If your upset with someone, and you don't want to talk to him/her anymore........do you tell him/her about the reason, or you just stop talking to him/her?

Plz dont stop talking to me! I promise I will behave myself

Put it out on the table....play straight up! No games.

I give an explanation.

right on!!!

tell'em im not into head games,but from a playa i dont know if that means much

Depends on the severity of the situation, if it is someone I am/was close to, I'll tell them, if it's someone I don't care much for in the first place... they'll get the hint.

Most of the time I give myself a "time out" from them and lengthen the leash... if they don't respect it, I stop talking to them all together.

Be sure to tell them the reason to keep them from going into a complete mental breakdown and never leave you alone.

If they keep bugging you about everything then you might have to hurt them.

Don't protect people too much from being hurt because it is unavoidable.

I tell 'em...

Good Question..

Mhh depends on the person.I am usually really blunt..and my feelings come first..so if they were violated, then I fel that I have the right to let the other person have it..and let thm know why I am upset..and it is better to let that stink go, before you continue a conversation w/ them again.
But if it is a person I don't give a damn about..they IO just let it be..and not waste anymore energy, and cut them off cold..especially if I feel that they knew what they have done wrong.

I will always try and talk to the person, but some are so intent on being right or carrying around anger it becomes pointless

I would tell them.. since I'd want someone to tell me if they were upset with me.

Tell it like it is. They deserve an explaination, I know I would want one if someone stopped talking to me.

I told someone once I didn't want to talk to them for a day, they then flew off the handle and freaked out and tried to get all of my friends to hate me... didn't pan out for them all too well.

If I'm upset with someone I kick em in the nuts . . no usually I try talking if I am comfortable with them enough to lay it on the table and if I don't really like em in the first place enough for that I usually don't talk to them anymore

I would tell them unless you already did and they keep doing it...no sense in talking to a wall unless your schizo.lol

Well, if you don't want to talk to the person anymore I guess they did something pretty bad...

But really, how can the person apologize for what they did, or fix the situation if you don't tell them what they did wrong or why you're so mad.

If I'm that mad though, it might be a good idea to stay away until I cool off. Because then I might say something that'd make you not want to talk to me....