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Topic: Could you steal another one's love?
Mrtap's photo
Wed 08/06/08 11:16 AM
Edited by Mrtap on Wed 08/06/08 11:16 AM
no because they are your friends would you want your friend to do that, when I was younger my best friend girlfriend hit on me I warn her once not to go there and stay true to my friend.

Mrtap's photo
Wed 08/06/08 11:17 AM
bad thing is she was hot. but friends first

ricg's photo
Wed 08/06/08 11:19 AM

The situation is this (and this is hypothetical). You are friends with a person. You and this person are close, in fact, you could say you are best friends. Now, this friend of yours is in a relationship, and up until it started to get very serious between the two of them, it didn't bother you. But suddenly, you have these feelings coming on strong, and you realize that you truly love your friend. Moreover, you realize that you are in love with them. But what can you do? Do you dare tell them? Could you steal another one's love? Discuss.
steal..?harsh words,borrow, OK

ricg's photo
Wed 08/06/08 11:19 AM

The situation is this (and this is hypothetical). You are friends with a person. You and this person are close, in fact, you could say you are best friends. Now, this friend of yours is in a relationship, and up until it started to get very serious between the two of them, it didn't bother you. But suddenly, you have these feelings coming on strong, and you realize that you truly love your friend. Moreover, you realize that you are in love with them. But what can you do? Do you dare tell them? Could you steal another one's love? Discuss.
steal..?harsh words,borrow, OK

RoamingOrator's photo
Wed 08/06/08 11:29 AM
Would I steal a girlfriend from a buddy (I think this is what you are hinting at)? No, not a chance.
If he broke up with her would I go out with her after my buddy broke up with her? Depends on the friend. I know it sounds weird, but some of my buddies wouldn't care if I dated an ex. Might be a small town thing, we've all dated someones ex in a town the size of mine.
Of course, with some of my friends, I'd want nothing to do with the kind of woman that would have anything to do with them. laugh

If the friend was a female (not how question was phrased, but will answer), once again, I wouldn't (intentionally or knowingly) break them up just so I could go out with her. I probably wouldn't ask her out even if she dumped him later. I made the mistake of asking a friend out once, the second she realize it was a date, our friendship was over for good. I'll never make that mistake again, no matter how much I love my friend. I'd rather have a friend than nothing.

If I don't know them, but know they are a couple, that woman is mine!!!pitchfork If I could steal a woman from a pro athelete (and I did), I can steal one from any man. laugh

FreeToB's photo
Wed 08/06/08 11:37 AM
Phew! Gotta million things to say to that but the one thing that keeps popping into my head is you can't steal love. You can barely BUY it! lol

I've been in the same boat but let her go on and get with this guy...who I knew was a player and a jerkoff. Just advised her that she should not trust what men say just because they say it. Sorry guys but girls are right...most men ARE jerks. She dumped him and is still my friend, which ain't gettin' my nut but is good for us both. It's good to have a friend but better to be one. ummm, OK...some sex would be nice but....................................

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