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Topic: non-threatening
Frostytall Joined Fri 04/25/08 Posts: 75	Mon 08/04/08 06:37 PM
I was recently described as non-threatening. Is that bad? I don't think that she meant it in a good way.

ledi180 Joined Sun 04/15/07 Posts: 5910	Mon 08/04/08 06:38 PM
In what context? Everything can be taken a dozen different ways.

Frostytall Joined Fri 04/25/08 Posts: 75	Mon 08/04/08 06:48 PM
In what context? Everything can be taken a dozen different ways. She just said there is something non threatening about me and that she was comfortable with me.

ledi180 Joined Sun 04/15/07 Posts: 5910	Mon 08/04/08 06:49 PM
If she's comfortable with you, that's a good thing. It's not always easy for us ladies to feel at ease with a guy - if she does, you're doing something right - in my opinion anyway

darkowl1 Joined Sat 01/12/08 Posts: 13060	Mon 08/04/08 06:50 PM Edited by darkowl1 on Mon 08/04/08 06:52 PM
that's awesome, just be yourself, and someone will appreciate that quality. what she ment was, that you're not james dean enough for her, and she needs to feel that you are two steps ahead to give her a challenge, which brings to storybook romance bull sh!t and it's not real anyway, and until she gets rid of that illusion, she'll keep running into abusive men which are her comfort zone. on the other hand, if she's comfortable with you , forget what i said!!!

somewhatshy2 Joined Sat 03/29/08 Posts: 1758	Mon 08/04/08 06:52 PM
when I tell a man they are non threatening, I mean it in the nicest way...it means I feel very comfortable with them and not afraid they will do something to me. Take it as a compliment

sparkleplenty424 Joined Mon 07/21/08 Posts: 463	Mon 08/04/08 06:55 PM
you are not a Billy badazz and that is a good thing.

Voluptuous Joined Tue 12/18/07 Posts: 1203	Mon 08/04/08 06:56 PM
I was recently described as non-threatening. Is that bad? I don't think that she meant it in a good way. Wuuuuusssssssssssss!

darkowl1 Joined Sat 01/12/08 Posts: 13060	Mon 08/04/08 06:57 PM
if she blows it, there looks like people that appreciate you here anyway!!!

darkowl1 Joined Sat 01/12/08 Posts: 13060	Mon 08/04/08 07:08 PM
you're not a wuss man, quiet understanding is a tremendous stength and a virtue, although some think it's a weakness, for they are too material and caught up in today's ways and vicious circles, for they can't see past all the advertizing and packaging of what they think they are supposed to be. on the other hand, all this has made me less friendly, and prone to hunt bullies with much glee

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