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markc48 Joined Wed 05/07/08 Posts: 5536	Fri 08/08/08 04:53 AM
Cheater or the cheated ?

somewhatshy2 Joined Sat 03/29/08 Posts: 1758	Fri 08/08/08 04:53 AM
cheated

merlin2525 Joined Sun 06/17/07 Posts: 2819	Fri 08/08/08 04:54 AM
I've never cheated in a relationship.

plk1966 Joined Fri 03/21/08 Posts: 31042	Fri 08/08/08 04:55 AM
The cheated

moonlight_ride62 Joined Thu 07/03/08 Posts: 4414	Fri 08/08/08 04:57 AM
I don't remember a thing...

markc48 Joined Wed 05/07/08 Posts: 5536	Fri 08/08/08 04:58 AM
I should have figured the cheaters wouldn't answer.

plk1966 Joined Fri 03/21/08 Posts: 31042	Fri 08/08/08 05:00 AM
I should have figured the cheaters wouldn't answer. Their not gonna admit that on here, silly

bad_girl Joined Tue 07/17/07 Posts: 67379	Fri 08/08/08 05:00 AM
Cheated and <---------looks both ways the cheaters are lurking out there

sparkleplenty424 Joined Mon 07/21/08 Posts: 463	Fri 08/08/08 05:05 AM
why do people dwell on being cheated on? It's part of life and learning. I got cheated on but I don't think it has any relevance in my life now. He did what he needed to do to be happy. Life goes on.

moonlight_ride62 Joined Thu 07/03/08 Posts: 4414	Fri 08/08/08 05:08 AM
I should have figured the cheaters wouldn't answer. to be honest...I was neither...he did not cheat on me and I did not cheat on him...we just grew apart...

sparkleplenty424 Joined Mon 07/21/08 Posts: 463	Fri 08/08/08 05:10 AM
I don't think anyone on this site would admit to being a cheater when 99% of the people on here state that cheaters should be hogtied and fed to the wolves.

markc48 Joined Wed 05/07/08 Posts: 5536	Fri 08/08/08 05:13 AM
why do people dwell on being cheated on? It's part of life and learning. I got cheated on but I don't think it has any relevance in my life now. He did what he needed to do to be happy. Life goes on. I think it has relevance and as far as learning what lesson has been learned (1) You can never trust anybody.(2) once a cheater always a cheater. Does anybody have any other lessons that they learned from this ?

moonlight_ride62 Joined Thu 07/03/08 Posts: 4414	Fri 08/08/08 05:13 AM
I don't think anyone on this site would admit to being a cheater when 99% of the people on here state that cheaters should be hogtied and fed to the wolves. being hog tied can be fun...

sparkleplenty424 Joined Mon 07/21/08 Posts: 463	Fri 08/08/08 05:14 AM
I don't think anyone on this site would admit to being a cheater when 99% of the people on here state that cheaters should be hogtied and fed to the wolves. being hog tied can be fun... with the right person, just about anything can be fun. Wolves have pretty sharp teeth, tho...

moonlight_ride62 Joined Thu 07/03/08 Posts: 4414	Fri 08/08/08 05:18 AM
why do people dwell on being cheated on? It's part of life and learning. I got cheated on but I don't think it has any relevance in my life now. He did what he needed to do to be happy. Life goes on. I think it has relevance and as far as learning what lesson has been learned (1) You can never trust anybody.(2) once a cheater always a cheater. Does anybody have any other lessons that they learned from this ? I agree I never trust n e one...but friends and family...and never wolves with sharp teeth..in sheeps clothing

sparkleplenty424 Joined Mon 07/21/08 Posts: 463	Fri 08/08/08 05:19 AM
why do people dwell on being cheated on? It's part of life and learning. I got cheated on but I don't think it has any relevance in my life now. He did what he needed to do to be happy. Life goes on. I think it has relevance and as far as learning what lesson has been learned (1) You can never trust anybody.(2) once a cheater always a cheater. Does anybody have any other lessons that they learned from this ? those are not the lessons that I learned. I learned that it takes two to make a relationship work and there is no good guy or bad guy. Had he been happy with me, he would not have cheated. And just because one person in your life succumbed to the demands of their own personal needs does not reflect at all on other people. If you choose not to trust people because one person in your life made a mistake then you are doing that because you want to. And in your second statement you are saying that people are doomed to continue making the same mistakes over and over in their lives. Have you never made a mistake? Do you want people to conclude that no one can be trusted and that you will continue to make the same mistake over and over for the rest of your life? It's just not that simple.

sparkleplenty424 Joined Mon 07/21/08 Posts: 463	Fri 08/08/08 05:19 AM
why do people dwell on being cheated on? It's part of life and learning. I got cheated on but I don't think it has any relevance in my life now. He did what he needed to do to be happy. Life goes on. I think it has relevance and as far as learning what lesson has been learned (1) You can never trust anybody.(2) once a cheater always a cheater. Does anybody have any other lessons that they learned from this ? I agree I never trust n e one...but friends and family...and never wolves with sharp teeth..in sheeps clothing what about if they are wearing spandex?

dragonflywing Joined Wed 03/05/08 Posts: 43	Fri 08/08/08 05:20 AM
Why would you want to make the poor wolves sick.

sparkleplenty424 Joined Mon 07/21/08 Posts: 463	Fri 08/08/08 05:22 AM
Why would you want to make the poor wolves sick. Oh, yah, what was I thinking? Sorry !

moonlight_ride62 Joined Thu 07/03/08 Posts: 4414	Fri 08/08/08 05:24 AM
Why would you want to make the poor wolves sick. Oh, yah, what was I thinking? Sorry ! to the corner for you there fellow