flaky and desperate into a confident and independent woman? Anything can happen.. if you belive. 
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By helping them find confidence and allowing her to be who she is. If she is a natural submissive then she is happiest when those around her are happy.
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By helping them find confidence and allowing her to be who she is. If she is a natural submissive then she is happiest when those around her are happy.
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2 turn a woman whos really flaky and desperate into a confident and independent woman? uhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh probably not. why not just start with a healthy woman in the first place
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I'd say there's hope, but it will take a LONG TIME... like... YEARS... and a better question would be, are you willing to invest that kind of time with a person just to get them to open up and be responsible?
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Edited by
jdquig
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Sun 08/10/08 06:45 PM
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flaky and desperate and confident are all states of mind...
Independent? hell yes. anyone can achieve that all they have to do is claim responsibility for themselves. |
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u mean theres no hope
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flaky and desperate and confident are all states of mind... Independent? hell yes. anyone can achieve that all they have to do is claim responsibility for themselves. 
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The only person who can change that is her and if she doesn't see the problem or doesn't think it's a problem, then no, no can do. You cannot change another person, all you can do is accept that's how they are. The question you have to answer for yourself is whether or not you can live with it if nothing ever changes? If the answer is no, it's not the right relationship for you.
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She has to want to change, and you really should start with a woman who has it at least somewhat together
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you can't change other people, nor should you.
If you don't like her the way she is, find someone that you do like. |
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The only person who can change that is her and if she doesn't see the problem or doesn't think it's a problem, then no, no can do. You cannot change another person, all you can do is accept that's how they are. The question you have to answer for yourself is whether or not you can live with it if nothing ever changes? If the answer is no, it's not the right relationship for you.
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2 turn a woman whos really flaky and desperate into a confident and independent woman? uhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh probably not. why not just start with a healthy woman in the first place
Listen to the Fade, Dude. You may want to ask yourself.... why do I find myself attracted to this type of woman? |
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The only person who can change that is her and if she doesn't see the problem or doesn't think it's a problem, then no, no can do. You cannot change another person, all you can do is accept that's how they are. The question you have to answer for yourself is whether or not you can live with it if nothing ever changes? If the answer is no, it's not the right relationship for you.
You can tell her, it may give her something to think about. But more than likely, she will get incredibly defensive. And I wouldn't expect that anything will happen. There may be some short term changes but, change of that magnitude generally requires a LOT of time and professional help. |
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well it appears this is the only way or more like the last resort
im willin 2 wait as long as it takes and help her in any way i can but if nothing changes then... |
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I admire your patience and depth of caring and I wish you all the best. Just, don't get your hopes up too high, it's a long difficult road ahead, even if she does admit it's a problem. Making real change within yourself doesn't come easily or quickly, most of the time.
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I admire your patience and depth of caring and I wish you all the best. Just, don't get your hopes up too high, it's a long difficult road ahead, even if she does admit it's a problem. Making real change within yourself doesn't come easily or quickly, most of the time. just have 2 let time take its course and hope 4 the best
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