Topic: What Do You Do
TRACYLY's photo
Wed 03/14/07 09:02 PM
What Do you do when you are in a relationship Ans the person your with
says i love and you dont feel the same way i care about the person i
just dont love the person Need Advice What should I do Thanks

buttons's photo
Wed 03/14/07 09:03 PM
leave it

buttons's photo
Wed 03/14/07 09:03 PM
why waste your time or his? all that would be is a game and u will hurt
him more

Duffy's photo
Wed 03/14/07 09:05 PM
well, like i told the other guy about religion, go to the pope. about
love, go to dear abby.

no photo
Wed 03/14/07 09:05 PM
You tell them how you feel. If you don't then you could lead them to
think that you love the other person also. Just be honest.

TRACYLY's photo
Wed 03/14/07 09:07 PM
I have told him that i care for him but as of right now that is all

no photo
Wed 03/14/07 09:10 PM
Tell him..be honest and open..if not then you'll end up hurting him and
since you care for him then you wouldn't want to hurt him...and be
honest with yourself too....

buttons's photo
Wed 03/14/07 09:11 PM
as of for now just gives him hope.... that is a game let him go

BillRoot's photo
Wed 03/14/07 09:15 PM
Be open,be honist,be real,be you!flowerforyou :wink:

Redykeulous's photo
Wed 03/14/07 09:21 PM
If you are having feelings for this person, but you're just not ready
for commitment, tell them. If you care for this person but know you
will never have a truely committed, long term relationship, I have to
agree with buttons - LET IT GO!

Don't fall into a trap by being a the "nice guy". You fool more than
that person, you may fool yourself and it will just lead to heartache
and drama and you may end up missing out on something else because of
it.

Duffy's photo
Wed 03/14/07 09:42 PM
how does anyone know what she should do...she is confused, so consult a
crystal ball.

mistyblue2012's photo
Wed 03/14/07 09:45 PM
Be honest with him...if you truly care about him then don't hurt him by
stringing him along. He'll thank you for it in the long run. Sometimes
the toughest thing to do is the only right thing. I guess that is why so
many people still play games.

nurjoyce's photo
Wed 03/14/07 09:54 PM
I agree with Misty.
You are encouraging him if you are not honest with him.

DANE1973's photo
Wed 03/14/07 10:03 PM
I have told mine not to say it until she feels it.Even if I were to say
it to her first. If you don't feel it don't do it, Just spells problems
later if you do.

TRACYLY's photo
Wed 03/14/07 10:19 PM
thanks everyone, goodnight

Clifton1975's photo
Wed 03/14/07 10:26 PM
JUST LET GO!!!!!