I agree,
My idea of love is a love where you care enough for the other person that you want what is the absolute best for them and not a selfish love at all and where you'd never do anything to hurt the other person becuase of the fact you care you put their feelings ahead of your own..."love is not self-seeking" it requires sacrifice on both parts....so being in love with two people at the same time?...don't think it is possible...although it is very possible to be attracted/infatuated with two people...it's what actions you take when those situations arise that defines love in my opinion. Love is work, not a feeling, although it is also both. that's JMHO