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Topic: Curious...
scoundrel's photo
Sat 08/09/08 05:25 PM
Orrrrrrrr...--->> get a laptop, go online under a profile he doesn't know, and con him into saying real stuff about the 'you' that he lives with.

Devious prick, ain't I? pitchfork

Etrain's photo
Sat 08/09/08 05:25 PM


Just curious on both male and female opinions...

Let's say someone has been living with you for about 7 months. You are both very close...involved in each others families, children, church, etc. And you wake up one night and see that person chatting online with someone of the opposite sex.

How would you feel?
Is it right or wrong? You don't know what the conversation was.

Just curious...Thanks ;-)


Didn't some of you read the part where she said, you don't know the conversation?


if your upset, it shows a lack of trust and when that happens. It usually means the relationship is at it's satrt to head down hill. I have no reason to be upset or anything. You don't know if it's just a friends and they couldn't sleep and wanted to talk to somone other then you. So think before you "ASSUME" anything.....

are you serious!!!!huh huh huh hes a man...online talking to a woman!!!noway

JoLynn's photo
Sat 08/09/08 05:26 PM
I'd like to have the attitude, trust...have an open mind...but I'm thinking to myself that when I care about someone I wouldn't even "open" that door where there might be a possibility of something happening.

JoLynn's photo
Sat 08/09/08 05:26 PM

Orrrrrrrr...--->> get a laptop, go online under a profile he doesn't know, and con him into saying real stuff about the 'you' that he lives with.

Devious prick, ain't I? pitchfork


hahaaaaaaaaaaaa...I LOVEEEEEEEEEEE it! lol

scoundrel's photo
Sat 08/09/08 05:28 PM


Orrrrrrrr...--->> get a laptop, go online under a profile he doesn't know, and con him into saying real stuff about the 'you' that he lives with.

Devious prick, ain't I? pitchfork


hahaaaaaaaaaaaa...I LOVEEEEEEEEEEE it! lol


You're very welcome. Halaugh :wink: bigsmile ve a gas!!

ahuhalicious's photo
Sat 08/09/08 05:30 PM
i would loose my trusnt in that person and the relationship wouldent work mad

no photo
Sat 08/09/08 05:30 PM
That would not sit well with me. That would be up there with finding him in the middle of the night watching porn or checking out singles sites. It's not something I'd do, and I would not want something like that done to me. Not kosher. And, if he's not easily forthcoming, like showing you what transpired or explaining, he's being a turd.

Jules0565's photo
Sat 08/09/08 05:31 PM
Why play games with someone... if you have doubts, ASK him. I mean men DO have women friends..and you DONT know what the conversation consisted of..

TRUST and COMMUNICATION are the most important factors in a relationship!!

How do you know he wasn't talking about you?


TheShadow's photo
Sat 08/09/08 05:34 PM



Just curious on both male and female opinions...

Let's say someone has been living with you for about 7 months. You are both very close...involved in each others families, children, church, etc. And you wake up one night and see that person chatting online with someone of the opposite sex.

How would you feel?
Is it right or wrong? You don't know what the conversation was.

Just curious...Thanks ;-)


Didn't some of you read the part where she said, you don't know the conversation?


if your upset, it shows a lack of trust and when that happens. It usually means the relationship is at it's satrt to head down hill. I have no reason to be upset or anything. You don't know if it's just a friends and they couldn't sleep and wanted to talk to somone other then you. So think before you "ASSUME" anything.....

are you serious!!!!huh huh huh hes a man...online talking to a woman!!!noway


Yeah i am, I do it all the time. Does that mean i'm a cheater?

ccindyct's photo
Sat 08/09/08 05:34 PM
Edited by ccindyct on Sat 08/09/08 05:35 PM
Wait I'm not sure of the relationship you have with him....are you together? You said "while I'm sleeping in MY bed" ... do you share a bed? That makes a difference, it depends on what your relationship is...

Down2earthdebbie's photo
Sat 08/09/08 05:35 PM
I would simplt just ask him about it? If you don't you'll never know.....? That would really bother mE! frustrated

JoLynn's photo
Sat 08/09/08 05:36 PM

Wait I'm not sure of the relationship you have with him....are you together? You said "while I'm sleeping in MY bed" ... do you share a bed? That makes a difference, it depends on what your relationship is...


yep, he's been living here for quite some time now...

Etrain's photo
Sat 08/09/08 05:36 PM




Just curious on both male and female opinions...

Let's say someone has been living with you for about 7 months. You are both very close...involved in each others families, children, church, etc. And you wake up one night and see that person chatting online with someone of the opposite sex.

How would you feel?
Is it right or wrong? You don't know what the conversation was.

Just curious...Thanks ;-)


Didn't some of you read the part where she said, you don't know the conversation?


if your upset, it shows a lack of trust and when that happens. It usually means the relationship is at it's satrt to head down hill. I have no reason to be upset or anything. You don't know if it's just a friends and they couldn't sleep and wanted to talk to somone other then you. So think before you "ASSUME" anything.....

are you serious!!!!huh huh huh hes a man...online talking to a woman!!!noway


Yeah i am, I do it all the time. Does that mean i'm a cheater?


Your not with a womanhuh

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