Topic: Do you ever.....
Goofball73's photo
Thu 08/07/08 11:32 AM
Plan on when you will sleep with someone when you begin to date them? I actually know a girl who claims that if a guy makes it to 5 dates, then on the sixth, he will get some. Was wondering if anyone else had this type of philosophy?

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Thu 08/07/08 11:34 AM
I just assume I'll have sex on the first date.








noway

beautyfrompain's photo
Thu 08/07/08 11:34 AM
Sorry...not until marriage.

tanyaann's photo
Thu 08/07/08 11:35 AM

I just assume I'll have sex on the first date.




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Goofball73's photo
Thu 08/07/08 11:36 AM

I just assume I'll have sex on the first date.








noway


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No1sLove's photo
Thu 08/07/08 11:37 AM
It will happen when the time is right for both of us, no sooner and hopefully no later. happy

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Thu 08/07/08 11:38 AM
I don't like it to be planed. But NEVER on the first date.

Goofball73's photo
Thu 08/07/08 11:41 AM

Sorry...not until marriage.


That's cool. Takes discipline to do that, and seeing your faith plays a huge part for you in this, I am sure it gets tested. Kudos.

Ruth34611's photo
Thu 08/07/08 11:42 AM
Nope.

moonlight_ride62's photo
Thu 08/07/08 11:44 AM

Sorry...not until marriage.

never buy a pair of shoes without trying them on...I would never marry someone I had not had sex with first...

sistadiva849's photo
Thu 08/07/08 11:46 AM
i feel that if there is some type of chemistry between u and the other sex then hey go for it... but me personally i have to get to know the person first and then we date and after three months or sooner... then hey why not... but i have to make sure that thats ot all they want me for... and when he proves him self worthy then he will get the chance to have sex with me...

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Thu 08/07/08 11:49 AM

i feel that if there is some type of chemistry between u and the other sex then hey go for it... but me personally i have to get to know the person first and then we date and after three months or sooner... then hey why not... but i have to make sure that thats ot all they want me for... and when he proves him self worthy then he will get the chance to have sex with me...


I agree with this EXCEPT .... insert SHE where she says HE :wink: laugh

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beautyfrompain's photo
Thu 08/07/08 11:52 AM


Sorry...not until marriage.

never buy a pair of shoes without trying them on...I would never marry someone I had not had sex with first...


sex is sex and if you love a person ....you love them for who they are not how they perform in bed.

SuperMom30's photo
Thu 08/07/08 11:57 AM
For me, it happens when it happens. It is usually pretty soon in the relationship. I am trying to change my ways. The reason why I want to be single. happy

Goofball73's photo
Thu 08/07/08 12:09 PM
Believe it or not, I have a strict policy when it comes to sex. Sure, I could be thorough and ask for blood tests, and be able to interview all her ex boyfriends and make them take blood tests. But I am a trusting guy. I develop the relationship with her through conversation (you guys do remember what that is right?) and try to figure out myself if I can trust that person's word.

I will admit, that if she tries to rape me before I am ready for our first sexual encounter, that I am likely to give in. Ya know. Peer pressure...I'm far too sensitive.laugh

merlin2525's photo
Thu 08/07/08 12:12 PM

Believe it or not, I have a strict policy when it comes to sex. Sure, I could be thorough and ask for blood tests, and be able to interview all her ex boyfriends and make them take blood tests. But I am a trusting guy. I develop the relationship with her through conversation (you guys do remember what that is right?) and try to figure out myself if I can trust that person's word.

I will admit, that if she tries to rape me before I am ready for our first sexual encounter, that I am likely to give in. Ya know. Peer pressure...I'm far too sensitive.laugh

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DQ66's photo
Thu 08/07/08 12:32 PM
No set number here. It'll happen when the time/feeling is right. Maybe first date, maybe 5th date. :wink: I try to wait until at least the second date though rofl