Topic: Inner Conflict and Confusion
Plumvictor's photo
Sun 08/10/08 01:03 PM
All my adult life, when a guy showed interest in me it meant that he was wanting to have sex. period.

Recently, I have discovered men here on mingle and in person, that seem to not want sex 1st and foremost.

Is this a new trend? or Have I just been meeting the wrong men all these years? I really am confused. Just when I thought I had this all figured out...

Etrain's photo
Sun 08/10/08 01:08 PM
I have the same problem with women...weird eh???:tongue:

Plumvictor's photo
Sun 08/10/08 01:09 PM

I have the same problem with women...weird eh???:tongue:


that is odd. Maybe, they were thinking like I was and that u just were interested in sex and figured that was the way to your heart??

Etrain's photo
Sun 08/10/08 01:12 PM


I have the same problem with women...weird eh???:tongue:


that is odd. Maybe, they were thinking like I was and that u just were interested in sex and figured that was the way to your heart??

That is probably true...and sex without substance is...quite boring after a while

xxAzriahtheBeastxx's photo
Sun 08/10/08 01:14 PM
We're here, but because of today's society, were shunned, and some of us are forced to "hide" so to say. It's sad but, this is what were coming to I suppose, the true romantics are being held back, and ignored

jerm111's photo
Sun 08/10/08 01:21 PM
I have been here a few days now and I really like these communities:wink: You people are alright

livelife68's photo
Sun 08/10/08 01:25 PM
yeah some of us are looking for a relationship that's more than just sex. Seek and you shall find.flowerforyou

mcattygarnett's photo
Sun 08/10/08 01:28 PM
Yes you will, I have found it, so I do know that it is out there for all of us.

Plumvictor's photo
Mon 08/11/08 07:23 AM

yeah some of us are looking for a relationship that's more than just sex. Seek and you shall find.flowerforyou


That is where i'm going wrong. I have been expecting love to find me. I guess that is all wrong. I should be more proactive. definately something to ponder over.

dawnyhi's photo
Mon 08/11/08 07:25 AM

yeah some of us are looking for a relationship that's more than just sex. Seek and you shall find.flowerforyou



how does a girl go about getting that...i am all ears....

some of the men want sex and say they dont want to get hurt but the sexual thing with benefits without emotions or concern for the other person hurts worse...

ok advice hahaha i am all ears...or rollers...

dawnyhi's photo
Mon 08/11/08 07:26 AM

All my adult life, when a guy showed interest in me it meant that he was wanting to have sex. period.

Recently, I have discovered men here on mingle and in person, that seem to not want sex 1st and foremost.

Is this a new trend? or Have I just been meeting the wrong men all these years? I really am confused. Just when I thought I had this all figured out...


i feel exactily the same way

Plumvictor's photo
Mon 08/11/08 07:35 AM
frustrated scared frustrated frustrated

dawnyhi's photo
Mon 08/11/08 07:36 AM
dont take it out on yourself.... when i am lonely i walk at night with my imaginary love...