I'm strong, yeah it will hurt but please tell me why I can't find someone to love me? See my picture and read my profile, is there something I can do to improve on the profile? Am I just so butte ugly no one wants to even look at me?

I think we all feel that way sometimes. Have patience.

You are ok. (But, i live more than 100 miles away from you.) So, i am not able to send you any notes.

You may also want to try increasing your limit on the milage that someone can contact you. There just may be someone willing to move to that area for you if you are not planning to relocate where they are. But being friends first is a big step, and putting limits for friends lowers your chances. JMO

There is absolutely nothing wrong with you that I can see...

Your Profile is fine, if those are the restrictions you want.

Just keep "Mingling"

just so you know...you are not alone...

i have asked myself this question alot the last few years...

i have been told many things like: you have to love yourself first... keep busy...fill your time with what you do best... i have worked on self love and know that i do love myself (but of course with humility and quietly)...and im working keeping busy...reading/working on my art/keeping house/...but there is a hole...when the evening comes...when the stars twinkle...

i am missing real people in my life...is this wrong? am i odd to feel this way? i am constantly told to move on and forget it...but there is an emptiness that doesnt feel so good...do tell...is this what you are feeling too?

no substitute for real

maby some of us is a bit picky?????u think

p.s. did you get the front porch cleaned up :)

Stick to what you are looking for then you will be truly happy. Have you tried any older Christian single groups? I say don't settle.

absolutely carold...i agree...to settle is not fair to either party...even if i am not a sweet young thing anymore i still will take my chances on true love...i think we would all be happier if we did...but like i said its a bit of a trial waiting...

that sure is true :)

I look fo fiends first, then I will be able to decide if "friends" is where I
want to be.

That's exactly what I'm feeling, Indi. Also, it seems the ones I do meet think I have slut wrote on my forehead. I'm not a prude but I'm not cheap either. I want to save myself for true love. Men should think about wanting sex with so many women, what if they fall in love with a woman that has been with a lot of men?

Not that I am a prude, either, I also understand that what is in the past is in the past, unless, of course, if disease is involved..Then it is not "how or why", but "how are you doing"....

I changed my mileage choice to any distance. If someone wants to relocate that would be great. But I couldn't relocate unless they would be willing to support me. I have a great job and my family here...all but one daughter and her family and they are in Louisiana.

Not sure if you are saying you are picky and I'm not your cup of tea or if you are saying I'm being picky, I don't feel I am asking too much. I have my wants down because I assumed it would give men an idea of what they should at least be range of.

I don't want someone that will sponge off me. I would like them to be able to read the back of a cereal box and carry on a civilized conversation. I would like someone that loves to laugh as much as I do.

Too me the package (the outter body) doesn't matter, it's the gift inside (heart, soul, compassion). Is that too picky?

I've tried everything. I've been on these sites for a year. I go to bed at night and pray for God to send me a good man that will love me.

Why does it say no answer on your marriage status, that would make me wonder. Have faith maybe a man is not what God thinks you need right now or it is not the time. I tell you give me a good friend any day. Friends in this world make a difference. Male or female

I didn't realize it said no answer. I am DIVORCED! yeeks!